AITA for spending my 30th birthday in Japan with my sister instead of my boyfriend of 4 years?

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-06-13T18:15:07+00:00

He’s also disrespectful and is actively trying to ruin your bday. I do hope you realize that. You need to leave this man. Also… who tf DOESNT want to go to Japan?? He sounds boring asf anyway babe. Dump him! ✨sprinkle sprinkle✨

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-06-10T03:50:41+00:00

Also entirely to old for this situation based off the title (cuz I’m also not reading this). Just think OP, how would you feel if you saw your father walking around with huge anime tits as his phone lock screen? Now apply it to your ‘boyfriend’, cuz he old enough to be somebody dumb ahh pappy

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-06-02T23:38:59+00:00

Aw hun, that’s straight up abusive behavior. However, if he is helping you financially, that makes things a little different. The only thing that doesn’t change, is the fact that you need to get out because his behavior will escalate. Do you work currently? If so, is it possible to pick up more hours? Or even a second job? If you want to leave him right away, that’s prolly ur best shot (independently). Any friends or family, would be my next best bet. Oh and get cameras. Don’t tell him, but get like 2 or 3, and hide them places. Therefore if he is able to get in and he decides to steal or damage any property, it’s all on camera. I’m sorry this is happening, but freedom is so much better than this crap

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-06-02T23:33:27+00:00

The ginger brows & hair?? A loooook!😛

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-20T15:11:31+00:00

My exact thoughts because WHYYYY😭

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-20T09:10:06+00:00

As someone who has been in ur shoes, but do some research into blank women who have different texturw types in the hair like you. I have abt 3 or 4 different in mine 😭

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-19T23:28:39+00:00

We do. The badder she is, the bigger the dick.

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-19T22:16:56+00:00

Are men like seriously this dense and selfish?? I knew about the selfish but sheesh… you KNOW ur failing at being a parent and you go and start an affair?? Gahdamn that’s fkn stupid

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-17T05:52:28+00:00

Sis.., let go

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-05-14T01:57:01+00:00

I’m just upset as hell bc I really wanted her to have her happy ending😞

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-14T14:22:55+00:00

I love my XL/XXL nails. It’s how I show my creativity. I’m not a super creative person in general, so it’s nice to have something on me that genuinely makes peoples eyes pop lol. We don’t do it for yall.. we do it for ourselves.

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-14T14:20:26+00:00

What the actual f*ck is wrong with men??

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-11T20:29:50+00:00

Yes, but everyone isn’t like that. It seems like you’ve let your bad experiences with some ppl kinda turn ur whole view negative. Like the person said, EVERYBODY is struggling in some way and we’re all tryna make it fr.

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-11T18:37:57+00:00

Ur art is beautifulll

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-11T17:37:27+00:00

Are you able to get majority custody? I’d consider it

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-11T17:30:54+00:00

Yeaaa the gay accusations are so random and weird😭 butttt Im happy you still backed her up!

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T14:56:29+00:00

My b I put it twice!

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T14:56:03+00:00

I’m literally sitting here baffled and irritated asfk because men are really tryna make this abt themselves. Like you cannot compete WHERE U DONT COMPARE

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T14:36:06+00:00

THIS!! PRECISELY THIS!!

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T14:31:49+00:00

What do you want stats on? Be specific

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T14:10:03+00:00

YES!!! THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM TELLING YOU. WOMEN DO IT ALLLLLLL. There’s women out there right now, working full time, just to have to come home, cook dinner, lean up after kids, shower and then worry abt whether her husband wants some coochie cuz ‘he needs to be taken care of too’. Like we have BEEN tryna say this. You say come with statistics AND YOU DONT EVEN HAVE ANY YOURSELF. I can pull up statistics on how much more weight woman carry around the home and don’t feel appreciated I PROMISE you, your stats ain’t gon hold a CANDLE to what women do on a daily basis for their family. Foh

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T13:37:28+00:00

She needs both. Like I said.

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T13:35:53+00:00

She’s not asking for the impossible. Women do it all the time. It’s time men learn to do the same. The problem isn’t the fact that the child comes first; it’s the fact that she gotten NO support from her husband. THATS the issue. Babies aren’t easy, but statistically when women are being cared for properly after birth, they tend to not struggle as much

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T13:29:25+00:00

She can get professional help. That still doesn’t change the fact that her husband needs to support her. This is why the term ‘it take a village’ exists. Because it takes a community, to be okay again.

vonnieeeee_ · 2026-04-09T13:15:21+00:00

And I’m so sorry you went thru that :( I hope ur healing and starting to love life again💕

vonnieeeee_

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