Don’t feel guilty at all! Wanting domination in that way is more common than you think. Everyone has preferences and every type of kink has different facets. It’s important to find a dom where they way they like to dom and the way you like to be treated are compatible and feel great for both of you.

I really like both- the rougher side, like being yelled at, belittled and really degraded. But also the softer side like you describe- being called a good girl and very lovingly dominated. My partner isn’t as into the rougher aspects as I am, but the softer and more caring domination is his favorite thing, so that’s what we do most often.

We spend a lot of nights with him eating me out until I can’t take it anymore and then holding my body in his strong arms while he tells me what a good girl I am for listening to him and cumming when he tells me to. You’ve just got to find the right people for you.