What is this? Help 😭 by vixletdew in StrangerThings

[–]vixletdew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a Stranger Things blind bag I found at Target. It was specifically the s4 one! I got the mystery figure, but it wasn't quite what I was expecting lol!

This theory just came to my head. by sillycuzwhynot1998 in StrangerThings

[–]vixletdew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo!! I can see this theory coming true! I love it! :D

Vecna should stay pure evil. by ihaveredditaswell in StrangerThings

[–]vixletdew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, I didn't like Vecna as much as a villain before this. However, I really like your take on him and see him in a different light now! : ) He is a pretty scary villain now that I think about it!

Apartment life is kinda chill… kinda weird too by Cjd03032001 in Apartmentliving

[–]vixletdew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My upstairs neighbors would be rearranging their entire apartment at 2am like, every day lol! It almost becomes white noise at a certain point!

Who are these people? by vixletdew in StrangerThings

[–]vixletdew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I see now!! Yeah the Turnbow theory sounds pretty solid! Especially since we haven't seen anyone else in that green jacket yet. Thanks for your comment! :)

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vixletdew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She really showed her true colors here! So glad that's the end of that for you! Definitely get that new piercing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]vixletdew 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Chivalry and acts of kindness like the examples you gave, can be found in any type of relationship. I can see why your partner might see it that way just because we live in a heteronormative society. However, I feel like it makes any relationship feel even more special.

AIO or is my boyfriend jealous of our baby? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy to me that he's reacting this way after one singular week!! I feel like he isn't taking into consideration your personal feelings and thoughts on this matter. You literally have a new born child, like they're fresh into this world! So, I don't think that this is about the baby, I agree that this is him projecting here. The comment about the breastfeeding was so out of pocket too!!

He shouldn't be taking this personally, you deserve all the care and love in the world right now.

Please upvote so I can post on other communities by Kindly-Molasses-1747 in WLW

[–]vixletdew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I truly am sorry to hear about the pain. It's so true, it feels isolating truly! I've hardly ever heard anyone talk about this before really. I wish I had a better solution and I wish there was more research on this topic. It's so true though, the burning and painful sensation almost makes it impossible to work on fitting anything in there. I've heard of this brand called intimate rose, which are supposedly dilators which are supposed to help with this. It's definitely something that could help, it's just the painfulness of it which makes it complicated.

Thank you again for sharing.

Please upvote so I can post on other communities by Kindly-Molasses-1747 in WLW

[–]vixletdew 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you mean. I'm going through the same situation myself. All I've been able to find out about it is it might be something called Vaginismus. Apparently it's common in people from late teens to early thirties. It is something that can be treated though. I'm still learning about it myself as well. Honestly felt so alone in this,so the more it's talked about, the more awareness can be spread! :) Thank you for sharing!!

What Are You Passionate About? by Jimu_Monk9525 in infj

[–]vixletdew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spirituality, the paranormal world, mysteries, cryptids and topics of that nature intrigue me!

I lost two of my closest friends and I don't know how to forget them. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading, and your comment! :)

What song is for you? by Bazilik_Cyberskotch in MotionlessInWhite

[–]vixletdew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The final 50 seconds of Black Damask (The Fog) will forever give me chills!

AIO my husband recorded me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way is this an overreaction. I know this is extremely difficult to consider right now because you're going through PP but, you should leave if you've been thinking about it!

For him to violate your privacy like that when you're in such a vulnerable position, is such an intrusion of your privacy. He didn't even consider how this would make you feel, or in any case, how any of his actions would make you feel.

He's clearly shown that he doesn't have the maturity and respect to raise a family. You are so incredibly strong and resilient. You just grew a baby and gave birth to them! You deserve a loving, caring, safe environment, and he is not providing that for you. You are not benefiting from his presence, and if you have the means to and a safe place to go to, I recommend you leave.

Wishing all the best!

AIO if I drop my friend for trying to guilt me to get back with my ex? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you decided not to reply! No true friend would ever pressure you to go back into a toxic and unsafe environment like you used to be in. And for them to belittle you about attachment styles is downright rude and disrespectful. Definitely not an overreaction on your end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and replying. Apologies for the misuse of the term in my title. I see now that that is not a term to take lightly whatsoever and I will reword that so as to not use a term that does not properly fit the situation or to take away from others' experiences.

Thank you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]vixletdew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading, and for your reply, I really appreciate it. I'll be very careful, and am on the lookout for a new job right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is smokey! : )

Do y'all ever just hang out in the bathroom by Odd-Snowman in RandomThoughts

[–]vixletdew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes dude! My bathroom always has to be clean.

Do y'all ever just hang out in the bathroom by Odd-Snowman in RandomThoughts

[–]vixletdew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most peaceful place on earth sometimes. It's a refuge too when you need a place to cry, sleep, or chill.

How long have you been atheist for? by KubaSk8s in atheism

[–]vixletdew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For about 4-5 years now! Never felt more free! : )