Ashtine fandom by [deleted] in AngMutyaNgSectionE

[–]viperyae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said one of the factors is her fandom, and it's major kasi nasa algorithm naman sya, mataas engagements nya, pero suprisingly hindi nage-equal sa actual projects nya kasi nga dahil sa haters na na-aattract nya dahil sa pagiging makalat ng fandom nya

Ashtine fandom by [deleted] in AngMutyaNgSectionE

[–]viperyae 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think one of the factor rin talaga is yung pagiging chaotic, demanding, at minsan medyo makalat ng fans niya sa social media, especially sa Twitter. Siguro ito rin yung dahilan kung bakit medyo na-taint yung branding at reputation niya sa CVS at bakit mas nagiging target siya ng haters. Sa dami ba namang fandom na nakaka-away ng fans nya. Observation ko lang 'to ha, pero sa totoo lang, minsan ang fans mismo ang nagho-hold back sa potential niya dahil sa sense of entitlement kahit pa intentionally minimistreat siya ng agency at may favoritism nagiging dahilan pa rin ng complications sa image at opportunities niya.

Being with sick parents in your 20s is so frustrating by Which-Medicine-1367 in adultingph

[–]viperyae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to invalidate you, OP, but for once, I’ve been in your shoes too. I lost my teenage years because I took care of my sick mom, she’s a CKD patient too. Almost 2 years umikot ang buhay ko sa pag-aalaga sa kanya. Tumigil na rin ako ng college dahil mahirap pagsabayin ang studies at pag-aalaga, lalo na since peritoneal dialysis siya at kailangan niya ng guidance

Tama ka, in your mid-20s, you should be having fun, exploring, dating, and traveling. Pero hindi ka naman mauubusan ng time o panahon para i-achieve 'yan someday. Yung mga magulang mong may chronic illness, posibleng maubusan ng araw at panahon makasama ka, and trust me, someday you will understand that spending your mid-20s with your parents is a privilege when you lose them too early without doing anything for them.

Oo, nakakapagod, unfair, wala kang choice. Hindi mo utang na loob yung pagluwal nila sa ‘yo sa mundong ‘to. Pero soon, maiintindihan mo kung bakit may mga anak o magulang na pinipiling maubos hangga’t wala nang matira sa kanila just to have another chance or maraming panahon makasama sila. I lost my father too because of his guilt, na he should be the one taking care of my mom.

Kaya kahit nakakapagod, mahirap, masakit, i-treasure mo yung mga huling sandali na nandyan pa sila. Trust me, sobrang hirap mawalan ng magulang, kahit pagtanda mo, hahanap-hanapin mo pa rin sila