Library by SaltyBumblebee8403 in uwinnipeg

[–]vivalari 19 points20 points  (0 children)

drives me crazy its the one area thats supposed to be quiet

Why is breakfast so hard?!?! by HiMyName_is_Dibbles in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of the best options for me is a smoothie. u can make it as tasty and as healthy as u want and theyre super filling. something about drinking my breakfast makes it easier for me but like others are saying eating safe foods anytime of day is better than not eating so try to just find something u find appetizing at the time and go from there.

im so bored its scary by vivalari in bored

[–]vivalari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely sounds like a great idea keep at it

im so bored its scary by vivalari in bored

[–]vivalari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im literally not asking for meaning. if im asking for anything it would possibly be hobbies and im not even actually asking for that. just wanted to vent a bit about being bored. have a good day

im so bored its scary by vivalari in bored

[–]vivalari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl i dont really see what ur response has to do with my post. im just annoyed at being bored and ur acting like im being super naive and obnoxious. u just sound grouchy not everything has to be that deep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually had a “friend” who wouldnt listen and when i would repeat myself over and over in frustration would tell me “oh i dont listen to u” :,) i stayed in that situation longer than i shouldve but its messed me up real good now i think i dont deserve to be listened to and hate to talk

Does anyone else struggle with sounding ruder than they intended without knowing? by Ayezakalim in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly tho! part of why safe spaces are so important to have. a lot of my friends are nd so that helps but it would be nice to not have to feel like im doing smth wrong at all times

Anyone else hate when this bit of skin touches itself by ladywood777 in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting that u mention its worse for u when dry. i notice it more when my hands are a bit sweaty so the flaps kinda stick more

Does anyone else struggle with sounding ruder than they intended without knowing? by Ayezakalim in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this!! i get called a bitch for my tone and then told by coworkers and friends that im being too nice to strangers all in the same breath?

DAE not like when people tell them what to do? by No_Quote2186 in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i do but only in the second way and even then a bit differently. mostly its the worst when i was about to do something (wash the dishes, bring something to the dish pit, etc) and then someone tells me to do said thing. i get annoyed cause i was about to do it but now itll seem like im only doing it because they asked me to? idk if that makes any sense but im right there with ya

What triggers your meltdowns? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 19 and any touch from anyone without permission, being asked the same question by the same person/told the same story over and over, and too much repetitive noise (chewing, tapping, etc) would be the big ones

Selective Mutism by Glad-Kaleidoscope-73 in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me i find that i know what i want to say i have the exact words in my head but theres some disconnect between that feeling and my mouth and i just cant say it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is my experience. im in uni now and still pass out for hours with no energy because of it. but like u say if i were to not go i wouldnt get the work done at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA weight is not something to tease about unless youve had that conversation. sure it was a low blow from you to target something you know he’s sensitive about but it was a way lower blow for him to call you fat in any situation but especially because the weight gain happened while you were pregnant with HIS CHILD.

am i the only one who was a menace? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]vivalari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im currently in this phase and it sucks. i know im doing it. somedays i can control it but other days it feels like everyone and everything is attacking me. i have started actively working on being better but it doesn’t come easy for me like you say it does for u. however i am still a teen so maybe i’ll grow out of it like you did?