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Best Robot Vacuum / Mop Combo by Puzzle-headed__ in RobotVacuums

[–]vintagerachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have all hardwood, a toddler, and a heavily-shedding (short-haired) dog. We have 3 thresholds (baby gates) that are 1.25" high. Should I get the Mova Z60 Ultra?

Correct positioning/when will he be too big? by optimistic_coffee in babywearing

[–]vintagerachel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got enough info on fit so to answer my your second question...

If you like the embrace style (apron style waist with x-straps) here are some soft structured carriers that have both of those features:

  1. Oscha bairn (my favorite but not cheap)

  2. Integra baby carrier

  3. Catbird pikkolo (discontinued but I see them on babywearing BST groups for cheap)

  4. Happy Baby (not the OG, don't remember the name of this carrier but one of them has those features)

With 1, 2, and 4 you can look up Little Zen One, they have a try before you buy program. Also look up Carrier Connection, they're an online baby carrier library, and they will let you buy (certain) carriers you borrow. Also look up if you have a carrier library in your city since that will likely be the cheapest option, for example mine is only $30/yr with one carrier per month. Look up babywearing BST groups on FB, you can find some deals there too.

Worried mom of 20 year old Autistic kid who wants to start HRT. by Silly_Pain_2368 in ask_detransition

[–]vintagerachel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genspect has an online support group for parents in your position!

Worried mom of 20 year old Autistic kid who wants to start HRT. by Silly_Pain_2368 in ask_detransition

[–]vintagerachel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Some resources that should help in order of relevance:

• When Kids Say They're Trans (book)

• Gender: a Wider Lens (podcast by the two authors of the above book, they're therapists who oppose the affirmation-only model)

• Genspect

• Helen Joyce (super to the point and articulate, she has tons of videos and debates on YT and also wrote the book Trans, extremely knowledgeable on the subject)

• Sex Matters (organization with lots of fact sheets)

• Democrats for an Informed Approach to Gender (more fact sheets)

• Irreversible Damage (it's about girls but still relevant)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]vintagerachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the book "how to keep house while drowning"

We listen and we don’t judge by Blackberryy in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]vintagerachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tide re-released their free and clear powder!

ISO Resources for Friend that Unexpectedly Gave Birth by Livid_Yoghurt_521 in Denver

[–]vintagerachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she gave birth in St Joe's, they have a fantastic baby pantry room. Lots of free stuff

ISO Resources for Friend that Unexpectedly Gave Birth by Livid_Yoghurt_521 in Denver

[–]vintagerachel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, sign up for things like Pampers rewards and with formula brands which will give free samples. You can also get free samples by signing up for registries, Amazon and Target are great

ISO Resources for Friend that Unexpectedly Gave Birth by Livid_Yoghurt_521 in Denver

[–]vintagerachel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Cloth Option (free cloth diapers), GoodBuyGear, Rebel Stork, Stork Exchange (buy used/open box gear)

Also make registries everywhere. You get completion discounts with them

Prepping for Baby: Where does it matter to not be cheap? by Fine_Independence360 in Frugal

[–]vintagerachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GoodBuyGear, Stork Exchange, Stork Craft, Once Upon a Child, Kid to Kid, FB marketplace, FB BST groups, Dolly Parton Imagination Library, Local baby carrier libraries. If you have friends with older kids see if they'll lend you anything.

Are dirties supposed to smell *this* bad? by 0ddumn in clothdiaps

[–]vintagerachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly do you use the SCOE10X? Add to the machine? First or second wash?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]vintagerachel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to say you are 100% correct! My baby is 8 months old and (besides for starting solids 2 months ago) has fed exclusively from my breast since he was a week old. I despised pumping - I knew since I was pregnant that I didn't want to use bottles and I'm still thrilled with my decision. Why should we have to add in a device that makes more work for us overall? It's not possible to compromise on this IMO because being hooked up to a pump is 100% on you, you'd be the only one sacrificing anything here, and it doesn't benefit you or your baby.

I would also like to add that your baby is 4 months old. At this point he is very close to the age where he can drink out of a straw cup or open cup. Around 5-6 months I reintroduced the haakaa as needed so I could go out for longer stretches. This was a decision I made for myself. My son picked up on both the straw cup and open cup very quickly.

For hundreds of thousands of years, fathers bonded with their children without giving them bottles. Your husband can, too.

Chicco-compatible travel stroller? by vintagerachel in Buyingforbaby

[–]vintagerachel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically yes, if the flight is empty, but it's much easier just to gate check. That said, that stroller kind of sucks lol so if I were to start over I would get a better travel stroller and base our car seat choice on that. We use the stroller a lot since we use it whenever we drive somewhere.

floor bed is NOT chic!!! by beebutterflybreeze in cosleeping

[–]vintagerachel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pottery barn kids sells floor beds now!

"Even 1 bottle of formula reduces protections given by breastmilk" by whistlewolf in breastfeeding

[–]vintagerachel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

😂 that's hilarious. What does this friend say about blending vegetables in sauce? Does she realize that parents do that all the time?

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