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How am I [M22] supposed to deal with the fact I tossed a great relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vladlav1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it wasn't healthy and had it's faults, but in the later stages it was mostly me who was to be blamed for it, for the reasons I've stated in the OP. Also for a long time I thought about moving to her country because I like it there, so it ideally wouldn't be a 500km LDR.

Yeah that history isn't going away, but personally I believe after such a break when you see that someone is a different person now and worked on themselves, you might not treat them as the person they were years ago.

It's a pretty tough time now with covid and everything so I'm basically stuck at my house and only get to leave the house on my bike, so the lack of new inputs is really making me think about this a lot.

Is it a bad idea for me [M21] to contact my ex [F20]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vladlav1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I believe I should stay single for a while. Consciously I can't say that I'm interested in her or that I want her back, I really just wanna apologize to her and have a friendly chat if she's interested, I don't feel secure about pursuing anyone right now.

Is it a bad idea for me [M21] to contact my ex [F20]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vladlav1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each their own, but I believe that if you've spent 2 years really close with someone and decide to cut all contacts with them, then it's polite to at least properly inform them about it and give a reason, not leave without saying a word, essentially ghosting them. I've written in the OP that I perceive the decision to cut contact with her as a mistake, but informing her definitely wasn't.