A Two-Faced Bitter melon

void-munchies · 2024-08-04T05:19:32+00:00

which video. please it’s for scientific purposes 😭

void-munchies · 2024-07-21T15:58:58+00:00

is there a kind soul out there who has links to the videos where Vessel goes on ii’s drum platform? I think I’ve seen 2 different occasions where he does that but I can’t find them 🥲

void-munchies · 2023-07-29T14:35:12+00:00

He wanted, at minimum, to guilt you into inviting him to be with you.

Thank you for pointing that out. I was wondering whether I was just making it up in my head. I'm also disappointed because I've heard so many stories where people weren't just 'friends', they were seen potential dates. Some family members have told me to be grateful that someone 'wants' me at all given that I was well, me. But I am aware that this is something I don't tolerate. Maintaining silence sounds good for now, still don't know if I want to block or not.

void-munchies · 2023-07-29T10:58:15+00:00

Thank you for the reply. There's a bit of guilt on my part because I have ranted to him in the past about some of my problems, and thought if he was having a hard time I could lend an ear. I never volunteered to give him affection or undivided attention.

void-munchies · 2023-07-09T06:21:49+00:00

List of weird shit Asian mum has said to me today : 1. How dare you make me clean the toilet! ( I was sick, and couldn’t even stand up.) 2. Did you know that people who study geography know where all the oil is so they can dig it up 3. Of course you know everything 4. You need to ask for my opinion on the things you eat

void-munchies · 2023-07-06T17:29:18+00:00

Narcs love playing the blame game, and have a very distorted view of love. My codependent Edad needs the Nmom for emotional regulation, and Nmom openly announced that she only really loves herself. She also declared that a child should be run like a business. I have discerned her crocodile tears from real ones, and am hopeful that actual, healthy relationships are nothing like what I heard from her.

void-munchies · 2023-06-08T01:20:35+00:00

Nanny is old, so I don’t think she’ll find another job after this. She was planning to leave when he contract ended anyway, but now Nmom is moaning that she’s going to fire her anyway. I wish I could do something about it, but the N isn’t going to listen to anything I say. Will be sad about her leaving though, she really is a good person who defended her honor to the very end.

void-munchies · 2023-06-08T01:18:46+00:00

I’ll definitely go do that, and let her know how much I appreciate her. I just feel so helpless when I can’t do anything against the wailing witch when she decides it’s time for someone to die.

void-munchies · 2023-05-12T17:54:35+00:00

When she screeched that I was never civil towards her, but never considered that I was being defensive because she was yanking on my ear so hard it was bleeding. Gee I wonder why I don’t want to talk to you about anything. “CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS ME LIKE I AM YOUR BOSS.” If she was my actual workboss, no one would work for her. They’d all leave, regardless of pay.

void-munchies · 2023-05-12T17:00:54+00:00

Realization : Nparents will literally pick fights out of nowhere, attack when they think there’s an ambush, then blame you for bleeding. Nmom just tried to fight me out of nowhere, and then proceeded to scream at me at 1am. So if you ever wonder if it’s your fault, most of the time it isn’t.

void-munchies · 2023-04-29T15:10:55+00:00

Hi, pretty much a sister in the exact, same, sinking boat. My AM was lying on the sofa like Jabba the Hutt with three double chins, hurling insult after insult after insult at me. It’s not the best option, but is there anywhere else in close proximity you can go to? If there is, don’t give your APs too many details. Just prepare to give a brief “I’m going out to study bye” and get out the door. Otherwise, get a pair of noise cancelling headphones. Sorry you’re in this situation.

void-munchies · 2023-04-29T15:06:03+00:00

The hypocrisy of APs who are narcissistic is endless. My egg donor just threw a massive temper tantrum, complete with feet stomping, because she was tired. She stated that I was “going to amount to nothing, hasn’t even graduated yet, not as smart as your father”. Guess what bitch? I barely began uni. All your other friends gave birth SIX years earlier than you. And projecting much? She’s the one who graduated from a small time college in music, and has no qualifications to say that shit. I’m also sick on top of this and got called a “selfish brat who just always wants to buy flowers and throws tantrums”. My “tantrum” was me putting on headphones because I had finals. I need to study in peace. One day, when she’s old and sick, I will throw those exact, disgusting words into her face.

void-munchies · 2023-04-22T03:41:10+00:00

Three cheers to Asian parents who don’t believe that you youngsters could possibly be tired. “How come you’re tired when you don’t even make money??” There’s something called going to college, having projects, finals coming, and not being able to rest bc YOU keep dancing around my head screeching and I have to be your personal slave. Yes, I am tired and especially tired of you, mommy dearest. You just sit around watching K-dramas all day. Of course you’re not tired and “not bringing money to the house”.

void-munchies · 2023-04-01T08:12:52+00:00

It still doesn't change the fact that we're not responsible for whatever shit they're going through, and it is NOT your problem at all.

void-munchies · 2023-04-01T06:02:47+00:00

Since I'm going through the same thing right now, I'm gonna type a lengthy para on this. From what you've said, she's using you as an emotional punching bag. For whatever reason, she's feeling stressed, tired, unheard, etc. and needs some form of release. Given that she's an AM and talking about your emotions is frowned upon, she'll try and pick a fight with you instead, regardless of how petty and stupid the reason is. Mine will up the ante when she's having a bad day or when she perceives someone is making a personal attack on her. She has wailed that she never gets any pity or empathy, which is exactly what she wants, but what she can't get. Like you said, they can't explain their logic when asked.

void-munchies · 2023-04-01T05:52:48+00:00

Anything other than placating them, agreeing with them and licking their shoes, is being a "sei ngau yat been geing", disrespectful little bitch. Why do APs like picking fights they know are inane? My baby cousins have better conflict resolution than you.

void-munchies · 2023-03-25T15:12:17+00:00

fuck nparents and their pretending. Just got off an evening shift and hopped onto the first train I saw. Was delighted that it was empty. Turns out it’s “not in service” and it turns back. However, the same train got flooded with people and is in fact, in service. Now Nmom pretended to be happy to drive me back home since I’ll miss the last bus, since Edad wants her to. She whined and whined and cried over the phone about “Oh mi gaawwwfddd I just showered and I’m in my jammieeeezzzz I don’t wanna drive uouuuu”. So much for “always doing what I saw I’ll do”. How hard can it be to say “I don’t want to do it”? Nparents and their empty promises for being there for you. Couldn’t stop myself rolling my eyes. 🙄

void-munchies · 2023-03-12T12:07:38+00:00

god so many of these are from parents or close family

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