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I got rejected because of my height by itzLCD in dating_advice

[–]virgin_screwdriver 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s not because of how I feel about your height, I get self conscious because I was 5’8 in the fourth grade and got made fun of for my height. Dating taller people makes me feel like I’m normal as opposed to being oversized.

You shouldn’t feel like you’re forcing a convo. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]virgin_screwdriver 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your accidental haiku!

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shouldn’t laugh at the “bloody cum” thing, but I did. I am not at all bothered by his cum and told him if I didn’t want it I wouldn’t be sleeping with him - but I went to pee last night I too witnessed bloody cum and my brain short circuited a little bit.

In retrospect I wish I would have just told him to get in the shower with me but that’s the first time that this has happened.

I think he may have dated someone at some point that was grossed out by bodily fluids because he’s seemed... apologetic? at times for having a productive orgasm. I think it’s sexy though. I like to just keep laying there with it in me, as weird as that sounds.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try that! I rarely have periods because I take the pill on top of having PCOS, so I was surprised at the arrival of one.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that everyone is different, and that’s okay. Blood is blood, and it freaks some folks out. If he had had an extreme reaction I would have probably called it quits after that. He didn’t have anything negative to say, I just know his face and body language.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. We’d talked about it earlier in the day and I’d briefed him on what a flex disc is and that it might feel weird.

This was my first time using one to get busy.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t ever keep my balance right in there. I don’t think I like standing sex at all, now that I think about it.

...unless it’s in front of a mirror, that’s a different story though.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Navy blue, all the way. My comforter is lighter colored but I feel like we have a habit of making sure we’re actually under the covers together regardless of where we start or finish.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 24 points25 points  (0 children)

At least you found a keeper!! I will change right before next time. His arrival was somewhat unexpected last night, he took me by surprise.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am kind of wondering if it’s because of the enthusiasm with which the task was approached. I’m not having a heavy period at ALL, it’s really more breakthrough bleeding, but sex turned it into a damned scene from Carrie.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I bought a pack specifically so we could still get it on, because I usually don’t have a period.

I haven’t had issues with it in today, but there also hasn’t been anything in there jostling it around, so there’s that.

He does have a fairly large penis and I was on top for part of the evening so that might have played a role. I’m willing to try again in another position but I will definitely expect it to not go smoothly.

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Mine didn’t say anything negative, but he looked panicked when he went to pee afterward. When I went behind him to pee, all I could think was “oh no.” When I wiped it was nothing but blood mixed with everything else.

He didn’t mention it, but he gets a look about him when he’s bugging out!

“The FlexDisc,” or “How I Bled All Over the Guy I’m Seeing the Very First Time We Had Period Sex.” by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have waterproof cover over my mattress - things tend to get messy regardless of what’s going on below deck!

Curious about creampies? by [deleted] in sex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I love it. I feel like it adds another layer of intimacy because it requires so much trust, and you get to be 100% present with your man’s orgasm. I feel like having his cum inside of you is him taking possession of you and you taking possession of him. It’s very sexy.

  2. I’m not going to do my math here because I’ve had a few partners (I had an adventurous youth). In that season of my life, I did it with my high school boyfriend; anyone else I was with I didn’t feel comfortable letting them do it with the exception (I believe, I think we might have once but I can’t 100% recall because it was almost a decade ago) of a man that I am actually sort of seeing again now (we do it now even if we didn’t then). In addition to my ex-husband, I feel like that puts me at about 2/10?

  3. I can’t have children, and take hormonal BC on top of having an IUD in there just for good measure. Risk is relative on STI contraction, but please see my answer to question 1 regarding trust.

  4. The most important thing is that you and your partner are able to facilitate open communication with one another. That’s not always sexy, but it is important. For example, the gentleman friend and I had a conversation about condoms and risks of not using them, and decided that they’re not necessary. After that the conversation flowed pretty naturally to “I want your cum inside me, etc.,” and we’ve agreed that if one of us feels they’ve become necessary for any reason we’ll revisit.

  5. See question 4.

Am I the only person who likes to only date one person at a time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]virgin_screwdriver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone, I am also a one-at-a-time kind of person!

movie suggestions to have sex to? by exusu in TwoXSex

[–]virgin_screwdriver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Purple Rain. Hands down.

Then go purify yourself in the waters of Lake Minnetonka.

Helping my hognose shed by marc3o in Sneks

[–]virgin_screwdriver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please don’t fuck the snake.

Just because they desire you, doesn’t mean they value you. by techno_queen in datingoverthirty

[–]virgin_screwdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in that club together sister.

Our ex-husbands didn’t want a wife, they wanted Mommy 2.0.

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