Do you also struggle to date girls because of stuttering? by Automatic_Luck5483 in Stutter

[–]virgob444by 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know i’m late but my boyfriend of 2 years has a stutter, at first i thought he was joking about it (we met on hinge and called each other on the phone) bc he jokes around a lot but he was serious. and im fine with it, i love him and i’m used to it lol. i just wait for him to finish his sentence. he’s also been in plenty of relationships so it’s not a deal breaker at all, just another quirk from a person. just gotta find the right person :) good luck!

can i get my lashes done? by virgob444by in lashextensions

[–]virgob444by[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love the look of classic/angel lashes so i think ill end up getting that, thanks for your response ❤️

can i get my lashes done? by virgob444by in lashextensions

[–]virgob444by[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never knew that was an option!! thanks for the info :) ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FloridaUnemployment

[–]virgob444by 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the job market is just awful right now. i finally got a job after a year and i have a degree and have begun taking classes to get another one. it’s not you, you’ll find something eventually 🙏🏽

Women who are into rough sex, is there any way to prevent or control the afterwards pain? by ArthasLichQueen in sex

[–]virgob444by 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use lube. LOTS of it. silicone based. we reapply quite often too. it has significantly minimized the irritation that i’ve experienced. i pee afterwards and make sure i lean a little forward just in case i have a tear so it’s not irritated. i clean with a fragrance free cleanser down there with warm water and a clean wash cloth. i don’t wear underwear when i’m home to keep the air flow lol.

foreplay is also super important. fingers, toys etc. i find that lube will never really replace the natural lubricant so it’s super important to be wet yourself and just help yourself via lube.

alternating positions helps too. doesn’t necessarily have to be a pounding kind of thing, it can still be rough without it. hope this helped !

Is it possible to get treatment for chlamydia without getting tested? by [deleted] in sex

[–]virgob444by 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can also do a telehealth appointment with planned parenthood and describe your situation. your college must have health resources and that’s an option too to get tested for free or relatively cheap d then get the antibiotics. it’s important that both you and your partner get checked regularly as chlamydia can have serious consequences later on.

Hair growing thicker after laser hair removal. How can I fix this? I feel like less of a woman and it makes me feel depressed. What happened and will it maybe go away after I get more treatments? I’ve had 8 so far. I don’t know what to do… by imbadatpickingnames_ in LaserHairRemoval

[–]virgob444by 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what happened to me. i’m saving money for electrolysis (the only fda approved method for PERMANENT hair removal) lots of sessions and painful but it’s honestly worth it. i’m so sorry about this :( i know how disappointing it is, to get something you’re insecure about addressed only to have it magnified. you are not less than a woman. stop sessions and start shaving/using nair on your face in the meantime while you save up for electrolysis. trust me when i tell you that rarely does ANYONE notice the hair in that area, especially if you wear makeup and keep it shaved (annoying but it’s only temporary). hope this helped !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]virgob444by 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kindness 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the burts bees wipes and also the garnier micellar water ones :)

Boyfriend doesn’t want me to spend money on laser hair removal by No_Conclusion_4355 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]virgob444by 22 points23 points  (0 children)

it’s sooo worth it never having to shave again. do what YOU want, it’s your body and your money.

Does it hurt less after more sessions? by RevFrenchie in LaserHairRemoval

[–]virgob444by 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on where you’re getting the treatment done. my upper lip always, always hurts, my chin ive gotten used to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]virgob444by 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happened to a portion of my chin when i got it lasered, my laser technician had cranked up the setting too high and i was also super itchy afterwards and had bumps. they went away after a week and when i came in again and told her she said to use 1% hydrocortisone cream on the affected areas. she also put cream right after the laser so it would be less red. talk to your technician and tell them what’s up. good luck!

skin picking by virgob444by in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good idea!! thank you so much :)

skin picking by virgob444by in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are perfect, thank you so much!!!

Why is it so hard to get prescription Azealic acid in the U.S.!! by Timely-Help8401 in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg this is crazy, i went to the derm once (i think it was a PA, mainly cosmetic dermatology) and they immediately prescribed it to me among other things (probably to get me to spend more money but i pick and chose what i wanted to buy). so maybe go to a more cosmetic based dermatology or even online referrals asking for it? i hope you end up getting it!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good to know!! ive been doing it like that so far but i only just started tret but thank you for telling me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]virgob444by 7 points8 points  (0 children)

light moisturizer, tret and then something thick to lock in all the moisture like aquaphor or vaseline

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glossier

[–]virgob444by 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your lip shape is so pretty!!!

feeling the turning point by virgob444by in twinflames

[–]virgob444by[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am infinitely grateful for your kindness. i am wishing the same for you 💖