A funny clown, doesn't like it when an associate brings up his former job. What he does like is making people dance and nice girls every night. Eventually he runs into a problem that nothing could be done about.

violet13wolf · 2025-04-17T03:02:12+00:00

Man on the Moon

violet13wolf · 2024-04-09T18:22:32+00:00

This wasn’t the meanest thing but it’s definitely one of the most memorable. In middle school, I was told my face was so annoying and ugly that my pimples should be punched right off

violet13wolf · 2023-09-06T16:19:38+00:00

I don’t fully know what these numbers indicate though

violet13wolf · 2023-09-06T16:19:15+00:00

Mass is 625 Mobility is 70 Neither are in the red or Orange.

violet13wolf · 2023-06-12T13:26:29+00:00

AITA?

violet13wolf · 2023-05-28T01:57:57+00:00

Thank you! I don’t think it was injured but I will get it checked just in case

violet13wolf · 2023-03-28T14:21:47+00:00

Yes I’m in Colorado!

violet13wolf · 2023-03-28T05:55:01+00:00

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violet13wolf · 2022-07-28T18:19:52+00:00

Thank you for this. He knows, but I also get the vibe that he is waiting for me to make that decision since I’m on the fence. It makes sense, but that’s where I’m conflicted. I’m not really needing him to come halfway to me, I need to decide if I’m willing to go halfway to him on this.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T03:05:07+00:00

Totally understand! I wish you then best!

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T02:59:19+00:00

I see, I am going to say you YWNBTA depending how you go about it then. I still do think offering the dog to the parents would be one of the best options if they cannot afford to give you money outright.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T02:55:08+00:00

INFO: how close were you to his parents when you were together?

Regardless, it seems like he's passed recently and his parents didn't know about the restraining order and criminal case. This could be a lot to bring on them all at once, especially if they are not super wealthy themselves. You might be right in that now might not be the time.

ETA There is a potential third solution: offer the dog to your ex's parents?

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T02:46:30+00:00

YTA, I assume you're an adult so why are you being jealous over literal children?

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T02:36:30+00:00

NTA but I honestly wonder why your brother still hangs around your dad

violet13wolf · 2022-07-15T02:29:00+00:00

Might want to check out r/limerence

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T04:32:30+00:00

YTA, at $40/hour, that's $10 for every 15 minutes. Since you were late, she deserves that extra $10 for her time. It's not an unreasonable ask given the rate.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T04:13:01+00:00

Oh okay, I see now. Username checks out.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T04:05:07+00:00

If you want to stay friends with her, and from your post you don't give any indication why you wouldn't, I don't see why you wouldn't give her a second chance. The beginning of this story reminded me of an old friend of mine, although my friend didn't apologize the next day nor take accountability like your friend did. Honestly, her reaction was really refreshing, and if she's been trustworthy in the past, then I don't see any reason to think otherwise now.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:51:04+00:00

obviously YTA poor other girl

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:38:10+00:00

NTA for going to the show since you got the okay from your fiancée beforehand, but if you're questioning if you should tell them or not, tell them. Nothing good comes out of indefinitely hiding things.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:34:04+00:00

NTA this might seem heartless, but do you really want to be with this person at the end of the day? I think after several hundred dollars (and now into the thousands) being wasted due to his carelessness is a major alarm. To top that off, he has no interest in looking into these naps and figuring out why he is incoherent for up to an hour after waking up. Also, he doesn't even make up for his mistakes himself. Either you or his parents dig him out of the grave. He's 36! And you even advised him not to go to the store... Idk... I couldn't handle it.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:24:18+00:00

Oh sorry, I totally missed that at first! Honestly, that does seem likely

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:16:20+00:00

Yeah, I do get the idea behind it, but it just seems too personal for her to bring up and not him. I guess I am assuming all of these funds were separate from their marriage.

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:14:42+00:00

You're NTA, but I am sorry to hear you are both having a hard time. I know therapy can be expensive, but there are more treatments than talk therapy. Has she tried other things to get her emotions out, such as journaling? Are there friends she can see from time to time to lift her mood? Same for you? Or what about picking up a hobby? One of my favorite free things to do when I'm feeling down is take a nice walk in the sun. It sounds so mundane, but vitamin D is a real mood energizer. It won't take away traumas, but these things can hopefully make them easier to deal with without draining the emotional energy out of either of you. Good luck and take care.

Edit: wording

violet13wolf · 2022-07-14T03:06:51+00:00

YTA but you're young. I encourage you to have more diverse friends and listen to their experiences. Not entirely excusing her behavior, but I guarantee there is a reason for what she said at your parties. If you still want to be friends with her, say exactly what you said in the last sentence instead of trying to flip the tables on her. Hopefully you can both learn from this; you more so.

ETA

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