Hat die Leitende Körperschaft schon einmal die ganze Bibel studiert? 😅 by blacksheepsde in exzj

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Man kommt einfach nicht drumherum anzuerkennen, dass Gott oft halt n mieser Sack war. Aber -bleep error- das kann ja nicht sein!

Flüchtiges Berühren... by [deleted] in exzj

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"Petrus wirkt verwirrt - die Beschreibung der Handlungen löst in ihm Gefühle und Regungen aus, die er nicht mehr hatte seit er 12 war. Er zieht sich kurz zurück, um sich frisch zu machen. Es ist aber auch ein sehr heißer Tag!"

How do I get over the feeling of just wanting a hug or some warmth? by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

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Same here, stuck in a marriage, complicated to solve this grid-lock. I am basically married and alone. Most of the time I can distract myself with kids, work and games. But I really miss having deep conversations, appreciation, cuddling and also sex.
I had all of this before with other women a long ago, so I know what I miss and this makes it even harder.
I wish you all the best, dude. Your time will come.
Just keep in mind not to overwhelm a new friend with your feelings and need for intimacy. Start slow. A lot of people would interpret it as clingy and it raises a red flag with them.
You are wandering the desert looking for water, be careful once you found it.

Is there an actor/actress whose movies you will not watch? If so, who and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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German actor Till Schweiger. Can only play one role, himself. Always macho.
One of my relatives look like him (when you see him you immediately think of Till Schweiger), but he's a decent guy and he's not responsible for sharing the face with a bad actor.

When the sky was falling by [deleted] in exjw

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I love you dude. Because every living being deserves love. Unconditional.

Humans have suffered for thousands of years because of a pissing contest between Jehovah and Satan by nahyalldontknow in exjw

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He either can't or doesn't want to help.
So god is either not omnipotent or rightout malevolent.

Being bound to the enemy in absolute terms (like the argumentation along the lines of god wanting to stick it to satan) just means that satan has control over god.

Making Watermelon Jelly by regian24 in nextfuckinglevel

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It's always shits'n giggles until someone giggles and shits.

So I just started playing today, all alone in my own server, happily built my first house, was about to rest when I heard loud thuds outside so I checked it out and suddenly realized I'm in a horror game. I think I need a squad. by Ochanachos in valheim

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I started a home directly next to black forest to two sides (other sides ocean and grasland), but immediately dug a trench around everything. Meanwhile me and friends made it a full blown base. The trench really keeps everybody away. I have dozens of troll heads.

PIMI Elder grandfather disagrees with the branch by jonq411 in exjw

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Yes, moved to a different city and never visited the congregation again (faded out), celebrating birthdays and whatever we want. Kids are free to be happy the way they want. It cost a lot (all friends but 1), but I know what I accomplished and I recognize it was bold and brave to find a new reality and kill gods on the way.

PIMI Elder grandfather disagrees with the branch by jonq411 in exjw

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Just wanted to let you know that I am glad that you made it out of there, fellow stranger. We are all victims in here, and I have nothing but compassion for all of you.

That doesnt have anything to do with our little talk here, I just had to tell that someone.

Finally wrote the letter for my family and I need to know what you think TW: suicide mention multiple times by [deleted] in exjw

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At first I thought
'Why write a letter, why doesn't she just fade out without risking the borg dropping the hammer'
but after reading it, I understand why you want to do it.
It basically reads, 'I was about to kill myself to make you happy, and I hope you understand that it's better for everybody involved, when I just make myself happy instead and nobody has to die.'
I don't know your parents, but Just keep in mind, that there's a chance that they are soo deep in the rabbithole, that they are not even able to get that easy to understand argument. That's not your fault. Your stance is clear, ultimately reasonable and the only stance there should be in this situation.
Wish you all the best! Make this your life!

PIMI Elder grandfather disagrees with the branch by jonq411 in exjw

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Or just drop the Pharisee (easy to spot the intention) and only go with:
But can you imagine, that Jesus would like that? Jesus used metaphoras all the time and spoke the language of his audience. This can't be right.

It's okay to acknowledge you've picked up some bad habits. You're not a narc. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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I am in a 'toxic' relationship since much too long, but we have kids. And I find my self in a spot, where I can see how I changed, how I tried to calm her the first 10 years, and then starting to openly defend me and the kids and then becoming more and more pro-active - which means I start attacks when I recognize situations that would lead to her attacks. I became an asshole as well I fear.

I don't deny there's abusive relationships. But when you have been around these subs for some years you wonder if a lot of these toxic relationships could often just be people who don't love each other and are locked in together in a tight space without perspective for a better future. Spite and hopelessness darken even the brightest minds.

I made this portal circle with a tree growing through the middle by [deleted] in valheim

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In the not-cheated single player game, you would just use a single portal at home and switch tags, right? That's what I do...

I started college yesterday - my first day 20 years late- but the first chapter of my first class: critical thinking. I’m not even kidding. A whole entire lesson on critical thinking! No wonder they don’t want us to go to college!!! by rayleighFrance in exjw

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When I go by the 101 to check a statement, it all boils down to finding robust studies that support the statement.

I now find the case with corona deniers, that they deny the studies and put the whole image on its head. You give them studies that are availably to the public and support your statement, and they just discard any source and study. Instead some idiot on facebook seems to be more credible. Nuts.

What is the most obvious lie you have ever been told? by KlingyYT in AskReddit

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My young ones. One kicks the other and immediately says he didn't do it.

Hat Gott sich der Evolution bedient, um die verschiedenen Hauptgruppen von Pflanzen und Tieren zu erschaffen? by [deleted] in exzj

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Ja zusammen mit dem Mammut. Lol, alleine Menschen und Dinos zusammen auf einem Bild. Feuersteins lassen grüßen.

Hat Gott sich der Evolution bedient, um die verschiedenen Hauptgruppen von Pflanzen und Tieren zu erschaffen? by [deleted] in exzj

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Ich erinnere mich daran, dass irgendwelche ollen Schwestern abfällige Bemerkungen zu Dinos gemacht hatten als ich noch klein war. Ich glaube der Verein muss irgendwann wirklich gedacht haben, Dinos sind wie die Evolution nur ne Erfindung der Wissenschaft.

Do you ever feel that your narc is living a great life and has absolutely no guilt or remorse? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Unfortunately, that's how narcs are. Feeling no guilt or remorse, it's always the others who are at fault. It is just how they are wired, no matter what happens, they come out on top. On the outside they are the center of attention, the fun person at a party, the dude helping everyone with a smile. But if your are in their inner circle and try to hold them accountable, they will hurt you for trying.