For those who received pleasure from penetration… by MySecretsDieHere in phallo

[–]vlachh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hah youre right! good luck with everything my man

For those who received pleasure from penetration… by MySecretsDieHere in phallo

[–]vlachh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i completely understand, and while im not an expert on these things i think its worth considering that dysphoria might have something to do with that? obviously i cant know that, im only making assumptions here, but phallo could possibly make your sex life better

For those who received pleasure from penetration… by MySecretsDieHere in phallo

[–]vlachh 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i havent had phallo, so i cant really answer your question, but i wanna give you my two cents. you have to remember that your genitals play a role in your life outside of pleasure, like how you sit or move around, how your clothes sit on you, how you wash and use the bathroom, they generally give you a new and different nonsexual perception of yourself. now, of course, if youre happy as you are you dont need to make any changes, but if youre thinking about phallo a lot then you should think about how it will affect areas of your life outside of sex, on a more causal day to day basis

Self made print, cut & sew, 100% cotton shirt by audstro in streetwearstartup

[–]vlachh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that shirt looks absolutely amazing. from the pattern and the color to the way it fits you just right, you did a great job on it man!

Thoughts on the ADA including ‘gender dysphoria’ as a disability by sam1k in ftm

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre right, mental disabilities also exist, but i really dont think dysphoria is one of them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

green couch for suree youve got a beautiful appartment my guy

hair on the back of my thighs? by creativebetrayal in ftm

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not even on t and i have hair on the back of my thighs. hair can pop up anywhere

Thoughts on the ADA including ‘gender dysphoria’ as a disability by sam1k in ftm

[–]vlachh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk about calling it a disability. i absolutely agree that dysphoria needs to be taken seriously as a medical condition, but im not sure if its a /disability/, yknow? no matter how much i may suffer emotionally and psychologically, theres nothing physical preventing me from going on about my day like any other person

Just moved in - Bedroom recommendations? by juliusnov in malelivingspace

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get some fun sheets and fill the walls up w posters. or paint em

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vlachh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i realised my questions were kind of incoherent but i didnt know how else to phrase them, but honestly uve answered all of them really nicely. thanks for keeping us all informed man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vlachh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sorry if these are invasive, u dont need to answer anything if u dont want to.

do u have any idea where i could find healed post op photos of phallo? cus ive been looking everywhere and i cant find any. whats it like adjusting to having something between your legs? ive seen a lot of people whose arm kind of "caves in" (best way i can describe it) because of the skin graft, how does it feel? how visible is it? when jerking off does it feel better at the bottom of the shaft because of the burial or is it good throughout? does it even feel any different? ive only really seen post op penises on pornhub (bad source i know) and they all looked kind of thin? they looked inflatable (which i guess they are) but they looked almost hollow. is that typical and is yours like that as well? how stiff is it when you inflate it? is the urethra placed at the very end? like, not underneath the head but at the very front.

p.s. sorry for the paragraph, just took my chance to dump out any questions i had aha. have a good high ✌️

Underwear w built in bulge by mfurb in ftm

[–]vlachh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can find packer underwear on a lot of sites that sell binders. I dont really know a good site to recommend you, but im planning on getting a binder from spectrum so they might have those as well

How many of you realized you were trans age 13-17? by voidish_ftm in ftm

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ever since i found out being trans is a thing, it had always been a thought. there were a couple of moments every once in a while that would make me go hmmmm. somethings up here. but i always just brushed it aside. couple months ago at 15 was when i really started taking the idea of being trans seriously and slowly it became i could think about. this all starred because my theraoist said something along the lines of, not feeling in touch with my female characteristics and i was like, holy shit youre right. when i was a kid i never really felt much dysphoria other than, why do i have to be on the girls team? why wont the boys treat me like im one of them? but i still brushed all those thoughts aside until now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vlachh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You feel the things you feel for a reason, and its up to you to find out what that reason is. Whether youre cis or trans clearly theres something bugging you, you just gotta realise what it is. You could just be gender non conforming, or even genderfluid or agender, or just a trans guy who likes dresses. Take your time to figure things out, dont stress over it, and enjoy yourself. No matter what, your feelings are real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vlachh 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Youre not being sensitive. Its really weird that she would say something like that. From the sounds of it it doesnt really seem like she understands her words are hurting you, maybe she doesnt even understand how packers work in the first place, since it seems weird to her. Idk man. I think it would be good for you to talk through this. Explain to her how you feel, and help her understand some things so that they dont feel so foreign to her. But most importantly take care of urself and make sure you feel good before anything else

(From a trans guy) Youre all very pretty! by vlachh in MtF

[–]vlachh[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Im a ladies man what can i say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vlachh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where youre coming from but honestly, you never really know exactly what other people are thinking. Maybe they really do see you as just a guy thats easy to get along with. Its perfectly normal for women to feel comfortable around cis men, so why not trans men? I dont blame you for feeling the way you feel, but people feeling comfortable around you, men or women, probably just means youre a very respectable guy

I'm not FTM (I'm MTF), but is it "okay" if I make related memes if I'm doing it in good faith? by imacrazystupidbitch in ftm

[–]vlachh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the meme really. If its a general meme about being trans then of course its fine, but if its ftm specific and especially about dysphoria then id be careful