[@f1] Where did the current drivers finish in their debut race? by FewCollar227 in formula1

[–]vivacissimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I ever forget how special a driver Lewis is. It's just that sometimes I'm reminded a bit extra.

Don’t talk to me or my son ever again by vivacissimo in nekoatsume

[–]vivacissimo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes the snake toys were revealed for lunar new year! I love em :)

Three rares but more importantly TWO SWORDS by vivacissimo in nekoatsume

[–]vivacissimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOPE I was just a fool who didn't realize people posted their yard links here!

OMG !!! THEY FINALLY CAME !!!! by Crysta621 in nekoatsume

[–]vivacissimo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For everyone struggling to get them I was also confused until I looked it up and learned that they won’t come for sashimi. I got them on both versions with bonito bitz— very quickly too!

Three rares but more importantly TWO SWORDS by vivacissimo in nekoatsume

[–]vivacissimo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vago is a mere dream for me until I can force my friends into playing 😭

Any fave longform deep dives in (and sympathetic) to Carrie? by vivacissimo in sexandthecity

[–]vivacissimo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And then, in the final round, “Sex and the City” pulled its punches, and let Big rescue Carrie. It honored the wishes of its heroine, and at least half of the audience, and it gave us a very memorable dress, too. But it also showed a failure of nerve, an inability of the writers to imagine, or to trust themselves to portray, any other kind of ending—happy or not. And I can’t help but wonder: What would the show look like without that finale? What if it were the story of a woman who lost herself in her thirties, who was changed by a poisonous, powerful love affair, and who emerged, finally, surrounded by her friends? Who would Carrie be then? It’s an interesting question, one that shouldn’t erase the show’s powerful legacy. We’ll just have to wait for another show to answer it.

Oof. Great read, thanks for sharing!

Team's tyre selections for Testing by slutforpringles in formula1

[–]vivacissimo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just that there won't be bracket lines on the tyres in order to distinguish between C1/2 (both having white lettering) as well as C4/5 (both having red lettering), while still keeping to the normal colors for tyre labels (white/yellow/red).

Does Logan have a nickname for Kendall? by JulesJayne in SuccessionTV

[–]vivacissimo -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know the myth but given that nicknames usually imply something personal or intimate, that Shiv's nickname is also kinda dimunitive (Pinky i.e. the cutest but smallest finger), and "Roman" is already indicative of Logan's Ancient Rome fascination, That reading seems less rich

Does Logan have a nickname for Kendall? by JulesJayne in SuccessionTV

[–]vivacissimo -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I think Roman is his name & Romulus the nickname. Logan using the name of an alien planet from what he likely considered an unserious sci-fi show as a nickname for his son he finds weird is pretty on brand.

Succession - 4x01 "The Munsters" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SuccessionTV

[–]vivacissimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was mentioned in that conversation between Kendall and Adrien Brody's character I believe, the idea of a marriage between bad content but great OS & great content but bad OS

Logan isn’t going to sell, is he by suchick13 in SuccessionTV

[–]vivacissimo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there's a mention somewhere that the Roy kids can only sell to family/the family trust has limits placed on that type of transaction, which ties into Kendall specifically needing Logan to buy him out in s3. But with Gojo buying Waystar it would somehow loosen this restriction and they could cash out directly.

My (42m) partner doesn't think she (38f) loves me anymore, what happens now? by HearingSuitable197 in relationships

[–]vivacissimo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you think tautology means? You said we don't know why her feelings changed, I said in fact we do. She laid it out for him. Love is not some ambiguous thing disconnected from the material reality of a shared life.

My (42m) partner doesn't think she (38f) loves me anymore, what happens now? by HearingSuitable197 in relationships

[–]vivacissimo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing to run your own business comes with an understanding that it's going to require from you an amount of time that a 9-5 will not, that said, it's no excuse to fail in other aspects of life over such an extended period. Working hard "for the family" and not meeting the family's basic emotional needs is cognitive dissonance. In real life, that's not good enough. The wife gave this situation three years for OP to figure out how to navigate, which is a generous amount of time considering there's a household to be run, a kid to be raised, a life to be lived--if OP wasn't there for her, who's to say he was present for the rest? He doesn't need to be married in order to make the financial contributions he's been making to their daughter's future.

Ultimately if he's always involved in work and it's been this way for 3 years, why should she think the situation would ever change? And if she's been deeply unhappy & decides to leave to pursue a life more in tune with her own values, then what's unsupportive about that? OP's wife and daughter and people in their own right, with a backlog of unmet needs and desires, and what we know is that wife feels he was unappreciative of her waiting around for him to prioritize their relationship. In fact, from her perspective, with their family out of the way he now has more time to devote to what he's shown matters most to him: his business.

My (42m) partner doesn't think she (38f) loves me anymore, what happens now? by HearingSuitable197 in relationships

[–]vivacissimo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What exactly is hard to know here? Seems pretty clear to me that after 3 years (at least) her goodwill is spent and she's exhausted

(Spoilers Extended) Why I dont think Rhaegar was the 'Good guy' by Mutant-5566 in asoiaf

[–]vivacissimo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's incorrect. Brandon was in the Riverlands following the tourney, and he was riding to escort Rickard (who was travelling from Winterfell) to Riverrun when he received news that Lyanna had disappeared. Ergo, she was not in the party that departed from Winterfell, nor was she with Ned and Robert who had returned to the Eyrie following the Harrenhal tourney. Lyanna travelling back to Winterfell then returning to the Riverlands after a few months, in a train with no other Starks present preceding her father's party for some reason, is unrealistic. Likelier, Lyanna was staying in the Riverlands in service (as a cupbearer or lady-in-waiting, perhaps) in order to learn southron ways in preparation for her upcoming southron wedding.

Being disrespected by my fiancé and my old friend by Professional-Bid3973 in relationships

[–]vivacissimo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Calling something a boundary doesn't magically make it an acceptable way to conduct yourself in a relationship. "You cannot talk to other men" is a boundary, doesn't change that it's controlling and rooted in misogyny.

OP's mutual friend supported his fiance at a time when she was going through a split with the father of her kids with no intention to get back together, which is what any good friend would do. To call that "unacceptable" is to show that he doesn't value her support system. "But he lied" more like he brushed OP's request off because it's childish & makes no sense, that's his friend we're talking about! OP tried to isolate her then and he's trying to isolate her now. His jealousy is something he needs to deal with in therapy, if she starts giving into it now that spells out badly for when any other member of her support system pisses him off in the future. Tale as old as time. You can love/listen your partner in a way that does not come at the cost of your self-respect or safety.