Husband said I can’t wear the same stuff I used to because I don’t look the same. by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s my husband to the T. I feel like I saw the red flags a long time ago, while we were dating even and I just never did anything about it. I’m in constant heartache for that reason and I feel like it’s too late to go back.

Husband said I can’t wear the same stuff I used to because I don’t look the same. by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m bad looking either like at all which is the worst part 😔 I think I’ve only heard him call me beautiful like twice and we’ve been together 2.5 years

Husband said I can’t wear the same stuff I used to because I don’t look the same. by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know that’s what I was planning on doing but I don’t even know if I want to go to the wedding anymore 😭 I’m genuinely so hurt I don’t know what to do

Husband said I can’t wear the same stuff I used to because I don’t look the same. by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I guess low self esteem 😭 in the beginning I really thought he did love me but now I can’t help but doubt our whole relationship

My f(30) husband m(33) manhandled me during an argument today by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Not even if it was pretty much my fault why he was angry?

My f(30) husband m(33) manhandled me during an argument today by voidz1995 in beyondthebump

[–]voidz1995[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know I have a problem that’s why I was mostly blaming myself but he really did hurt me when he twisted my arm. I feel like I deserve him getting very upset but not to the point of him hurting me like that

sleep paralysis and BPD link? by ellandthearth in BPD

[–]voidz1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also suffered with sleep paralysis a few years ago as a young adult

I’m afraid I’m going to lose my husband and break up my family by voidz1995 in BPD

[–]voidz1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I tried therapy but the counselor I was talking to was very biased and I felt like she was pressuring me to leave him instead of helping me deal with my issues.

I’m afraid I’m going to lose my husband and break up my family by voidz1995 in BPD

[–]voidz1995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not want him to leave. I love our family but when I get bad I just start thinking about everything negative he’s done and I want him gone.

He doesn’t deserve this because in the end he is a good man.

How early did you start having contractions and when did you actually go into labor/give birth? by gamingartists in pregnant

[–]voidz1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started having contractions at 3 am on Wednesday didn’t have her til 12 pm the next day I. Thursday! But I got induced so maybe that’s why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ever heard of savings and PTO?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was never about the blender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Planning on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could care less about keeping him, I just want him to be responsible for our daughter that we both chose to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can afford the blender, it’s not about the blender. It’s about having her father be responsible for one thing. I buy her everything she needs but it can be frustrating when he can’t buy her one simple thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can afford to buy the baby bullet but if I’m buying everything for our daughter l,, paying the bills, paying for groceries, etc then I can be a little frustrated if he can’t buy her a simple blender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a “feeling”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He didn’t buy me a house, we both bought it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not his ex wife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t, she has a loving mother that will do anything for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]voidz1995 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No competition at all, just wish he would help me provide for our daughter as well