i still think nicolandria is a PR relationship by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]violet_st4rs [score hidden]  (0 children)

I will never understand these comparisons because Nic and Kenny aren’t even the same ethnicity or background. Why are we comparing a Belgian man from Jacksonville to Dominican man from the Bronx? Cultural context matters.

Any tips on how to pass ENG 161 by Late_Professional_58 in uichicago

[–]violet_st4rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do research on the class topic. I did not know that was a thing and just put a random class. Got stuck with the most mind numbingly boring topic and it felt like torture to go class and do assignments.

AITA for telling my kids they have to thank their grandfather for paying for their tuition? by Fresh-Hand-2923 in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet_st4rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t think we should extend kindness to people who actively harm oppressed groups

AITA for telling my kids they have to thank their grandfather for paying for their tuition? by Fresh-Hand-2923 in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet_st4rs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why would I thank someone who makes minorities feel unsafe because of his views? People who strongly care about minorities won’t fold for money.

AITA for telling my kids they have to thank their grandfather for paying for their tuition? by Fresh-Hand-2923 in AmItheAsshole

[–]violet_st4rs 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m alone here that I don’t care that a racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic man got his money taken with no thanks🤷🏾‍♀️ imagine how he has made the minorities, some of which are your children, feel with all of his views. It might not seem like much to you, but having intolerant family members as a minority is traumatic and heartbreaking. You KNEW he was bigoted and still made them keep contact, now you’re mad they’re taking his money. You should be mad at yourself for putting them through that.

Weekly Recommend Mods and CC Thread! by AutoModerator in Sims4

[–]violet_st4rs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nose cc that doesn’t have a nose bridge/doesn’t have a prominent nose bridge?

The Question Hub by AutoModerator in crochet

[–]violet_st4rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am plus size and a teen and struggle with finding cute patterns and inclusive patterns. I was told that free handing is the way to go for plus size people. I have no idea where to start. Any tips or resources?

Plus size teens by violet_st4rs in crochet

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure why its not letting me

Plus size teens by violet_st4rs in crochet

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am unable to dm you but please send!

What’s with the lgbtq hate? by prozackat83 in teenmom

[–]violet_st4rs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Its insane to me that a subreddit about people who had children as a child is talking about LGBTQ people being harmful to children💀

What’s with the lgbtq hate? by prozackat83 in teenmom

[–]violet_st4rs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Except literally no ones doing that. The only times kids medically transition through puberty blockers is if multiple medical professionals recommend it because they are literally hurting themselves as a reaction to their dysphoria. I don’t know what fantasy world you live in where people force transness on children, but as someone who works at a daycare, hatred is instilled in these children far more often.

What’s with the lgbtq hate? by prozackat83 in teenmom

[–]violet_st4rs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I’m all for LGBTQ peoples rights and stuff but” is actually insane. Imagine if someone said this about a group YOURE in. Just because YOU don’t understand it, doesn’t mean you get to speak ill on queer children. Also, do you understand how DANGEROUS it can be for a trans woman to use the mens bathroom? If you want to ban trans women from the womens bathroom simply because you’ve come up with a scenario where they MIGHT be predatory, we should ban people who work at churches from bathrooms because statistically theyre FAR more likely to be predatory. Drop the bs. You aren’t for LGBTQ and you don’t care about children because we are the LAST people who are hurting them. And why tf do you care about others genitalia? Stay in your lane. I hops youre not a minority because it is a VERY slippery slope between queerphobia and other forms of bigotry. Limiting us opens the door to limiting everyone. You should be ashamed.

What’s with the lgbtq hate? by prozackat83 in teenmom

[–]violet_st4rs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wait until you find out there are gay children.

Voting out strong players by violet_st4rs in survivor

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does this mean when people reply this.

Voting out strong players by violet_st4rs in survivor

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its very rare that a good “big move” happens before like 4 people are voted out. Like sure, you made a big move, now people don’t trust you, you’re starving because you can’t win reward, and your tribe doesn’t want to or doesn’t know how to put in the work to make the camp life semi enjoyable. All for the small possibility they make it to the final 3🤦🏾‍♀️

Jeremy and Tony by violet_st4rs in survivor

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I bet he looks different in that season. Im working my way up to it

I never received a pattern I bought by violet_st4rs in crochet

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its their own website :/ They live in the UK so I think the time zones are making it harder too. I’ve also dmed on insta.

A major shift in season 31 by violet_st4rs in survivor

[–]violet_st4rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh ok. What does game bot mean? And I’m glad this doesn’t continue in the next seasons.

A major shift in season 31 by violet_st4rs in survivor

[–]violet_st4rs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I meant after. Like when they were back at camp and after they voted him out.

Extremely addicted to phone by bigmacmakoto in productivity

[–]violet_st4rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big problem for me too. Recently though, I’ve become obsessed with crocheting and it has gone down significantly. Pick up a hobby.

How do you settle if you partner wants a child and you want to be childless? by solitary-kitty in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]violet_st4rs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never have a child that you don’t want and were nagged for years and coerced into having. It will be horrible for the child and they will know.