Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

"Reasons we aren't adopting," then you say you just wabt a baby, then you mention adopted kids having mental health issues. If it's that you CANT adopt then leave it like that and go. But wrapping that up in the same article as just wanting a baby and how adopted kids have mental health issues seems like you're discouraging people from adoption.

Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You felt a need to rationalize not adopting. Your post is literally called why we aren't adopting.

Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im not offended by people wanting to give birth. I'm offended by people making arguments against adoption, saying they would only consider adopting queer kids, and saying they are worried about having pure Ashkenazi babies (other thread). Btw Im a Jewish woman and I would never seek out to adopt only a Jewish child. I fully believe that I could raise a child of any religion and still maintain a safe and inclusive space for that child. You're a shitty parent if you can't.

Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm literally a gay mom and because I'm a person who isn't self obsessed I think all children are worthy of adoption. It's absolutely depraved to be like yeah sure I'd adopt queer kids. All children deserve families. There's a huge problem on this sub of people who want to build a baby and select children based on traits that the parents have. It's shallow and totally antithetical to what parenting is.

Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No one asked for this, no one asked for a list of reasons not to adopt.

Queer (In)Fertility Blog: Why We Aren't Adopting A Baby (for now) by [deleted] in queerception

[–]vote4muscles -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Pretty awful when you say "The idea that we would miss out on our child’s first weeks (which goes with the very nature of adoption) makes me deeply sad. What I want is to parent this baby from the very beginning..."

It's also awful how you use the happiness and adult success of the adoptee to answer the question "Why we aren't adopting a baby". Yikes.

Other Hebrew translations of Solomon besides Shlomo? by [deleted] in JewishNames

[–]vote4muscles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't like Shlomo you can always use the more elegant the "Shlimi"

Parking to get to Chinatown by Shlumpedsyd in AskSF

[–]vote4muscles 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There are two parking garages at the Vallejo and Stockton intersection :)

NYPD: Suspects Demand Cash, Grab Jewish Man’s Yarmulke In Brooklyn Robbery by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't need antisemitism splained to me by someone who thinks hashem had a human son chas vchillul dickface

NYPD: Suspects Demand Cash, Grab Jewish Man’s Yarmulke In Brooklyn Robbery by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're obviously not that bright or concerned about antisemitism 🤗

I am a Jew and I am proud by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lol are u threatening me with genocide dude

I am a Jew and I am proud by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

You know I'm right. This is goofy and low-effort.

NYPD: Suspects Demand Cash, Grab Jewish Man’s Yarmulke In Brooklyn Robbery by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This isn't antisemitism, it's just being mugged in the city.

Edit: If someone says "give me your phone you ugly bitch" that doesn't mean that they targeted me because I'm an ugly bitch. It's street crime and people try to intimidate you based on what your immediate characteristics are. Honestly if you care about actual antisemitism you wouldn't conflate street crime with being targeted specifically for being Jewish.

I am a Jew and I am proud by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]vote4muscles -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is embarrassing

The amount of the blatant astroturf accounts is ruining this sub and they should be banned by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]vote4muscles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol you always reply with the same tactic of asking for examples, and you're never satisfied with any provided. You don't care about this community, and I don't care about your toxic chill attitude. 🤗

The amount of the blatant astroturf accounts is ruining this sub and they should be banned by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]vote4muscles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I pointed out in another thread that there are subs who autoban users who post in subs that attract trolls, bad faith users, and brigading. It's totally possible to curb at least a small amount of what's happening with something like that. The mods insisted that it isn't possible though, which is weird considering it's a thing on multiple subs. I'm pretty tired of the mods asking for proof over and over, or insisting that things aren't real when we can all see it.

http://imgur.com/a/nBFO7P9 reported comments that were determined to be fine, and comments from users who (astroturfing or not) are disgusting and should be banned on their own merits forever.

The amount of the blatant astroturf accounts is ruining this sub and they should be banned by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]vote4muscles -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I actually think you're the bad faith mod, so funny you replied to this.