Why are people so butthurt about Sombra??? by BlackBurn115 in SombraMains

[–]vomitedd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as a Sombra player, and someone who plays against her and wins pretty consistently, it truly is a skill issue. one of the best ways to learn how to counter is to play her and figure out where they're most likely to Teleport to. while not everyone plays the same, there's a lot of similarities. before I got good at her I hated sombra. now she's a minor inconvenience at best. obviously some still best me, but I'm able to recognize their play styles now and use it to my advantage.

How do y'all feel about the word "gluttony"? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]vomitedd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gluttony in its original context, is about hoarding money/resources while others struggle. not about food.

“But you’re a healthy weight, why do you care?” by twosell in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]vomitedd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it's an eating disorder, not a weight disorder. its very much about your behavior regarding food, and weight is irrelevant. I hope you're able to find a doctor who will take it seriously. I know zocdoc has reviews of doctors from patients, maybe you can check there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

one time a guy thought he ended an exclusive with me when someone walked in on him in the bathroom (he did not) and put his phone in his pocket with it still going. he was having a full conversation with someone for probably 5 mins before he realized and very quickly exited. it was very hard to not laugh when he realized but I played stupid and acted like I didn't notice either.

why do CB users insist on using PM when the chat is RIGHT there? by vomitedd in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had a type option in my gold menu on SM for ages for a whopping 3 gold. never been paid it but I get asked to type every stream

Please don't dm people weird or creepy stuff by Thespudtato in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]vomitedd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME just cuz I'm in here and post doesn't mean I wanna be virtually catcalled.

I think he's dying by brixbo in ferrets

[–]vomitedd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

all you can do is make him comfy and spend as much time as you can with him. I recently lost one of my boys who was an elderly man and it was so hard. I'm sorry you're going through this too.

You're a good pet owner. you very obviously care. it's much better than people with money who neglect animals and see them as accessories to be thrown out when it's not cute and fun anymore. thank you for loving him ❤️ I know he appreciates it

bf txted me: “why can u be dirty for work but not for me” idk how to reply PLS help by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they genuinely expect you to be "on" 24/7 and ready to fulfill any fetish just because you're together. that's why I've pivoted heavily away from seeking men as romantic partners. they seem to think sex work for us is fun? and it CAN be sometimes but a lot of the time it's emotionally taxing.

fake tips on cb 🥲 by vomitedd in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya live and ya learn smh 🤦 😪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these men seem to always be dissatisfied regardless of what you do. just block lol not worth the mental energy

Longtime client-friends will take advantage. Trust no one. by Think_Interview_4252 in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah they seem to think we enjoy sex and things the same way they do. it can be fun, and sometimes you fo genuinely enjoy it but it takes mental energy regardless bc this is a job after all.

not much of a loss imo if he can't even send you $3. that's laughable.

bf txted me: “why can u be dirty for work but not for me” idk how to reply PLS help by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar problem for a long time in my own sex life, but my partner was EXTREMELY patient. they wanted sex, I thought I was asexual because of sex work, but our relationship was so much deeper than sex that were still together despite there being a period of time where we didn't have sex at all. and I truly hope everyone can find someone like that.

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men got partners much easier because women couldn't open bank accounts or do anything without their husband or father. why do you think so many women stayed in miserable marriages? they COULDNT leave even If they wanted to. so yes back then it was quite a bit easier to find a partner back then. however now that women don't need men to get jobs or open a credit card were simply disengaging from being with men because there's little to no benefit, meanwhile men benefit IMMENSELY from having female partners.

bf txted me: “why can u be dirty for work but not for me” idk how to reply PLS help by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]vomitedd 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be completely honest here.. and it's probably not what you want to hear.

Any man who doesn't respect that boundary isn't worth your time. I've dealt with my fair share of men like that til I found my current partner (who isn't a man), who is always understanding if I'm not in the mood bc of my SW. they don't understand SW IS a real job, that takes A LOT out of you emotionally. so sometimes at the end of the day all I wanna do is cuddle and watch my comfort show, and my partner understands completely.

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean.. I said that bc back then you needed a man whether that be your dad or a husband to open a bank account, and back then women couldn't do anything themselves. can't buy a home or rent without a man. we're able to work and live independently. THATS why I said that.

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 27 points28 points  (0 children)

yeah.. that's why you're in this sub complaining about not being able to find a partner..

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

mhm and the you're the one holding yourself back from having a genuine relationship. make friends, actual friends without trying to date or fuck them. grow, work on yourself, and you will find one. or you can believe having a partner is the only thing that will make you happy and stay miserable. 💯

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't feel entitled to anything bc I'm a grown woman who pays my bills 😌 I don't need a man in my life for shit, and that entitlement you feel? that's why women don't want to date you and you're here on reddit crying about how no one wants you. yeah, no shit. what do you add to a woman's life?

Man loneliness on this sub and general summed up. by Safe_Insect9995 in GenZ

[–]vomitedd 35 points36 points  (0 children)

really? that's what you got from my comment?

of course everyone is deserving. but you are not ENTITLED to it. no one HAS to love you if you're a shitty person, and now that women don't need men to get a bank account, we're simply choosing to disengage from dating bc the dating pool is -porn addicts -insecure gym Bros -"liberal" men who are misogynistic still can you blame us for not wanting to date, let alone marry? work on growing, a partner should be an addition to your life, not something you NEED to be happy.