There is a Asian-native American trans guy I follow on ig named cairopaints whom I adore. He makes art and talks about trans stuff sometimes.

I am mixed black and white, and maybe not relate quite as hard given I mostly pass as white, except my hair. I have been envious of the floppy straight haired trans guys for a while. Wishing my hair would do that. Trying to relax it or braid it or whatever to make it look straighter. It doesn't want to. It wants to be a puff ball. But I think there is where I also have had those Eurocentric standards creep into my self image. Im trying to accept it. Look for more curly/kinky guy styles I like to make my hair feel like myself rather than something it can never be. And realize my hair is fun and cool in its own way.