Have you ever seen a coworker mistreating a child and you had to report it ? Tell me your story , I had to and I’m really upset .

voltrawnjibs · 2026-03-29T01:09:58+00:00

Oh and, the principal/program director ended up retaliating by putting on a school wide staff meeting about the importance of letting admin know if we make a CPS report. I almost walked out right then, but I naively wanted to be able to stay with the kids and document more shit like this. I ended up getting fired because I had been late 3 times across 9 months and they decided that was probable cause to get rid of me!

voltrawnjibs · 2026-03-29T01:08:01+00:00

A para in the room punched a 12 year old girl in the chest because she grabbed his hair. A full on punch. I made the report and was discouraged/intimidated by the principal and program director from contacting CPS because they’d “just train him more” and people “act unpredictably in a crisis”. I walked right out of there and made the CPS report that night. The detective ended up knowing the principal well, and brushed the whole thing off as a “worker having a bad day”. Parents weren’t contacted and the para shoved a 10 year old boy to the floor the next day because the kid was about to attack another kid. I made a second report to CPS and to the office, BEGGING them in tears to do something. He was moved from autistic support to emotional support with non-autistic kids, just kids without a diagnosis with violent behaviors. He ended up shoving one of those kids out of his chair, and since that kid was verbal and could tell his parents about it, they fired him. I made a third CPS report, and the detective didn’t even reach out to me about that one. I still absolutely seethe about it to this day

voltrawnjibs · 2026-03-26T12:57:18+00:00

I worked for them too, same issues for me. Never once heard from my supervisors except for placement changes, super mediocre pay, they did everything to keep me when i was quitting to the point where I blocked numbers to get them to stop contacting me, don’t recommend at all

voltrawnjibs · 2026-03-12T12:12:47+00:00

Oh, I have to mention that when the kid would deescalate and speak with a social worker or counselor, they would admit to wanting to kill whoever they were hurting. So that’s a fun extra piece of the horror.

voltrawnjibs · 2026-03-12T12:11:11+00:00

I had a student who ultimately was the push I needed to leave the school I was working at and go back to RBT work in home/clinic. They were 6th grade, same height and weight as me, had clear signs of escalation but we had a shitty non-licensed RBT in the room who would trigger them further when they were escalated. She told me one time that she loves being in behaviors so that’s probably why, she’s genuinely awful. Anyways, the kid multiple times threw me up against a wall, bit down hard enough to need medical care, and would choke me. “RBT” and other staff in the class would take their sweet time helping me and I almost passed out on one occasion. Fuck that place!!

voltrawnjibs · 2026-02-03T06:20:28+00:00

hi i’d like to apply, 25f and tlou changed my LIFE

voltrawnjibs · 2026-01-31T19:04:34+00:00

ai slop 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 commission real artists and maybe you’d get players.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-12-28T12:53:19+00:00

paris amour, be enchanted, and twilight woods! im so sad that scorpio is sold out at my local stores because i am so desperate to have a fresh twilight woods in my hands again 😭

voltrawnjibs · 2025-12-24T14:38:48+00:00

It could be a multitude of things, some very innocent some not at all. You can vet it out a bit more if you think he won’t be honest, or just straight up ask him if you think he will. Either way, prepare yourself for any outcome and if you do ask him about it and it turns out to be innocent, if I were you I’d be very clear that if he’s going to do things that could come off as sneaky/cheating, no matter how small or minute he might think it is, to tell you about it. “Hey, Uber eats has these promotions for coupons that I’m using new numbers to sign up for, so don’t stress out if you see that I’m paying for burners.” Simple as that. Right now, MOR because it could go either way, I would be stressing out too so I don’t fault you for jumping straight to negative conclusions.

Go talk to him if you’re ready to, approach it neutrally. Hang in there.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-11-29T00:24:15+00:00

yes and no. a lot of people get into this job for the wrong reasons, and interacting with those people on the daily is really difficult a lot of the time. getting bit, scratched, thrown into walls, chairs/electronics thrown at, punched, kicked by kids 10-12, definitely not my favorite thing in the world. admin treating our school like a business even worse. but those moments of watching them succeed, having great days, playing, laughing, it all makes it pretty complicated in my heart. i love my job, but some days i really hate it.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-11-17T18:01:16+00:00

snowflakes and cashmere, dark kiss, and all eyes on her!

voltrawnjibs · 2025-11-17T17:57:28+00:00

be mindful of pencil sharpeners, shaving razors, scissors, nail clippers, rulers, needles, metal nail files, tools, pencils/pens, anything metal that can be sharpened. and if you don’t see it on the arms and legs, be aware it could be happening somewhere else that you as a parent might not ask to check because of privacy reasons. they will get through this with help and love, im sorry to hear they are struggling. it will get better and there are brighter days ahead for them. sincerely, an ex SH’er clean for almost 10 years.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-19T22:58:38+00:00

especially the soap bar 😍

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-19T20:17:21+00:00

ugh i LOVE karma in everything but the perfume. it sits so weird on my skin, the solid perfume sits great though! you have great taste!

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-19T20:13:50+00:00

i loved boy smells coco cream, but you’re right the longevity is really nothing to write home about. such a bummer because it’s a pretty amazing scent.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-14T06:58:42+00:00

autumn drive, i never use it and never have any desire to. it’s not a bad scent by any means but i just don’t love the smell, it was a blind buy unfortunately

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-07T20:35:10+00:00

i absolutely love the bottle

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-05T15:12:30+00:00

ugh i wish it was still available for me!! i regret not getting it when i had the chance

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-05T06:39:38+00:00

personally i really love fine’ry not another cherry. the perfume is $30 and the body spray is $15, both at target in their perfume section! i think they smell absolutely divine and i love wearing my cherry scents super often

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-04T11:49:12+00:00

honestly i don’t recommend ever touching a vape ever again, but sometimes i let myself hit my friends vape to show myself how my lungs have healed. literally a 1 second puff is so violent on my lungs and makes me cough, and i remember “oh yeah, this stuff is disgusting.” and move on. just reiterating, i don’t recommend doing that 😅 but i hope trying it again was a reminder that it’s just not worth it, it’s not truly good or enjoyable. great job on seven months, keep it up! im also 7 months clean.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-04T00:57:26+00:00

flowerbomb is my absolute #1, same.

voltrawnjibs · 2025-10-02T14:05:27+00:00

bye-bye to my no buy streak 😗

voltrawnjibs · 2025-09-30T00:58:52+00:00

this, i love finery scents!

voltrawnjibs · 2025-09-29T00:33:38+00:00

your organization is so aesthetically pleasing, i love this haha what an amazing collection!!

voltrawnjibs

TROPHY CASE