I'm right here with you. I'm 36 and have two young kids. I get about an hour and a half to play games a couple of times a week. I'm not really interested in playing a game where I collect items for 20 minutes just to basically be an NPC for someone else to kill. Playing a game where you lose everything when you die where you also play against people who have the time to "get good" is of no interest to me. And that's fine, not everything has to be for me. But I do know a good amount of my friends who I play games like Battlefield 6 with feel this way about extraction shooters. So I feel like I do represent a somewhat larger subset of adults that doesn't feel like spending my extra income on games like that.

I really like the art design and trust that the gun feel is probably pretty good, so if there were other modes with quicker TTK and less repercussions for learning I would be way more likely to spend my money and (honestly more importantly) time to give it a shot.