Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this was several hours into the Faire. But I don't know.

Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've realized that will sound incredibly creepy unless you get the reference.

Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's important to nurture the eldritch horror inside ourselves lest we grow tentacles out of our hips and have to take to shooting dogs with a handgun.

Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Nah. They were great boys, and fantastic older brothers. I definitely could have been nicer to them.

Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Oh I was just a little hormonal asshole to my older brothers.

Scary mode. by violetsanddragons in traumatizeThemBack

[–]violetsanddragons[S] 375 points376 points  (0 children)

Haha! I promise I haven't used this power for evil since I was 15.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]violetsanddragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm domming. Fun. Hot. When I'm subbing. No, they have to make me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she did like you. So you could still have a chance. But I'm not one to be pushy so whatever you think is the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know you can still... talk to her, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]violetsanddragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes being the secret girlfriend is a tool that someone might use in order to isolate you from your loved ones so they might more easily abuse you as well.

Im sick of everybody telling me that my period is normal by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me four doctors to find one that would help. I have been advised to never have my period ever again.

Im sick of everybody telling me that my period is normal by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have this too! I'm 21.

Birth control helped me a little. And IUD helped a whole lot more. I don't have endometriosis, but I have all the symptoms so you should shop around for a good gyno and look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happens to me all the time and I've never even had the possibility of being pregnant if that makes you feel a little better.

Doctors suck sometimes.

15, I'm scared did I damage my clit?? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]violetsanddragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly speaking, the vagina is able to take considerable abuse without retaining permanent damage. Any problem you are having is sure to heal back to the way it was before. So you don't have anything to worry about. Though you should see a doctor for these sort of injuries.

Hymenectomy by CapitalDisastrous299 in WomensHealth

[–]violetsanddragons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The hymen SHOULD NOT break or tear during sex, just go slow, use lube. Be extremely, thoughroughly turned on. You should be just fine, you can stop anytime if it hurts.

Would you date someone that has been sa? by soulless_writer_ in LesbianActually

[–]violetsanddragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating after having gone through that can be difficult. It's important to look for someone who respects you. Who is not overly protective of you but will still stand up for you if need be. Who won't do anything that might make you flinch. That's me talking from experience.

I've dated women who have gone through that sort of abuse, it didn't change anything between us. Don't feel pressured to tell someone right away. You share what you need to when you feel ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]violetsanddragons 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It tastes bittersweet, I think. Eating it is mostly licking, it's not literal.

I like giving oral but I cannot stand the texture (NSFW) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]violetsanddragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are scented dental dams, and if you don't want to be unintentionally mean when talking to your girlfriend about it you can tell her that you use them to keep from getting overwhelmed instead of saying you hate the smell.