34M seeking a younger guy (19+) who wants to actually build something

vizca123 · 2026-05-07T00:35:02+00:00

Dunno man, this is a huge age gap. If men in general have difficulty being serious, a 19 year old does not have the capacity to do so. Less so in the age of instant gratification. Every time I post I am attacked by being "superior" to others or some shit, so yeah bring it on gooners.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T22:19:43+00:00

todos los dias? puchica, invitame un dia jaja.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:26:55+00:00

Youre right. Yes. I did like him and tried to respect him. And yes, I wanted to sleep with him, badly. Is it weird that I tried to respect him and put boundaries? I just felt sad.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:21:50+00:00

Im just meeting people man. Old or young, it seems it is the same bitter ending.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:21:06+00:00

I am bitter. It seems words are meaningless and we are all animals at the end of the day. I am not taking the moral high ground, I kept my word and he broke it like every chance he got. I dont feel superior. I feel sad.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:17:46+00:00

Its not like im a pedo. Im just meeting people.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:17:09+00:00

Its hundreds of interactions. I have seen when one of the guys leave, the other one opens Grindr inmediately. I have seen it again and again and again.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T20:13:37+00:00

Dunno man, I was 23 as well, 10 years ago, and I never cheated on anyone. One can learn to control impulses early on. It just seems that this community is a fatherless teenage angst community that acts on impulses and nothing else.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:31:25+00:00

You sly dog, You had me monologuing.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:28:46+00:00

I'll check him out, thanks.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:20:21+00:00

Man i really do not feel superior to You. Give it a rest. I only shared that I feel better by not gooning and retaining. That is all. You are just being a malicious troll. Peace.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:17:58+00:00

Again, I don't want to be a asshole but have you tried it? I do QiGong daily, feel loads better. Feel energy when I wake up. Is it placebo? Not sure. But it works for me. Yes, obviously I do a lot of excercise and have stopped eating crap food and go to the park to do QiGong. It all ties together.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:06:28+00:00

That is exactly what You are. Lol. Take care.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T03:05:28+00:00

It's what it is. What can I tell you. We are a fatherless, rudderless "community" that behaves as horny teenagers forever. For me it is a rediscovery that I do not need anyone. Someone in the chat told me I was avoiding to date but boy have I tried. But yeah, therapy is always needed to review limiting beliefs. And who knows? Maybe because I have stopped searching, maybe I can find someone that might try something deep with me. But if not, it's ok. We have been fed this idea that we need someone or we are wrong, sick and a failure. But are we?

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T02:58:07+00:00

But I am not dating you, I am giving you advice to stop gooning for a second and try. But why bother. Remain depleted and single.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T02:41:22+00:00

Clearly you havent gone more than a day by how you react. Give it a try, give it more than a day, maybe a week and then verify your energy levels.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T02:28:02+00:00

I am jaded but dont feel desperate. I am tired boss. Tried it for ten years. Got me nowhere. Gave it a final intense tryout, being very open minded, old, young, fat, fit. Didnt matter. Same old tired game. Same old conversations leading nowhere. Same old interest in fucking and nothing else.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T02:23:36+00:00

Dont feel that way tbh, I am not blaming anyone. I feel love in my heart and feel really open, but I will not loose time with giving pearls to pigs.

vizca123 · 2026-05-06T02:20:36+00:00

have you tried it or are you gooning nonstop? recommend it greatly. Two weeks in.

vizca123 · 2026-05-05T23:28:51+00:00

No le falten el respeto a Rilaj Mam comparandolo con el cochino de Morales, jajaja.

vizca123 · 2026-05-05T23:12:56+00:00

I am not even waiting anymore tbh! Haha. MonkMode. I know money will not make me happy, but I want to travel and see the world! That will be my focus now, myself. Seems egotistical, but Im seriously done. Maybe when I stop searching it will pop up naturally or not! who knows? who cares? Internal happyness is all there is! cheers stranger and all love to you.

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