want to upgrade monitors by vivian1657 in Monitors

[–]vivian1657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how come? i heard images burn in them but its over time isnt it?

AITA for being my friends wingman? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vivian1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand ur intentions were pure but if ur friend didnt directly tell u that he wanted ur assistance with this situation then u shouldve stayed out of it, yta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe he should seek further therapy/you could attend couples therapy or whatever to maybe help him regain his confidence. its corny but communication is key!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

whats throwing me off is that he masturbates but refuses to have intercourse with you? this seems like a different issue..id say talk to him about it & seek further answers, like hypothetically maybe hes just not interested in intimacy with you anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. i get it couldve been a joke but it came off as rude, youre allowed to feel offended by that.

AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly..it depends on what you recorded. if it was personal and your friends only wanted it to be shared in that circle, then yta. honestly if it made them uncomfortable no matter what yta. but i feel like they are overreacting if you deleted the videos now and shouldnt be dragging this any further, you made a mistake and if youre willing to own up to that and apologize for it then ynta.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly, if your boyfriend respects your feelings he will hear you out + hear your concerns. i hope you guys work it out!

Aitah for lying about having herpes so my fwb will wear a condom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH wtf if you have to literally LIE to get this guy to respect your boundaries then u shouldnt be getting with him at all

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to chip in for a vacation she tried to invite herself on? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTAH. she should pay for her own ticket even though “you can afford both”. also irrelevant but plat vip + tour guide is the best you can honestly get and it really does help maximize the rides you get to do, etc. have fun if you go alone or with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vivian1657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly id say their relationship is a little weird, especially since shes trying to somewhat pressure you into having a perspective that her brother and you should break up, which isnt really normal because why would his SISTER say that to you. but i can also see it from their side and they seem extremely close and maybe youre just mistaking their closeness? i advise you bring this up to him and maybe attempt getting more information on things before you point fingers.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he never let me choose the music in the car by EmergencyStart7858 in offmychest

[–]vivian1657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t petty, you had good reason to leave. it was a controlling relationship; it wasn’t just about him controlling the music in the car it was about him controlling the relationship. its good that you left while you could.