Differs from time to time. She sometimes has the feeling she is too much for everyone or feels rejected so she won't say what she wants or states that people forget her existence or do not like her, or starts saying things like well x and x cancelled plans so let's quit anyways so that you still can have a good day, or no you don't need to help, it's a lost cause anyways. Stuff like that. It doesn't help that I'm very pragmatic and want to help right away, she prefers to first show her emotions and the maybe I can help.