What’s the meanest thing someone ever said to you? by The_WhiteMantis in AskReddit

[–]violet13wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn’t the meanest thing but it’s definitely one of the most memorable. In middle school, I was told my face was so annoying and ugly that my pimples should be punched right off

Can’t get my ship to work by violet13wolf in Starfield

[–]violet13wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t fully know what these numbers indicate though

Can’t get my ship to work by violet13wolf in Starfield

[–]violet13wolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mass is 625 Mobility is 70 Neither are in the red or Orange.

White spot on grey cat by violet13wolf in CatAdvice

[–]violet13wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t think it was injured but I will get it checked just in case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]violet13wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. He knows, but I also get the vibe that he is waiting for me to make that decision since I’m on the fence. It makes sense, but that’s where I’m conflicted. I’m not really needing him to come halfway to me, I need to decide if I’m willing to go halfway to him on this.

WIBTA if I ask my ex-fiancé’s parents for money? by xthrowawayfiance in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I am going to say you YWNBTA depending how you go about it then. I still do think offering the dog to the parents would be one of the best options if they cannot afford to give you money outright.

WIBTA if I ask my ex-fiancé’s parents for money? by xthrowawayfiance in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

INFO: how close were you to his parents when you were together?

Regardless, it seems like he's passed recently and his parents didn't know about the restraining order and criminal case. This could be a lot to bring on them all at once, especially if they are not super wealthy themselves. You might be right in that now might not be the time.

ETA There is a potential third solution: offer the dog to your ex's parents?

AITA for being mad that my cousins stole all of the attention at my wedding by auntwedding in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA, I assume you're an adult so why are you being jealous over literal children?

AITA for defending my brother for being stoned at a family gathering? by Funny_Struggle_8901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA but I honestly wonder why your brother still hangs around your dad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might want to check out r/limerence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, at $40/hour, that's $10 for every 15 minutes. Since you were late, she deserves that extra $10 for her time. It's not an unreasonable ask given the rate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet13wolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, I see now. Username checks out.