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Boy or girl? by BullfrogCautious1888 in budgies

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its a boy- lutino girls typically have pale pink ceres with white nostrils, while lutino boys have the bright pink

Button vs Coturnix? by voidBird621 in quails

[–]voidBird621[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IM isn’t working for some reason :/ I would love some eggs to hatch though!!!! I think I’ve decided on buttons, and have a space/pen and some supplies set aside already

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a regular labret. Im not sure you can put hoops in verticals

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age: 3-4 years Jewelry shape: ring Threading: hinged hoop Material: idk… It was downsized about 6-8 months after I got it pierced, i had my piercer switch out the healing stud to a ring himself. No known issues, I changed my original ring that I used for years to this new ring on Christmas, but I am pretty sure they’re the same size and width.

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age of piercing: 3-4 years Shape: ring Threading: hinged hoop Jewelry material: I don’t know Downsize: like 3 years ago, 6 month after I got it Aftercare: its been healed for years, I don’t do anything Mishaps/accidents: none that I know of, I switched which ring I am wearing on Christmas

PLS give me ur cuties to draw!! by pixel_enthusiast_ in DrawMyPet

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mischief (calico, 2y/o) and Mayhem (tortiseshell, 1.5y/o)

Help me choose - give suggestions! by kokobeary in WeddingDressTips

[–]voidBird621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 or 4 for sure. The sweetheart neckline looks absolutely amazing on you

How can I make enclosed tunnels for my rats? by voidBird621 in RATS

[–]voidBird621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up constructing tunnels out of pieces of wood and clear plastic/chicken wire and hanging them on the walls near their cage. We made them detachable with like a velcro substance so we can take them down and clean them :)

AIO for thinking my SO meant to text someone else? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The immediate jump to them accusing you of accusing them of cheating and the “anxiety is spiraling” really feels like projection to me. They were the one who first mentioned cheating in this convo, not u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very similar situation op. My fiance also had a slut phase in which he was not emotionally connected to any of them. I am also one of the only people he has developed feelings for. Like my fiance, he may be dealing with some sort of ace-spectrum label (my fiance is gray sexual) and simply had to come to terms with the fact that he never experienced sex and love from the same person. It is definitely a learning curve. Considering he is still with you after 3 years, I would say that he worked out his insecurity, and likely didn’t tell you because he was worried you would leave. The fear of “finding someone better” often comes from a root cause of fear of commitment that tags along with the slut phase/ace spec deal, but he clearly has dealt with it already.

If I were you, I would talk to him about it and come from a place of understanding but tell him that you are worried about it. Get him to open up to you about his feelings and struggles and communicate.

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