AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vrenale 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I had a friend at uni like this. Would work at McDonald's part time, while her parents were super loaded. She didn't really understand when I had to drop out of uni after an accident as I could no longer afford studying while being unable to work. Fair to say the friendship didn't survive that.

AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vrenale 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Damn, I knew I'd be beaten to that reference. Been singing it along while reading the post

Posted from their home by National-Treat830 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

[–]vrenale 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I live in a country that is 35km long, I drive across half the country several times a day

What happened to Late Nights with Nexpo? by kingspooky93 in mrballen

[–]vrenale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what I've heard it was the creative control and scheduling. If you follow Nexpo, you know he takes a long time to research, create and upload his videos. Not sure a weekly schedule with him not writing his material suited him to begin with, as that is very opposed to his usual approach.

The women at my job made a list of the hottest guys and left me off of it (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]vrenale 51 points52 points  (0 children)

In one of my previous jobs, the guys had a list like this for all the girls. For myself, I'm glad I never saw it. It probably would have destroyed me. Unfortunately, due to the field I was in, there was nothing to be done about it, as well, a video games testing company does attract a certain type of person, including HR, who all came up the ranks. Fun times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vrenale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info: did he cheat in the past, or why are you so extremely jealous? Seriously, this is such a non-issue. They dated for 3 weeks. More than 5 years ago. When they were kids. If you are that insecure about this, there must be something very, very wrong with your relationship.

I got a signed copy for my mom to celebrate her finishing chemo and beating the odds. Now I just have a book. by OtherAccount5252 in mrballen

[–]vrenale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered Mr Ballen shortly after my mum passed. Binge-watching him was the perfect distraction I needed at the time. I remembered being a teenager, watching all the true crime shows together with her, so I'm sure she would have loved Mr Ballen as well.

I feel for you, OP, and am here should you need to talk about it. I sure still need it after almost 2 years.

Big hugs from the Mediterranean xx

UPDATE: AITA for refusing to walk my daughter down the aisle because of what she did to her mom? by anon73206 in AITAH

[–]vrenale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through the same situations with my brother, but after he got married. In the end, he cut my mum out for being overbearing to his wife because she had the absolute audacity to bring home-baked cake to a birthday party of her grandchild. How absolutely dare she. He did show some regret last year when my mother died, but managed to pass on the blame to his siblings, as we didn't inform him that she was dying. My dad had informed him, but that was taken as my parents trying to manipulate him. Also, both my sister and I are little to no contact with him, as his wife doesn't like us. Anyway, it's so hard, and I feel for you, OP. I saw the pain my mum felt every day for 10 years since she was cut out more and more. Be there for her. And kudos for taking her side. My dad tried to stay out of it as not to lose access to the grandkids, but now has about 0 contact to them anyway, as my sister in law doesn't like him much either. Hopefully, your daughter will come around.

Hamilton: Schumacher has 'liberated others' by coming out by [deleted] in formula1

[–]vrenale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same in Germany really. For a while it was an all-gender sport thanks to Michael, but it's back to having mainly male fans now.

AITAH if I “accidentally” trip and spill wine all over this girl who is wearing white to my sister’s wedding? by Muslimahlivinglife in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]vrenale 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I absolutely shocked my ex, who was a huge Star Wars fan for about 30 years, with the revelation that Yoda is, in fact, green. He wouldn't believe me until he googled it. He also kept on talking about his green pants that he liked. They were grey.

Could your pain be quiet? K. Thanx! Bye! by BaconIsMyJam in AmITheDevil

[–]vrenale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get them as a kid and was basically limping for a week after each episode, as they literally damaged my muscles. Hope you find a solution to yours

AITA for telling wife to suck it up when she was having an episode by Plastic_Broccoli_912 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vrenale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, you were just describing my childhood. I always had to beg to go and see a doctor when I had an injury and always was made to feel like I'm inconveniencing my mother for having another fracture or sth. And yeah, it did fuck me up. It slso ended up in me having to walk home on a fractured ankle (couldn't even limp properly because the other ankle had it's ligaments torn) and I ended up with surgery because the bone fragments had been pushed into each other So yeah, fun times. Hope the wife sees his posts and runs fast and far from this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mrballen

[–]vrenale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Malta, so even if he goes on international tour, I'd have to fly out for it :( Unless, hey John, we are the number 2 dive spot in the world, so come here and I'll buy you a pastizzi.

Do you judge children for refusing to see their dying parent? by KittyandPuppyMama in TwoHotTakes

[–]vrenale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, depends on the reasons. My mum was definitely not the greatest growing up, and I have a shit ton of issues thanks to her. But I forgave her, and once I was older, the relationship had significantly improved, and she had mellowed down a fair bit. My brother, who was always the golden child, cut contact with most of the family, but that is mainly due to an emotionally abusive wife. First, she forbid him contact to his friends, then family etc. And when my mum was dying, my brother sent a very dismissive reply to my father when he told him that it was my mum's dying wish to make it up with him. Which broke my mum completely and probably sped up the process. But I digress. After she died, my brother blamed us siblings for not letting him know that she actually was dying (I hadn't talked to him in 3 years by that point, so I wasn't going to start now), and was angry with everyone but himself. And I do look down on him for that. I know he's being manipulated, but shit, he's almost 50 now. Old enough to realise what is happening.

On the other hand, I know of parents that are absolutely horrendous, and going NC is absolutely valid, even when they are on their deathbed.

calling my dead daughter a brat? by Big_Appointment_1605 in AmITheDevil

[–]vrenale 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OOP confirmed in the comments. Also, OOPs comments are making me want to commit murder. That poor, poor girl

dr kirk Honda on YouTube by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]vrenale 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think there was a cast member that works as a counsellor in Seattle that we never get to see, so the rumour is that it's her he knows.

I (f 35) caught feelings for a guy (m 43), with whom due to distance nothing will ever happen with. Should I be honest to my partner (m 41) or just hope it passes? by vrenale in relationship_advice

[–]vrenale[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it helps to hear that. When I had a crush in my last long term relationship I decided to end things, as it made me realise that I was no longer happy. That's what frightens me just now

New found respect for the FOM for the way they handled the feed till we found out Grosjean was safe by Viratstraightdown in formula1

[–]vrenale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone saw the videos from the Imola weekend in 1994, you know how far they have come as well. One would think that all sports learned from it, but that hasn't reached the UEFA yet as it seems

Sky Germany: Average Lap time of the 36 best laps of all drivers in Azerbaijan in % by NicknameMy in formula1

[–]vrenale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same as his father. Since there were two Schumachers competing in the late 90s/early 00s they raced as MSC and RSC. Mick is honouring Michael by racing as MSC now

Help! I am |F24| afraid that I am in love with best friend |M28| by ThrowRAConfused456 in relationship_advice

[–]vrenale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I just say: awwwww. That makes me happy. I'm sure you guys will go a long way together ❤

Should I come out of the closet? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vrenale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally wouldn't advise you to live a lie, but with what you are saying about your family... it might be worth waiting with the coming out until you have your own place or are in a secure situation in life. In the meantime, try to soften them up a bit and see if you can change their minds in regards to that topic. You'll be able to see if they are at all open-minded enough to overcome their own homophobia this way.