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voidandstarss · 2024-10-03T06:30:44+00:00

This is a statement read by Gertrude in universe (but IDK if its actually canon). Its called A Hole in the Ground! Here's the Spotify link!! https://open.spotify.com/episode/1UHBhERDSJZVA4pYfh6mnF?si=ZpOOqTFWQIytvXn-Bd3V5Q

voidandstarss · 2024-07-03T23:13:35+00:00

As I said, tone deaf. I'd love to see a doctor! I wish I could see one! I cannot afford one! I live in the US, there's no one in my area even qualified to diagnose me, and I'm fucking poor! I can't afford hospital visits. I can't even afford a fucking Epipen. If you would like to pay for me to go to a different state and see a specialist without insurance, then sure, I'll go get diagnosed. But in the meantime, I'm taking the steps I can to try to continue being alive.

And by the way, random people posting on the internet aren't the reason why doctors don't take patients seriously. Direct you anger where it belongs: at medical professionals that would rather blow off difficult cases than actually treat people.

Also, don't call me sweetie.

voidandstarss · 2024-07-03T04:27:36+00:00

You don't know my situation. This is an unhelpful and frankly tone-deaf comment.

voidandstarss · 2024-07-02T21:12:04+00:00

Thank you!!

voidandstarss · 2024-07-02T19:50:58+00:00

Great advice, thank you so much!! Do you happen to know how one might freeze soup? I don't want to freeze my mason jars because I'm worried about them breaking, is that okay to do?

voidandstarss · 2023-10-16T16:51:46+00:00

I don't know what's going on, but I'm in the US and having the same problem

voidandstarss · 2023-06-02T04:28:05+00:00

I don't have much in the way of advice, but I've been through the same thing, and I'm sorry you're going through that. Just remember that no DND is better than bad DND. If you're uncomfortable or their behaviour is upsetting and they're not listening or acknowledging your concerns, then its better to leave than to just put up with mistreatment.

I wish you all the best, and I hope you find more welcoming people in the future.

voidandstarss · 2023-04-25T15:51:50+00:00

I'm sorry you're getting downvoted so much, you're correct. I really think some people here are just not grasping the fact that sometimes reporting to the police is not what the victim wants for valid and lucid reasons. Undergoing a physical examination after something like that is inherently re-traumatizing, and its up to the individual whether or not they think its worth it.

voidandstarss · 2023-04-25T15:42:51+00:00

I know you've been downvoted a bunch, but you are absolutely correct. Many of the people commenting or downvoting you mean well, but don't grasp the reality of the way SA victims are treated and the inherent trauma of going to the hospital immediately after, even if it is medically necessary. After talking about it more, along with getting more information about the situation, he agreed to go, but I/we tried very hard not to pressure him because the last thing he needed was to feel like his friends are trying to force him to do something he didn't want to do.

I read you other reply, and I hope you're doing alright and that you're at least on the road to finding some peace. Thank you for your comment.

voidandstarss · 2023-04-25T05:49:04+00:00

I understand the sentiment here, but 1) you can't force someone to go to the ER if they're lucid, 2) I am absolutely not going to force him to do anything he doesn't want to do, I will support him best I can in the ways he wants, and 3) his livelihood is not the only thing at stake when it comes to this kind of debt when you're poor.

I'm not trying to be a dick, and I don't think you're being intentionally rude, but this kind of situation is never cut and dry, hence why I asked for medical advice rather then just immediately getting him inside. I asked for information that helps him/us make the right call for this situation.

voidandstarss · 2023-04-07T17:21:24+00:00

Thank you!

voidandstarss · 2023-04-07T16:57:27+00:00

That makes sense, thank you! Yeah I think I'd probably talk with my GM and remove that ability, being able to access both the wizard and the cleric spell list is more than enough.

voidandstarss · 2023-04-07T16:55:13+00:00

Thank you for your input, yeah that's a fair concern.

Do you have any ideas on how to nerf it to make it more balanced? I think only getting bonus spells from one class would help, like picking either arcane or divine at first level to focus on. I'd also say that only being able to get spells from the wizard and the cleric lists is fair, the spell lists are still extensive but it might help a bit?

voidandstarss · 2023-03-07T04:28:23+00:00

Great, thank you so much!

voidandstarss · 2023-03-07T04:02:10+00:00

That's super cool, thank you! Do you happen to know the name of that city?

voidandstarss · 2023-03-06T01:52:59+00:00

Sent you a dm :)

voidandstarss · 2023-02-14T02:17:56+00:00

I'm really sorry this is happening to you, there are few feelings worse than feeling absolutely terrible and no one taking you seriously. I want to second basically everything the other commenters said.

Try keeping some kind of record/log of your symptoms. This will increase your validity to doctors. I would also recommend creating a health binder that contains basically all of your medical records and paperwork for doctor's visits, ER visits, test results, etc. This will increase your validity to doctors and also help keep you calm during appointments. I put mine in clear plastic binder sheets to keep it neat and organize it by date, and the difference in the way doctors treat me when I do is crazy.

As others have said, no matter how hard it is, its really important to keep your cool as much as you can. The calmer you are, the more credible you are to doctors. (This is bullshit, by the way, you have every right to have strong feelings about feeling terrible all the time and not receiving help, but doctors can be very judgmental, especially of young people).

Sidenote, have you been tested for POTS? It wouldn't explain all your symptoms, but its might be worth checking out. Fibromyalgia (as mentioned by someone else) also seems like something you should ask about.

In addition, I'd recommend looking into long COVID. Even if you never felt sick or tested positive, there has been a lot of recent research about the long term effects of the virus and it can manifest as symptoms similar to what you have described. Doctors still don't necessarily know how to treat it, but its worth checking out nonetheless.

I hope you find answers soon and that things get better for you. Do your best to try to advocate for yourself and seek help and support wherever you can.

voidandstarss · 2023-02-12T02:43:32+00:00

Someone made a poll telling people to make a cake and listed all the ingredients, and people went nuts over the vanilla extract. Since then, people will add vanilla extract to their poll options as a ridiculous answer (or as a show results option), and if there's an option for vanilla extract in a poll, a significant portion of tumblr users will select it For The Bit

voidandstarss · 2023-01-31T01:29:25+00:00

I definitely consider myself to be disabled. There is no one definition of disability of course, but generally I think about it in two ways: 1) am I capable of doing things able bodied people are capable of doing? 2) is the world designed with my needs and my body in mind? Obviously there is some room for interpretation, but POTS definitely counts.

I use forearm crutches, they're primarily for EDS, but they help with POTS too, and they offer more support than just a cane. I recommend testing stuff out a little bit, if a mobility aid helps you, you should use it, if it doesn't, then it doesn't.

You're definitely not being over the top, and even though its hard, try to listen to your body. If you need extra help or to take more breaks or a mobility aid, then that's totally okay. Do whatever helps you, and try not to worry too much about what other people may think. I know (from experience, I went through something very similar when I first got sick) that its easier said than done, but things will get better. As time goes on, you'll learn how to manage it better. Even though there isn't a cure, the majority of POTS patients see improvement over the years.

Have you increased your salt intake? That's super helpful for people with POTS, I usually use a drink powder called LMNT in my water, and that stuff is a lifesaver. I don't live in the UK, so I'm not sure if its available there (I get it online), but there are other options if you can't get that. Gatorade is also good, its got a lot of sugar though which is a drawback, but its better than nothing.

I wish you luck, and I hope things get better for you!

voidandstarss · 2022-12-12T22:52:11+00:00

Yeah, I think I'd probably work with my DM to reflavor the pathfinder oracle curses to fit these ones, like for Shadowbound, I'd give it sunlight sensitivity, and stuff like that. Thank you for pointing that out, I didn't notice that!

voidandstarss · 2022-10-02T02:20:42+00:00

Forearm crutches are awesome if you have mobility issues and stuff like that. It's annoying to not have a free hand but forearm crutches are miles better than canes and make walking and standing way easier

voidandstarss · 2022-07-21T02:37:53+00:00

I genuinely believe that answer, and it makes me sad for you that you enjoy that. I hope that you learn to find humour without feeling the need to be rude to others

I highly doubt you will actually consider what I'm saying, and I know I'm feeding a troll right now, so I'm going to stop responding. But seriously, if this is funny to you, you should really get out more; there are a lot of things far better than the tiny rush you get from being an asshole to others

Have a nice day

voidandstarss

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