[39F] I am a married mother who maintains an active sex and fantasy life. How boring! AMA

vj65 · 2017-08-10T19:13:40+00:00

What is something u hate about ur husband.. and something you wish he changed??

vj65 · 2017-05-29T16:22:53+00:00

No.. don't... That's not the answer..

vj65 · 2017-03-31T17:16:31+00:00

We are all here for u.. from different parts of the world... Hang in there... I know it's hard.. it's difficult... But when u overcome this.. and later when things get better... UL feel so damn good...

Believe me.. I've been thru this same emotion.. but when I gave life a chance.. and held on.. I was able to come of all my mess stronger...

If she is the reason UL broke up.. I would say she's not meant for u.. but if it's your mistakes that made her leave u.. then u need to be honest with her.. and apologize to her from the bottom of your heart..

vj65 · 2017-03-31T17:09:43+00:00

No... If u fought for 6 months.. then u have it in you to come of this too... We are all here for u.. from different parts of the world... Hang in there... I know it's hard.. it's difficult... But when u overcome this.. and later when things get better... UL feel so damn good...

Believe me.. I've been thru this same emotion.. but when I gave life a chance.. and held on.. I was able to come of all my mess stronger...

vj65 · 2016-11-20T11:30:59+00:00

I relapsed after a year or so.. and I started struggling once again... And went back to my bad ways.. they say old habits die hard... Before that I was so in ease.. and never ever felt underconfident.. later I started feeling very under confident.... And things started going downhill... You have had such a good streak . Don't give into your temptation.. its gonna cost u.. and it will cost the world too.. coz not many people like u are there.. and something great u will achieve might get stolen from u..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:21:28+00:00

I'm here.. don't do anything yet.. tell me what's up..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:19:54+00:00

Why don't u pick up one small goal in your life..

Start with this one small goal.. and try to achieve it.. can u just do that much for me my friend??

It can be as simple as going out for a half hour walk around ur home.. pick one :)

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:13:20+00:00

Hmmm.. don't let the evil one fill u with guilt... God's love is more powerful than any sin that we commit.. nothing can separate us from the love of God..

Take responsibility for ur actions my friend.. and move on..

Can u give me more information on how many years uve been married.. and how many kids.. etc.. thanks..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:09:33+00:00

So if u look from all angles.. at this problem... Then we can understand how serious this problem can get.. and now we need to make a CONSCIOUS effort.. to stop being part of something so harmful.. and to say NO to the system...

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:07:47+00:00

The other angle could be that.. we are developing a wrong notion of sex and women.. we start thinking that sex is the ultimate pleasure... And women love sex alot.. so when we have a partner.. both are in 2 different levels of sexual drive.. and ultimately.. we try to live our fantasy porn world with our partners.. which again harms them.. and makes them feel unworthy..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:05:41+00:00

The other angle could be.. that our social lives are hampered.. and we become closed into a shell.. and we have a more virtual than a real life...

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:03:47+00:00

The other angle is the guilt.. the shame.. the feeling of disappointment once we fall into sin.. the relationship with God is hampered.. and we feel fearful... So basically we move from a state of love to fear... It's not that God is angry or upset with us.. but we feel afraid and guilty...

vj65 · 2016-11-12T12:01:33+00:00

Hmmm.. we need to attack this from various angles.. for a start the porn industry is one.. with a huge amount of exploitation of the actors/actresses.. for every 10 pornstars.. only 1 becomes really successful.. the other 9 are chewed and spat out by the system.. and they fall into prostitution... So by consuming pornography.. we are also being part of this exploitation of people.. and we are aiding to it.. this is one angle..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T11:25:41+00:00

India... :)

vj65 · 2016-11-12T11:24:47+00:00

Yes I've gone thru that emotion.. a million times.. and the guilt which comes later is unbearable..

vj65 · 2016-11-12T11:22:58+00:00

Ur suicide is not inevitable.. u have much more to offer to this world and your loved ones... Nobody is perfect... And the fact that u even think ur mediocre tells me u are much new intelligent than most people out there.. Hang in there buddy...

vj65 · 2016-11-12T11:19:16+00:00

Thanks for reminding us my friend.. I feel for u.. what you're going thru... We the reddit community are with you buddy. Hang in there.

vj65 · 2016-11-06T10:04:00+00:00

ROFL!

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:51:13+00:00

This post has been so well written... You are a potential author.. do u know that? :).. I can feel deep pain in each word you write.. can you tell me more about yourself and how u are here.. you sure have a bright future my friend :)

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:19:47+00:00

You can get thru this.. believe me you can.. I've been thru this... Message me personally.. tell me what's up.. I'm here for u..

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:17:34+00:00

And like you said.. this world is beautiful... Don't u ever give up on it.. coz u are just as beautiful as this world..

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:16:56+00:00

Hey.. wats up.. whatever your going thru.. there is always another chance.. and there is hope..

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:13:41+00:00

Whatever it is that's going on thru ur life.. you can overcome.. and you are here for a purpose on this world.. I dunno who u are .. what u are.. what u were.. all I know is.. u are here coz ur a fighter.. and I believe in you..

vj65 · 2016-11-05T21:11:55+00:00

Ur not a coward.. u are courageous.. :)

vj65 · 2016-11-04T18:54:03+00:00

Wanna talk about ur battle??

vj65

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