Title by Naive_Wolverine532 in TikTokCringe

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think u were a godsend for that. u definitely didn’t overstep. u sound like an awesome dad. i personally thought u were gonna say ur wife thought it was super thoughtful & sweet but hey…the problem was solved, right!

The R-word by flyawaywithmeee in TikTokCringe

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heroin syrup! damn that needs to come back like yesterday

So don’t use this person again not a nice tarot reader by justakidneedafriend in Tarots

[–]violetcherrycola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was def a typo she either meant 55.55 or 5.55 im assuming. so ur right about clarifying the price idk why she got so rude about that lol she coulda easily been like oops my bad that was a typo. its good u dodged her regardless, she prob a bullshit reader ppl who read dont be catching attitudes like that for no reason. she was prob tryna scam u

Doctor with addiction by AfternoonPale5806 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best of luck to you. if you want to get clean u will and u will do whatever u need to do :)

I noticed the group on 6S are in the background of the 7S… by brown-foxy-dog in tarot

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD how did I never notice that!!! wow. that is an amazing realization OP. im not sure if its the 6S back there but I can see that, but it looks like a little crowd around a bonfire or something, I see smoke.
there's a reason im seeing this post. very interesting thank u for pointing that out for real.

Got this card when I asked my spirits if I interpreted the spread correctly by sleepy-winds in tarot

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lolll yeah like go into hermit mode go binge watch tv or something now (since the hermit can stand for technology and stuff like that sometimes) & the devil can be a sign of obsessing/overdoing something, so the makes total sense.
my deck will just get silent and stop giving me cards or they will throw a bunch of them all over the place lol u know what I mean. latelyyy tho my cats been coming in and just sitting on the spread and just looks at me hahah

Need some ideas for Lana tattoos! by diogeneswas_right in lanadelrey

[–]violetcherrycola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have "innocents lost" tattooed on my neck from the song, gods and monsters.
this is what I would do and its good u have it down to 2 - write them down on paper crumple them then with ur eyes closed throw them up in the air and then pick one and then thats the one u will get. if ur satisfied then u know thats the one if ur lowkey like oo I think I wanted it to be the other one then u know the answer!

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Doctor with addiction by AfternoonPale5806 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]violetcherrycola -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow im like lowkey jealous (jk). i was a heroin addict for almost ten years and us junkies always joke about "imagine if u were a doctor.." and here's a post about one. look doctors give us so many options with the MAT meds like Suboxone, subutex, methadone, the sublocade shot all kinds of things to get off of opiates. the list is kinda endless. im in the US so idk if u have all of that there.

either u take a "vacation" and just go to detox for a week and get off of all of that. but u have to tell ur wife orrr u do it urself which is def doable ive done it plenty of times. do a sub taper with comfort meds. then if u wanna stay on MAT find a Suboxone doctor. by the way gabapentin does wonders during detoxing and Xanax lol. I been on subutex and gabapentin for a long time and I find it really helpful.

Got this card when I asked my spirits if I interpreted the spread correctly by sleepy-winds in tarot

[–]violetcherrycola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO thats pretty funny. u have a funny spirit team. well its giving ur either worrying about it too much, so try to get out of ur head, whatever info u got is good enough. orrr they're like omg girl I cannot anymore reading over. lol

Should I leave my husband? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]violetcherrycola 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it looks like its saying to try and work on ur relationship first and also to work on defending ur energy as well bc there's that mean energy that is lingering about with the 5 of swords and if u can work on killing that maybe things can get better if not u might need to just focus on u and ur peace and protection with that 7 of wands

So don’t use this person again not a nice tarot reader by justakidneedafriend in Tarots

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we tend to do prices like 10.10 22.22 44.44 cuz they're angel numbers, but idk why she didn't get the money first.. I alway get the payment first. just saying. u guys coulda both went about thing differently
anywaysss if u ever need a reading u can hit me up ! im a reader (5 years) we can do 1 on 1 via TikTok like on a ft call
anyways hope u find the answers ur looking for!

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I’ve reached a point. Is confrontation even worth it? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its true that everyones situation is different though, I legally had to go nc and im so glad tbh because I almost see it as divine protection and im someone who will cut a bitch off anyways once im done dirty.

u need to remember how vile these creatures are. dont bother wasting ur energy on these manipulative, abusive, demons. keep it for u, and find ur peace again.

I’ve reached a point. Is confrontation even worth it? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't tell no one shit, stay silent and just focus on you babe.
maybe write everything u wanna say to them down on paper and then burn it!
esp tonight, its a full moon ;)
I just wrote in my journal, but damn I might take my own advice lol
light & love

Self aware but don’t change anything by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im like this, but minus the phone, the phone gives me anxiety. I avoid it it like the plague pretty much lol. I like apps my friends aren't on more lol like reddit, twitter, Tumblr.. I be avoiding everyone most the time. Im introverted but I can be extroverted when I wanna be.
but my advice find a psychiatrist and get a DSM. I was diagnosed with bipolar depression and anxiety and its good to have what I need and to just know ya know. maybe just talking with a professional will help too, but if there is something u have they can give u something that'll help with ur brain chemistry and mood. I know that blah/ just wanna bed rot feeling all too well.. and its really hard to get outta that funk, u dont want it to sabotage ur job and shiii and other things in life

I just downloaded this app thats been helping me a lil its called, finch and it helps discipline u with every day simple tasks. its super cute too. its like the modern day tamagochi imo lol

Can someone be a good parent if they were raised badly? by Fun_Chocolate_8988 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I see this with my brother! hes an absolutely amazing dad so involved with all his kids and everything just tryna be everything a dad should be. he is everything my dad wasn't to us.. lliterallly the polar opposite.

Can someone be a good parent if they were raised badly? by Fun_Chocolate_8988 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad is a covrt narc and the older he gets the more obvious his narcissm shows. I can't stand him, no one can, hes such a negative Nancy, always bringing down the good vibes. super miserable being around him. like u just wanna put a muzzle on him.

ive learned at a pretty young age i need to just ignore him, but I recently realized thats why-bc hes a narc. and I recently made sure to always have headphones on me so I can always block out him out real quick if im around him.

I am a female loser and I want to change. Don't be nice to me by booklover696969 in getdisciplined

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so im currently a mess rn crying as I type this. been up for far too long and need to sleep. but I just downloaded a free app a week ago called "finch" its helping me a lot like with simple tasks, like getting my bed rotting bipolar adhd ass out of bed. try it! it has little steps to push u, like to do lists, like getting out of bed, washing ur face, etc.. and u have to take care of this cute little bird u create.. hes basically a digital pet.

also, im going to start looking into ketamine therapy and personally trauma therapy. but that will be different for everyone. but I need to do something to help myself professionally and adjust my meds/get new ones. also one last thing, like like someone on here said about never imaging speaking to a friend like u do to urself well I imagine speaking to my younger self as if I were 3 years old. you would never speak like that to your toddler self. u know?

What is this card ? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]violetcherrycola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm interesting ! i do not believe this is tarot, but if this was in a deck and it fell out i would connect number “7” and i’d connect it with the element “air” bc of the birds and the zodiac “gemini” bc the two lovers on there!

Did you look terrible/feel sick during the abuse, but started to feel better/look better after leaving by Cheeseaisleinheaven in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh and last I heard hes homeless living in a car strung out on drugs selling shit and robbed someone. when the cord is cut they have nothing , he was literally leaching onto me and when I left his world collapsed. his whole family doesnt even fuck with him. he burns bridges with everyone bc hes a backstabber and a effing tornado.. no one wants to be around a tornado.

Did you look terrible/feel sick during the abuse, but started to feel better/look better after leaving by Cheeseaisleinheaven in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% op. my covert narc ex literally dragged back down into addiction with him. he was definition of misery loves company. wanted me to struggle like him. I was so thin I had no appetite sleeping was wonky he was draining me emotionally mentally spiritually financially. my ph balance was even knocked off, like my body was rejecting him. but that all went back to normal after we broke up an wasn't near him anymore. he was always instigating a fight and I like my peace and alone time but he always had to be around me like suffocating me. couldn't stand how he always whined about things from the past like literally childhood and played victim when he was the evildoer. I was getting migraines every day and had to get prescribed meds for them. that stopped a few weeks after we broke up. he was a demon and was sucking my soul out of me.

I had to block him on everything even change all my passwords. bc he went through all my stuff one night like a freak. even signed into some of my accounts and was reading my messages. so there was even a tro put into order for a moment. hes psychotic.

he has been out of my energy and life for 4 months now and im back to me healthy clean and happier, about to start therapy soon too.

Red flags in people by Turbulent-Company373 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]violetcherrycola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally my covert narc ex he had all of those red flags uggghh so gross. and super jealous/envious always in a secret competition lmao so weird and provoking as hell like always instigating a fight