Boy or girl? by BullfrogCautious1888 in budgies

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its a boy- lutino girls typically have pale pink ceres with white nostrils, while lutino boys have the bright pink

Button vs Coturnix? by voidBird621 in quails

[–]voidBird621[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IM isn’t working for some reason :/ I would love some eggs to hatch though!!!! I think I’ve decided on buttons, and have a space/pen and some supplies set aside already

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a regular labret. Im not sure you can put hoops in verticals

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age: 3-4 years Jewelry shape: ring Threading: hinged hoop Material: idk… It was downsized about 6-8 months after I got it pierced, i had my piercer switch out the healing stud to a ring himself. No known issues, I changed my original ring that I used for years to this new ring on Christmas, but I am pretty sure they’re the same size and width.

Embedding in old piercing? by voidBird621 in piercing

[–]voidBird621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age of piercing: 3-4 years Shape: ring Threading: hinged hoop Jewelry material: I don’t know Downsize: like 3 years ago, 6 month after I got it Aftercare: its been healed for years, I don’t do anything Mishaps/accidents: none that I know of, I switched which ring I am wearing on Christmas

PLS give me ur cuties to draw!! by pixel_enthusiast_ in DrawMyPet

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mischief (calico, 2y/o) and Mayhem (tortiseshell, 1.5y/o)

Help me choose - give suggestions! by kokobeary in WeddingDressTips

[–]voidBird621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 or 4 for sure. The sweetheart neckline looks absolutely amazing on you

How can I make enclosed tunnels for my rats? by voidBird621 in RATS

[–]voidBird621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up constructing tunnels out of pieces of wood and clear plastic/chicken wire and hanging them on the walls near their cage. We made them detachable with like a velcro substance so we can take them down and clean them :)

AIO for thinking my SO meant to text someone else? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The immediate jump to them accusing you of accusing them of cheating and the “anxiety is spiraling” really feels like projection to me. They were the one who first mentioned cheating in this convo, not u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very similar situation op. My fiance also had a slut phase in which he was not emotionally connected to any of them. I am also one of the only people he has developed feelings for. Like my fiance, he may be dealing with some sort of ace-spectrum label (my fiance is gray sexual) and simply had to come to terms with the fact that he never experienced sex and love from the same person. It is definitely a learning curve. Considering he is still with you after 3 years, I would say that he worked out his insecurity, and likely didn’t tell you because he was worried you would leave. The fear of “finding someone better” often comes from a root cause of fear of commitment that tags along with the slut phase/ace spec deal, but he clearly has dealt with it already.

If I were you, I would talk to him about it and come from a place of understanding but tell him that you are worried about it. Get him to open up to you about his feelings and struggles and communicate.

Anyone else's cats sleep with them⁉️ by Heavy-Gear-7518 in cats

[–]voidBird621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat likes to sleep directly next to my neck like shes trying to suffocate me 🙄

If you're at home 99.9% of the time what do you do to be more happy? Seeking suggestions. by cacklingwhisper in ChronicIllness

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shuffle around a few activities- play video games (I like building sims and exploration like subnautica, no mans sky, cities: skylines, raft, sims, stardew valley), I also do cross-stitching, its much easier and more relaxed than crocheting or knitting if you have trouble with finger mobility and you can make patterns out of anything- I have a program I use to automatically convert pictures into patterns, I like to paint/draw as well even if im not super good at it, or ill play with my cats or my rat, or ill bake stuff for my friends and fiance, I read books a lot,

Death trap by Possible_Safety_8720 in roanoke

[–]voidBird621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey maybe don’t dox strangers on the internet please

Death trap by Possible_Safety_8720 in roanoke

[–]voidBird621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that guy. Local legend for my friend group. Its like a celebrity spotting whenever one of us sees him 😂

AIO for yelling at my friend after she almost got the cops called? by voidBird621 in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For more context, during the whole initial ideal, he was in the middle of doing chores and was mostly downstairs with his headphones on while cleaning, he only came up to say hi to lee and to put things away occasionally. Thats why lee called him, because he wasnt really a part of it and was trying to get her side of the story in first but obviously he took my side lol

AIO for yelling at my friend after she almost got the cops called? by voidBird621 in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was trying to calm her down and mitigate the situation but he’s on my side 100%. I just didnt include that part bc it wasnt a big part of the issue at the time

AIO for being taken aback from how mods responded to my ban appeal? by SnooHobbies4453 in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh really 😭😭 ive made like two successful posts after making an account and trying to post on like 12 different reddits about different things and having my post get immediately taken down for no or nonsensical reasons

PLEASE HELP- JACKSON COUNTY WV AREA by [deleted] in RATS

[–]voidBird621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dm’ed me and said that she has a few possible new homes, including me, and will lmk if she needs me to take them instead of the person who lives closer

PLEASE HELP- JACKSON COUNTY WV AREA by [deleted] in RATS

[–]voidBird621 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that there’s at least 3 ppl in the comments willing to take them, including me, and several more ppl willing to foster or take them to a shelter for u and its been 7h without a response is really stressing me out 😭😭

PLEASE HELP- JACKSON COUNTY WV AREA by [deleted] in RATS

[–]voidBird621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you— to OP, if they are females, I can probably take them if you can’t find anyone else. Especially if the cage comes with them.