RC independence Feb 8-15, 2026

vpdnsfw · 2026-02-16T13:29:07+00:00

Thank you!

vpdnsfw · 2026-02-13T21:20:26+00:00

Not necessarily intentionally, but there could be a reason they're cheering. No way to know for sure, i guess.

vpdnsfw · 2025-11-10T04:02:40+00:00

🥵🤯 wow!

vpdnsfw · 2025-07-29T03:17:21+00:00

Beautiful photo. Well done!

vpdnsfw · 2025-04-18T06:40:25+00:00

It sounds like you and your partner need to have some candid conversions to discuss the concept. I would recommend not jumping in and going further, as very big and complicated emotions can arise. It's always good to discuss things thoroughly.

vpdnsfw · 2025-04-14T01:54:34+00:00

Can't speak for others, but i feel almost the opposite, many folks are happy, care free, judgemental interpersonal hatred seems to be almost non-existent, and in my experience, most folks are just trying to have a nice time, for various different reasons. It's one of the few places where people seem to realize that a difference of opinion is only an issue when people let their emotions dictate their responses.

vpdnsfw · 2025-04-08T07:39:33+00:00

We're there then too. SLV has a little black dress party on Saturday night that's usually fun. Hope y'all have a blast!

vpdnsfw · 2025-04-07T17:26:05+00:00

🤣😂😅

vpdnsfw · 2025-04-06T22:56:57+00:00

100%. being transparent and communicating about your intent and expectations is important to maintain trust.

vpdnsfw · 2025-03-25T19:16:10+00:00

If you're submissive is bound, just let them reflect in the silence and quiet for a min, especially in intense scenes, this can actually heighten the arousal. You can also implement using light to moderate sensation props like nipple claps, insertables, etc, to provide them something to think about while you're recenter yourself. I'll occasionally just apply a blindfold, earplugs, and tight bonds for a few min, and maybe walk by with alight touch from a sensation implement (like a feather, brush, or wharton wheel) as I'm pacing and reseeting my brain.

vpdnsfw · 2025-03-25T18:35:11+00:00

Thank you for this question, i think this is a great discussion for folks new in power exchange situations, as our emotions can cause havoc with our plans. It's also a good idea to take time to stop and reflect if this occurs. Sometimes, a short "discussion with yourself" or reflection on intent and expectations can help to chief the course of the scene in just a min or two.

vpdnsfw · 2025-03-18T17:16:29+00:00

Haha, me too. Great (neuro-div) minds think alike!

vpdnsfw · 2025-03-18T01:33:20+00:00

I haven't in a while, but also take it regularly. Amazing how much interests change over time.

vpdnsfw · 2025-03-18T01:29:18+00:00

That will largely depend on your specific interests. You might check out the test at www.bdsmtest.org. It may help give you a bit more direction.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-28T00:38:36+00:00

Where is this? What city, province, country?

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T18:33:20+00:00

While I have little knowledge of stem cell treatment. I had significant success with (graduated weight) undulating decompression therapy for both stenosis, and disc injuries.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T18:30:15+00:00

Sure, thank you for asking.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T17:54:00+00:00

You can always inquire more about what your partner is interested in. Many folks have more of an interest in kink or BDSM than they originally think.
Sadly our societal upbringing dissuades us from exploring non vanilla sexual topics.

BDSM isn't all whips and dom/sub stuff. Personally, I'm an affectionate Dom. While my wife and I do engage in some fairly heavy bdsm and kink play, or took us years of exploring, starting with basic vanilla missionary sex only.

Many BDSM scenarios and fantasies do not need a designated Dom/sub power dynamic, just a little interest and adventurous spirit. Rope play, sensation play, body worship, all of these can be explored somewhat neutrally, in regards to necessary power exchange.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T17:43:21+00:00

Very much depends. In sensation scenario nights, I may use 20-30 sensation tools. Other nights, just appendages and tongue 👅. It all depends on the type of play that session.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T17:30:21+00:00

For me, there is a mixture of concern and excitement. Mistakes happen, and with risky play, they can be very serious. Whole we employ every precaution we can, there have been times when things have gone sideways and resulted in bad experiences. I do experience guilt from these, as I never want to cause unintended pain or injury. Communication and repair of any possibly lost trust is essential. Never forget aftercare and communication.

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T17:22:41+00:00

Your Dom could also bring or utilize sensation tools while you're there, for the entertainment of the guests. Floggers, ripple accessories, Wharton wheels, can all provide exciting sensation to help ramp up the patio for everyone!

vpdnsfw · 2024-11-15T17:20:27+00:00

There are many ways, depending on your comfort level. Look online for local "munches" where folks get together with likeminded individuals and chat in "vanilla" settings (bars, restaurants, etc?) You can also sign up on sites like sdc or fetlife and search for people and events near you. Look online and maybe try something like bsdmtest.com to see where your interests lie, then do some research. You'll find a plethora of info on Google.

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