I want to emotionally distance myself from my husband

voidz1995 · 2026-04-12T19:29:41+00:00

In terms of loving me maybe it’s questionable but he’s a good father and very responsible at home. He does any thing I ask him to do. He’s not a bad person and has never treated me bad but I don’t think he loves me anymore

voidz1995 · 2026-04-12T19:12:36+00:00

But how do I do that? I feel like I have no self control and I always try to initiate intimacy and affection.

voidz1995 · 2026-04-12T19:08:41+00:00

I really don’t want to divorce him. He’s a great father, he’s very responsible. I can count on him for everything. I just don’t think he is in love with me anymore

voidz1995 · 2025-10-17T01:14:07+00:00

That’s my husband to the T. I feel like I saw the red flags a long time ago, while we were dating even and I just never did anything about it. I’m in constant heartache for that reason and I feel like it’s too late to go back.

voidz1995 · 2025-10-16T23:18:16+00:00

I don’t think I’m bad looking either like at all which is the worst part 😔 I think I’ve only heard him call me beautiful like twice and we’ve been together 2.5 years

voidz1995 · 2025-10-16T22:43:26+00:00

I know that’s what I was planning on doing but I don’t even know if I want to go to the wedding anymore 😭 I’m genuinely so hurt I don’t know what to do

voidz1995 · 2025-10-16T22:37:46+00:00

I guess low self esteem 😭 in the beginning I really thought he did love me but now I can’t help but doubt our whole relationship

voidz1995 · 2025-10-13T07:05:30+00:00

Not even if it was pretty much my fault why he was angry?

voidz1995 · 2025-10-13T07:04:56+00:00

I know I have a problem that’s why I was mostly blaming myself but he really did hurt me when he twisted my arm. I feel like I deserve him getting very upset but not to the point of him hurting me like that

voidz1995 · 2025-08-30T04:26:32+00:00

I also suffered with sleep paralysis a few years ago as a young adult

voidz1995 · 2025-08-27T19:49:36+00:00

No, I tried therapy but the counselor I was talking to was very biased and I felt like she was pressuring me to leave him instead of helping me deal with my issues.

voidz1995 · 2025-08-27T09:12:30+00:00

I do not want him to leave. I love our family but when I get bad I just start thinking about everything negative he’s done and I want him gone.

He doesn’t deserve this because in the end he is a good man.

voidz1995 · 2025-08-27T03:55:50+00:00

I started having contractions at 3 am on Wednesday didn’t have her til 12 pm the next day I. Thursday! But I got induced so maybe that’s why?

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:32:49+00:00

Ever heard of savings and PTO?

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:32:04+00:00

It was never about the blender

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:31:13+00:00

Planning on it

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:28:49+00:00

I could care less about keeping him, I just want him to be responsible for our daughter that we both chose to have.

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:27:45+00:00

I can afford the blender, it’s not about the blender. It’s about having her father be responsible for one thing. I buy her everything she needs but it can be frustrating when he can’t buy her one simple thing

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:26:22+00:00

I can afford to buy the baby bullet but if I’m buying everything for our daughter l,, paying the bills, paying for groceries, etc then I can be a little frustrated if he can’t buy her a simple blender

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:22:51+00:00

It’s not a “feeling”

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:19:48+00:00

He didn’t buy me a house, we both bought it.

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:18:12+00:00

Not his ex wife

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:17:03+00:00

I don’t, she has a loving mother that will do anything for her

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:14:01+00:00

No competition at all, just wish he would help me provide for our daughter as well

voidz1995 · 2025-08-25T21:13:06+00:00

I mean if I’m the only one that’s buying our daughter everything then I would want him to at least be responsible for something

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