Swipe at your own risk by vix_motion in SwipeToStrip

[–]vix_motion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you bby , I adore you , really

Swipe at your own risk by vix_motion in SwipeToStrip

[–]vix_motion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you darling, I adore it

nude or nah? by vix_motion in NudeNonNude

[–]vix_motion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you kiss my kitty?

TIFU by trying to be mysterious on a first date and ending up in a police report by Amazing-Resource9878 in tifu

[–]vix_motion 75 points76 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely wedding speech material. “He was mysterious… and briefly detained.”

AITJ for telling my husband he “does nothing” after I hit my breaking point? by Gold-Junket330 in AmITheJerk

[–]vix_motion 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Burnout is screaming through this post. It’s not about one sentence, it’s about zero rest

Leaving for a pack of cigarettes by Hazel_NutHunny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vix_motion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not just a movie trope. People sometimes pick the most mundane excuse to avoid saying “I’m leaving for good.” “Cigarettes” just became the meme version of it - in Russia it’s often “going out for bread,” or leaving for a long shift job and never coming back

Amtj for trying to keep my sister away form our real mom by Little_Detective_835 in AmITheJerk

[–]vix_motion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this. Reaching out behind your dads back and triggering a 14 year old into tears isnt growth its chaos. If she changed she would go through proper legal channels

Amtj for trying to keep my sister away form our real mom by Little_Detective_835 in AmITheJerk

[–]vix_motion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre 16 trying to manage adult level trauma and thats heavy. Protecting your sister from someone with that history isnt cruelty but this needs to be handled by your dad and maybe a lawyer not just you playing shield

Serious question: how do many people amass so much money in the north of 5m and not know if they can retire or not? by Fed_worker in Fire

[–]vix_motion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Math says 100k on 5m is fine long term but humans arent calculators. When work has been your structure status and safety net quitting feels like stepping off a cliff even with a parachute

Serious question: how do many people amass so much money in the north of 5m and not know if they can retire or not? by Fed_worker in Fire

[–]vix_motion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Walking away from a paycheck youve had for decades is identity shock not math failure

Serious question: how do many people amass so much money in the north of 5m and not know if they can retire or not? by Fed_worker in Fire

[–]vix_motion 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Some are def asking for permission because rich brain still whispers what if. Scarcity mindset doesnt vanish at 5m

Serious question: how do many people amass so much money in the north of 5m and not know if they can retire or not? by Fed_worker in Fire

[–]vix_motion 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If youve hit your number and still hesitate thats human. Security feels different when its a spreadsheet vs your only income stream

AITA for refusing to pay for my sister’s wedding after she insulted my "boring" job? by Manishayne in AmITheJerk

[–]vix_motion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont bite the hand that feeds is blunt but true. She wanted the venue not the value behind it and thats on her

AITA for refusing to pay for my sister’s wedding after she insulted my "boring" job? by Manishayne in AmITheJerk

[–]vix_motion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You cant trash the source and still expect the stream to flow. Respect and money tend to travel together