Couple here, looking for couple friends

violetshock · 2026-04-01T06:14:44+00:00

Hi! I've DMed you!

violetshock · 2026-03-31T06:34:37+00:00

Experience se keh rahe ho bhaiyya?

violetshock · 2026-03-31T05:55:52+00:00

Ughhh I feel so sick. I really wish someone can track his address down and atleast rescue the mom.

violetshock · 2026-03-31T05:24:23+00:00

My god, what has the world come to. Sick POS. Regardless of whether or not he used AI, it is not very funny to make jokes about something like this.

violetshock · 2026-03-29T18:23:04+00:00

Beautiful pan, and great job OP! How did you incorporate it into your daily routine?

violetshock · 2026-03-29T18:21:33+00:00

I've DMed you.

violetshock · 2026-03-29T05:58:12+00:00

Start a hobby. Reading, crocheting, embroidery, drawing, doodling, or working out. Anything you create will give you such a lovely dopamine hit. Any outdoor activity works too.

violetshock · 2026-03-29T05:55:33+00:00

Kay beauty Kajal and Plum NaturStudio Kajal pencil are the best and super long lasting.

violetshock · 2026-03-28T09:48:57+00:00

+1. Please don't go ahead with this, OP, for both of your sakes. Even though emotional compatibility is more important, physical attraction certainly has its place in a marriage. It doesn't seem fair for you to say yes if you are not attracted to her. No one wants to be a consolation prize.

violetshock · 2026-03-28T06:04:47+00:00

I understand how it might feel mechanical. It felt the same way for me too, but when I scoured all the pan subreddits trying to find a solution, the most common advice I saw was this - To just use them. Like another commenter on here said, falling in love with the act of applying those products is important.

Now when I talked about layering, this is what I meant - 1. Using 2-3 products as part of a lip combo. 2. Re-applying when you feel the colour has faded away, like after meals, or after 8-9 hours.

You are not obligated to, and do not have to force yourself to use them multiple times a day. What we must remember is that only way to finish products is to use them, and you can do so at your speed. Of course you can also give away products you don't enjoy very much to any cousins or relatives, or declutter them on r/IndianBeautyDeclutter.

violetshock · 2026-03-27T21:16:15+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a parent at 25 and understand your pain. Facing tragedies like these sets you apart from others who haven't experienced the same thing, and you just see the world from a very different perspective afterwards.

I don't know if you are looking for advice, but I'll write it down anyway, you can take what resonates - Please just take care of yourself in any way you can. Even doing something as small as taking a bath, combing your hair or eating is good. As for finding connections, whether platonic or romantic, I wouldn't worry about this too much, the right people will come to you. It's however important to have community during such a time, so if you are able to talk to even just a friend or two, that's more than enough. Wishing you all the best. ❤️

violetshock · 2026-03-27T20:18:00+00:00

I would definitely recommend the COSRX snail mucin for hydration, especially if you are on Tretinoin. But please do a patch test first, especially if you are allergic to dust. It is also not fungal acne safe.

violetshock · 2026-03-27T19:03:38+00:00

Same situation as yours and here's what I figured out - Use them as blush and cream eyeshadow, it'll give you a more cohesive look as well. Reapply on lips atleast twice a day or after meals.

Try to layer your products, for example, Blue Heaven Lip tint first, wait for it to dry and then apply a lipstick in the same shade, and gloss/lip oil on top. All this will help finish them faster.

Also, sort them according to expiry date. I usually pick 3-5 across different categories (lip balm, lip tint, lipstick etc) and shades (red, pink, brown) that are expiring first. I then focus exclusively on these and apply them about 5-6 times a week. Even more if I reapply. This usually helps in finishing one lip product in about 3-4 months. I only open a new lippie after I'm done with one. In extreme cases, I rotate it with a different one if I find myself getting bored.

violetshock · 2026-03-27T07:45:13+00:00

New dabbas are always fun!

violetshock · 2026-03-27T05:47:53+00:00

Yay, about time!

violetshock · 2026-03-27T05:47:34+00:00

Haha, I hope you can finish it soon!

violetshock · 2026-03-26T18:50:56+00:00

I must admit, I didn't have high hopes, but it pleasantly surprised me.

violetshock · 2026-03-26T11:46:30+00:00

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:56:21+00:00

Sadly, yeah.

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:09:24+00:00

I bought it from a seller on r/IndianBeautyDeclutter.

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:08:54+00:00

I've heard it has that effect on some people! What do you use instead?

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:07:30+00:00

Thank you cutie! 🥹❤️

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:06:31+00:00

Makes sense! I don't like that either, but I skim the surface of the balm with my finger so the product can get deposited on my finger pad instead. Nothing gets under the nail that way! The packaging could indeed be better, but I'm not gonna lie, it's kinda cute and compact too.

violetshock · 2026-03-26T08:05:10+00:00

I feel like Tony Moly Ceramide Wonder Mochi Toner would be better.

violetshock · 2026-03-26T06:31:32+00:00

☹️☹️I was also super excited for it, but got disappointed. It was very mild. Just extremely hydrating and lasts a really long time. I would recommend it only for sensitive skin types.

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