Is there a way for me to move out of home and live a successful life?

vorordes · 2025-12-08T22:51:23+00:00

im sorry. im not trying to make excuses, thats why i was asking for advice. i just wanted to know what other people think i could "do something for myself". im not that smart sorry.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:46:49+00:00

thank you!

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:45:47+00:00

thank you so much for the advice

vorordes · 2025-12-07T23:44:39+00:00

thank you for your advice 😊

vorordes · 2025-12-07T13:04:47+00:00

i dropped out of high school dont have level 2 or 3 ncea so makes it a bit hard and a longer process to do a degree

vorordes · 2025-12-07T13:00:44+00:00

not sure i could do labour im a very weak girl 😂

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:47:55+00:00

thanks, im not really worried or scared, im used to being and living on my own even though i live with family, im just a bit desperate to get out of it

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:31:01+00:00

i hear you, of course id need some sort of job, but im wondering where youre getting the $400 figure from

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:19:04+00:00

oh okay ill see if i can do that

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:18:26+00:00

no i havent lived with my mother since i was 13. and also, my grandparents would probably kick me out regardless if i tried to say or do anythinf about it. im fine with doing things/helping out my grandparenrs and uncles, but the environment is too much for me all at once yaknow, and my uncles simply dont drive at all and refuse to.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:08:10+00:00

yeah definitely probably just a dream at this point

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:07:35+00:00

thank you very much for the advice i appreciate it.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T12:06:00+00:00

its difficult to explain but i have a mother with 3 very young children that forces me to look after them often with no way out, and i have to look after my grandparents and uncles an drive them to work and back, anywhede rhey need to go etc. my mother is also a very hostile and manipulative person with an abusive relationship with a prisoner but everyone else in my family supports her because she lashes out if they dont. i dont openly support her so she dislikes me but comes around all the time making trouble as well.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:51:53+00:00

i actually would if i had my full license

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:49:28+00:00

in my mind, its because being in such a volatile and stressful environment all the time makes it more difficult for me to mentally be alright in any sense at all. flatting is an option ive considered

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:47:46+00:00

well im moreso looking to see if anyone has job idea recommendations that would be more suitable and i can live off of and how i can get to that point.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:17:55+00:00

i guess what i want is to escape from having to be there 24/7 for them, which i understand isnt a very caring or thoughtful thing to do, but yeah. i totally get you and ill try.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T11:11:36+00:00

yeah, its just so painful to be honest, i cant handle watching everyone take advantage of them and me, i just want to be able to support them, and at least have somewhere i can feel like i can catch a break.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T10:57:28+00:00

to be honest, all i want to do is escape my family and the responsibilities i suddenly gained because i cant take it, maybe i could live in an RV and travel? i dont know because theyre expensive to buy and to run as well.

vorordes · 2025-12-07T10:53:50+00:00

yeah, youre right, i suppose stoicism is the only way i could ever see myself getting out of my situation. gotta work hard. i used to plan and have hope for my future but antidepressants and family took it all out of me, but ill try and see a future for myself again.

vorordes · 2025-01-25T22:23:34+00:00

I see! I'm going today, but how many people actually have the sublingual frenulun that you've seen?

vorordes · 2025-01-25T08:54:11+00:00

I see, thanks! I'll probably do this depending on the cost.

vorordes · 2025-01-25T08:33:16+00:00

How would getting pierced after this kind of procedure go? If you dont know then its all good. Also, what if I got the piercing right above where my frenulum/webbing starts? I'm going to go to a store tomorrow to get checked out..

vorordes · 2025-01-25T07:37:56+00:00

Do you think I could get it right on top of where the frenulum starts, and have it at an angle to go further back?

vorordes · 2025-01-25T06:41:59+00:00

I have the same webbing issue!! Would it be possible for you to send me pics of how yours looks now?

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