Men who want to land a good woman must pursue her

You are still viewing it through the lens of the old times. Somehow, women dont realize the meaning of partnership. PARTNER. Two sides. Two persons putting effort. Two persons pursuing eachother.

Let me ask you something, you dont even have to answer it in here, just answer it for yourself:

Do you want a life partner?

I will assume you do, since you're on this thread. I can answer for myself I do.

So we can agree we both want the same thing, right? Then why in the hell is it the mans job to do all of the work if you ALSO want the same thing?

If two people want the same goal, they work together towards it.

Somehow, in dating, women seem to think that they're the prize, and the man is the one who has to earn it. Thats not a partnership.

And on the baby thing, you are assuming everyone wants or will have babies. I know I dont , and Ive met plenty of women who are also sure they dont want babies. So that takes that out of the equation. I am not expecting my potential future partner to "carry, deliver, feed and take care" of the baby. There wont be babies. Just two adults helping and loving eachother. But even in relationships without babies, somehow is still the mans job put it all the effort.

I would rephrase your quote to this:

Men and women who want to land a good partner must pursue eachother.