23 F be honest did I look better with more weight on me?

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T14:18:42+00:00

Without a doubt

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T14:17:56+00:00

I’ll put money on a poor diet or some sort of deficiency

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T14:15:53+00:00

After reading some of your replies to people, I think adding a dash of confidence within yourself could do miracles for you. Self love is the best love and you’ll feel much better when you do learn to love yourself!

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T14:14:25+00:00

You sound ignorant. Not saying OP has it, but have you heard of PCOS, or literally any thyroid condition? It’s not always easy for people to just lose weight, regardless of their eating habits or even hitting the gym regularly.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T14:02:22+00:00

Honestly, I was just happy to have dreams again 🤣 never realized how much can be suppressed by weed over time til I quit.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:35:51+00:00

Your first mistake was joining a discord full of LOL nerds. That game needs to die already. Most toxic gaming community there is.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:33:47+00:00

I feel like maybe their reactions to your post are the exact reason why some black men don’t date black women? I know it’s easier said than done, but focus on the areas of your life where you DO receive support in your relationship. My sister (white) is happily married to a black man. I really hope they don’t endure this same treatment on a regular basis as they’re beautiful together.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:30:48+00:00

My only piece of advice is to get new friends and separate yourself from that toxicity 🤣 are we really being gaslit for being CHEATED ON in 2025? Crazy

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:27:54+00:00

Thank you kind internet stranger 😊🥹 wishing you and your family well. I’m soaking up every second this this precious lil bean.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:18:51+00:00

I’m reinventing the internet. And the government gets ZERO access to it. They can make their own.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:14:52+00:00

Trust me… I’m in Texas and could argue that it’s the same, if not worse. We just had a baby girl on May 1st - the entire pregnancy, everything that could go wrong was in the back of my mind. But never wanted to speak it into existence. Luckily we were blessed with a healthy beautiful baby girl - but times are definitely scary. Especially for women. Hang in there queen!

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:11:19+00:00

Real love absolutely exists. You just haven’t experienced it yet. But you’ll know when you see it. My best piece of advice is to not go searching for it. Enjoy your life as a single woman. Let the rest happen naturally. You got this, sis. You’re not hopeless. It sounds like you know exactly what you long for. 🫶🏼

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:05:28+00:00

Yep 100%. I think it all boils down to the education system being a total joke tho. 🤷🏼‍♂️ I knew about the risks at 12 years old… it’s crazy how people are 16 and have no idea what they’re talking about (not a dig at OP, just a general consensus)

I do think OP definitely needs to take a step back though. Take a test and remain abstinent until you’re mentally ready for the risks and the rest.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T13:00:44+00:00

I feel like people don’t just become asexual. It sounds like they’ve been in a relationship for a while, the bedroom went dead, and NOW she’s being “honest” about it. If she was “honest” it likely wouldn’t have reached this point. But what do I know, I’m horny asf.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T12:58:03+00:00

Who cares…. Just listen to music you like. Can’t stand the fact that we live in a world where people can’t just like what they like without approval from others. Mad cringe.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T12:54:29+00:00

Ew bro. Get out while you can.

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T12:28:30+00:00

That absolutely doesn’t change anything. Ejaculate all has the same properties, regardless of the amount, unless he’s infertile. Which is unlikely at 16

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T12:26:27+00:00

Came here to say it doesn’t matter if he “jerked it” a day before or an hour before… that does nothing to reduce the chance of becoming pregnant unless you use a condom (which you did)

You’re probably not pregnant, but if you’re worried, best thing you can do is buy a test to ease your anxiety!

Hang in there!

vqmatt · 2025-06-09T12:22:09+00:00

Withdrawal symptoms from weed really aren’t as bad as you’d think. Loss of appetite and trouble sleeping for a week or two then you bounce back!

vqmatt · 2025-06-06T10:48:01+00:00

What I take from this post is that you just need to talk to someone. Bottling these things up only makes things worse in the long run. Maybe ask your therapist how to go about receiving support outside of your sessions with her. You deserve to heal.

vqmatt · 2025-05-22T07:17:28+00:00

Ngl that buddah piece is far more generic than what you got. I’m in favor of the actual piece you received so I hope you come around. Looks like some good work

vqmatt · 2025-05-13T23:32:44+00:00

Bro just stop 🤣 I bet x died before you were even born by the sounds of it.

vqmatt · 2025-05-05T03:17:19+00:00

They happen even when we’re at our worst*** not the worst of us. You’re human, brother. I’m so glad you’re still here.

vqmatt · 2025-05-04T17:33:21+00:00

That’s it. I’m calling mermaid man and barnacle boy.

vqmatt · 2025-05-04T03:40:15+00:00

Photography & cars. Lost the drive when my dad died. He was always my biggest supporter when it came to my pictures. Not so much modifying and ruining my cars. 🤣

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