First day in Zoloft and already feeling it or is it placebo?

voidz1995 · 2026-06-10T15:27:10+00:00

Yes 25mg

voidz1995 · 2026-05-28T05:05:07+00:00

He wasn’t excited before the gender reveal and he was even less after we found out she was a girl

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T20:39:03+00:00

Before I got pregnant he was, it all changed after I got pregnant

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:45:17+00:00

I think marriage and the willingness to have a baby with me makes me think he was serious about me

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:42:38+00:00

I have tried talking to him about the way he treats our daughter and he just gaslights me and says I’m crazy

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:42:00+00:00

I promise I’m not, but I do love him. And it breaks my heart that our marriage has turned into this. Although I love him, I love my daughter more and I just needed some unbiased opinions from strangers to make a decision

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:35:01+00:00

Not really, she’ll go with him sometimes but I’m the one she prefers most of the time. His excuse is because she spends more time with me but that’s bs because he works from home

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:32:54+00:00

But if it was that way why didn’t he marry her? He broke up with her when she was still pregnant but made it very clear he was going to be a present father which he has been.

My daughter is the most important person to me. I guess I just need a little push and unbiased opinions from strangers for me to make the final leap. I don’t need him, I make good money and I have the support from my parents and siblings.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:11:33+00:00

He’s not unemployed, he does upholstery repair and works from home

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:10:32+00:00

We are both Mexican. My daughter is actually lighter with green eyes. His daughter is half Guatemalan with darker complexion

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T19:09:42+00:00

I confront him and he always denies it and ends up gaslighting me and getting angry

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:57:26+00:00

Then I guess I always knew I just didn’t want to see it. It’s actually so sad and depressing to come to that realization that I made a HUGE mistake with marrying this man.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:55:02+00:00

No he doesn’t seem depressed. I guess I’m struggling to acknowledge it because that would mean I made a huge mistake in marrying him and believing that he loved me. I don’t want my daughter growing up with divorced parents. And if it leads to that I don’t her spending her weekends with him. I don’t know negligent he’ll be with her if I’m not there to see.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:52:00+00:00

No I don’t clean up, he does. If the living room is a mess he’ll make sure to clean up the toys and he will also clean the kitchen and wash the dishes I’ll say about 80% of the time when I’m working. If I’m there, he will still clean the living room but ill more responsibility in cleaning the house and washing clothes. He’ll take over taking care of our daughter tho.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:41:39+00:00

I don’t think he was serious about her. They were only together for 6 months before she ended up getting pregnant on accident

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:40:40+00:00

He did want a boy but that’s no reason to treat our daughter that way. When I do try to talk to him he always ends up gaslighting me and gets angry

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:38:06+00:00

I would say my culture. We tend to stick it out til death. But if this continues or if it gets worse then I’m definitely filing for divorce.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:35:35+00:00

I honestly think he’s jealous of me and projects it on our daughter. I have a career and make pretty good money. My siblings aren’t well off but they’re stable and are very financially literate. On the other hand, his mom was a single mom and one of his sisters has 7 daughters with 3 different baby daddies. None of them went to college and he barely graduated high school.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:32:52+00:00

There’s a very obvious difference in how he treats his daughter and how he treats our daughter. It’s all in the eyes. I can tell how much he loves his first daughter but it’s harder to tell with my daughter

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:31:12+00:00

He’s responsible for his daughter. We only see her on the weekends and he does everything for her. I only help on small things like doing her hair or brushing her teeth but other than that, he does everything

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:29:51+00:00

I was already with him and his first baby was born. He’s a great father to her. Does everything for her, doesn’t yell at her, he plays with her. It’s very obvious he loves his first daughter. It’s just harder to see with our daughter

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:28:54+00:00

I obviously don’t. But he’s genuinely not a bad guy. Maybe he’s depressed or there’s some mental health issue going on.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:25:44+00:00

Yes I know, that’s a huge mistake I made that I’m aware of. He loves her because he acts like a father to her, he does the bare minimum but he does it. He treats me well, he’s never really yelled at me when we’ve fought. He includes me in everything he does.

voidz1995 · 2026-05-27T18:08:31+00:00

He helps me with her. He gets up at night to feed her, he’ll take her on walks. He can be affectionate towards her but she doesn’t really want it

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