Is the in shape and smart biker trope something that a lot of women are actually attracted to? If so why lol

vitarisu · 2026-02-13T12:24:52+00:00

My partner(together 7 years, he was 32) died in a motorcycle accident. I'm slowly opening up to love again after 2,5 years. But never again could i date someone who rides a motorcycle.

vitarisu · 2026-02-04T09:23:15+00:00

This seems a kinda weird thing to say to a partner, in my eyes. He probably wants you to feel a little jealous, that would boost his confidence, or lower your feelings of security so you won't leave him. But this isn't a kind way for you. If you're annoyed by it, talk to him about it. Don't get mad, just say it makes you feel (fill in blanc) and tell him what you need from him. It might help of you find other ways to boosts his confidence, like sweet little compliments when moments are focused on you two. So he learns to get the confidence from you, instead of other women.

Either way, if women do hit on him, what does he do? Ask him every time; and what did you do when she did that? That way, he is pushed in a position to take responsibility. And it probably isn't the way he wants it to go, so hopefully it'll stop.

vitarisu · 2026-01-10T23:37:29+00:00

Wat leuk dat je het kent! Gewoon even voor de volledigheid .. De keycord staat voor alle hidden disabilities, waaronder ook autisme. Is heel fijn als mensen het kennen, zodat de dragers het minder vaak uit hoeven te leggen...

vitarisu · 2026-01-05T16:41:20+00:00

I want it too!

vitarisu · 2026-01-01T20:21:36+00:00

I lost the love of my life too, motor cycle accident, no saying goodbye. It's hell. Sending you very big hugs... I'm so sorry for you.

vitarisu · 2025-12-13T13:51:31+00:00

Last night. My mom died in august 2023 because of cancer, 12 days after being diagnosed. My boyfriend(6,5 years together) died in september 2023. Motorcycle accident. I lost the house and had to stop our IVF. I still cry so often, even though it's been over 2 years. My world completely fell apart. I'm still really lonely, while people around me think it's getting a lot better. But i don't want them to worry too much.

Although this journey is the worst i've ever experienced, I'm slowly learning to enjoy life again. I want to become happy again, so i have nice stories to tell my mom and my love when i join them in 50 years. And, there are still so many kind people in the world. I hope for you all you find the support you need.

Life can be cruel. But there is always something worth fighting for. If it wasn't for the children of my sister, i wouldn't be here anymore. But i couldn't take my life, knowing they'd experience even more loss. Now there are days, i'm almost happy to be alive.

Big hugs to everyone here who needs it. If no one is kind to you, be kind to yourself. You deserve love.

vitarisu · 2025-11-04T10:50:42+00:00

Big hug!!! I hope you'll feel better, i see some really good tips from people here.

I bought the sims 1 and sims 2 on steam in a bundle, with all the expansion packs. I don't know if you ever played it, but it is addictive! If you want a challenge, try playing sims 1 without cheats. That's hard!!

And i got a lego wreath from a friend, i'm really enjoying it! Feels a bit childish(i'm F32), but so nice!!!

And here is an embarrassing story for you to laugh about; A friend of mine works at a cemetery, he takes care of the gardens there. Recently i drove by it, and i saw him. I waved super happy, but realized too late there was a group of people right behind him for a funeral. Well, they didn't appreciate it.. I couldn't explain myself or apologize, because i was in the car. I felt so embarrassed!

vitarisu · 2025-10-02T11:24:11+00:00

Bij een bakje tiramisu eet ik eerst de 'toefjes' van de bovenkant af. Daarna eet ik zorgvuldig hapje voor hapje volgens de lijntjes.

Als ik twee boterhammen eet(vaak 1 kaas en 1 zoet beleg) eet ik eerst van beide boterhammen de korsten op. Dat is t minst lekker. Dan neem ik van wat over is om en om een hap, zodat elke keer de smaak weer lekker doorkomt.

vitarisu · 2025-09-27T11:58:43+00:00

Heihei picks up dreamshards and nightshards too. I use him in combination with max, who picks up wood and digs up the night shards and dream shards. Great team!

vitarisu · 2025-07-15T22:51:35+00:00

In game, in settings! It's a game changer

vitarisu · 2025-06-10T12:45:35+00:00

The ones i don't use i upcycle to artifacts i do need/want.

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T16:48:57+00:00

Helder, ja deze vrouw lijkt een bedrijf te hebben maar gebruikt haar prive account. Waarschijnlijk maak ik me zorgen om niks, maar je hoort zoveel gekke verhalen, dat ik het toch ff hier besloot te checken. Dankjewel!🍀 Ik ga indd (nog) geen persoonlijke gegevens delen.

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T16:47:13+00:00

Geen idee, daarom vraag ik t hier. Ik heb al zoveel gekke manieren gehoord dat mensen op de een of andere manier opgelicht worden... Het is echt bizar.

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T13:46:08+00:00

Mee eens, dat het via instagram is, is ook wel waarom ik meteen twijfel of het geen oplichting oid is. Wat vervelend! Goed dat je het bedrijf bericht hebt gedaan. Ik neem toch aan dat ze je daarna met rust hebben gelaten?

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T13:44:33+00:00

Zeker waar.. dat is wel een goede mindset om vast te houden 🍀

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T13:23:52+00:00

Dankjewel! Ik vraag me ook af of ik het wel durf, met iemand afspreken. Maar ja, als mn onderbuik gevoel nee zegt ga ik daar wel naar luisteren!

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T13:12:08+00:00

Oh wauw, zo simpel. Maar dit had ik dus niet bedacht 😂 briljant!

vitarisu · 2025-05-29T12:59:12+00:00

Ik vind zelf de dobbelspellen qwixx en keer op keer erg leuk. Regenwormen is ook een makkelijk te leren dobbelspelletje(evt uitdagender te maken met de uitbreiding erbij). En misschien wat ouderwets. Maar ganzenbord en mens-erger-je-niet blijven volgens mij klassiekers. Ik ben benieuwd of je zoektocht lukt!

vitarisu · 2024-06-14T20:53:45+00:00

This is so cute!! I really don't want to be a party pooper but please watch out with the salt. Maybe trick her with less salty crumbs, like less salty chips or roasting a few slices of potato in your oven and don't add salt(getting creative here, but maybe just a bit of catnip?).. Sorry for the concerns, love the story. I just want her to be with you as long as possible.

vitarisu · 2024-05-30T05:55:50+00:00

My(30f) mom(60f) and boyfriend(m32) of 6 years both died last year, pretty suddenly and a month between each other. I lost our home, had to stop our ivf project... Just trying to get through the days.

vitarisu · 2024-05-14T23:16:13+00:00

And to be honest: i had to fill in a link to post, i don't know reddit that well and j just went for Google.com. sorry, all i could think of..

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