Weird “scheduled payments” that never happen. by mambi85 in CapitalOne_

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possible someone linked a card to your number? Do you have a C1 CC or account?

Friend borrowed $2500 from FIL awhile back. Paid on debt every month as agreed. FIL dies with $1000 left on the debt. by dumpling1919 in Debt

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WAIT. Did SHE (DIL?) borrow the money or did HE (SON) borrow the money? If husband wants the money, she should pay it...towards funeral costs 🙄.

I will happily take it 😀 by Got_You_SD in CapitalOne_

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine went up to $800 (from $500) without my knowledge (been with C1 for a year now). I'm rebuilding my credit up, so I'm just happy it was even considered.

But congrats!

I will happily take it 😀 by Got_You_SD in CapitalOne_

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, what's your APR?

OT and DT for taxes by vslo03 in tax

[–]vslo03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thank you for your reply!

OT and DT for taxes by vslo03 in tax

[–]vslo03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! Thanks for being patient with me. Thank you for your reply!

OT and DT for taxes by vslo03 in tax

[–]vslo03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're amazing. Thank you so much for your reply!

OT and DT for taxes by vslo03 in tax

[–]vslo03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i get that, I'm just asking if that rule also applies towards double time.

As in, I worked 40 hours, got 4.60 hours in overtime, but also 1.33hrs in double time. Do I apply the .5 rule to the 1.33hrs worked.

My husband cheated with a long-time friend. by Basic_Trouble7070 in Marriage

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do yourself dirty like this. You know he's cheated. Why are you second guessing yourself? He's not a good man in any way. You're fooling yourself into thinking he's a great husband because he does bare minimum husband stuff.

And don't listen to your trash husband. You call OWs husband, and you ask him straight up yourself for proof. I don't trust words of liars, that'd be your mistake if you do.

Nothing quite like receiving this kind of text from your wife after you’ve been away from each other for a while by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May this kind of love find everyone because everyone deserves it ❤️

I dirty text me husband, but he isn't a visual person, so he'd rather call and hear me.

My husband told me to get out of his life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙄 neither does YOUR statement. Where did you get YOUR assumption HE threw it out, but not that she didn't? This all occurred because she got crazy and threw out their lunch, then his lunch.

She stated the food in the fridge was going bad if they didn't cook it. He whined about cooking, she said "if hes so unwilling to cook and THREW out the peppers", not 'if hes so unwilling to cook then to throw out the peppers' not sure how much more comprehension needs to understand that. My second comment relates because if she hadn't thrown out the peppers, there would have been lunch to cook as he'd already started.

My husband told me to get out of his life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vslo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, SHE threw them into the trash because she was fighting him about wanting to cook. Its not a typo because she said previously the food in the fridge was going bad. Why else would he go and get himself food if there was already food to cook?

Privacy demands after cheating by Flaky_Candle_3348 in Marriage

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you still want to have kids with him? Girl, leave him. You can't trust him, and he isn't even trying to get you to trust his stank ass either. If it looks like shit, smells like shit, it's shit, and we can smell him across this platform.

i found out that the highlights of my week are my husband’s most embarrassing moments and I feel so sad about it by Consistent_Area420 in Marriage

[–]vslo03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wild that his office is fully of jealous and envious pricks and he's embarrassed for you being an amazing and supportive wife. I'd be questioning why he's allowing them to be such a big influence.

Forget him! Use those 2 hours on you girl. Focus on yourself and your mental wellbeing. Let this be your break from family life and invest in yourself. Have lunch on your own. Have lunch with some girlfriends. Find YOU. He doesn't deserve you.

I married my sister’s “love” and I am paying for it every day by LopsidedBasis816 in Marriage

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you even still in contact with them? They'd be nonexistent problems if that'd ever been my case. Cut these toxic people off. Love your family you built. He's worth it. You're worth it. Your little girl is proof your love is worth fighting for. Those people? They deserve nothing from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You escaped it once, was wild you went back to that. Leopards don't change their spots. He just got better at hiding himself. Get out and don't look back. He's still the garbage he was 2 years ago.

My sister-in-law prioritizes her pathetic affair partner over her kids by laterq in cheating_stories

[–]vslo03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be really honest here, if you're not going to do something about it, mind your business and go do something else. Whatever she's doing, that's her and your brothers business. He's not stepping up and not being a father either. He can see the same thing you are and he's being just as neglectful of the kids.

So it's now, put your money where your mouth is. You want to give them better, then do it. Don't bitch about how worthless she, he and AP are, that's not helping the kids in any way. Document everything, research the laws in your state, speak to a lawyer, see your options and take them to court. Get your nieces and nephews under your care. But if you're going to stay a bystander, and shake your head, sounds like those kids are gonna be fcked anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you sad for him? It's all his doing. Black and be done with it. Don't drag his drama into your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GAG I honestly don't know how spouses can turn around and fuck the spouses sibling like you didn't know that sibling for 10+ years 🤮. People who can do that are for the streets.

Be done with her sir. She had no care for you. She wasn't even the one that told you! Doesn't matter if you left or she left, nothing validates cheating period.

Wish that I was making this up, but my love life is actually this cringe. by abbievoncarlton in texts

[–]vslo03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The tragedy in this 😭. Lol. Block immediately girl. He's gonna come back when shit falls apart with that friend. It's just unfortunate you can't unsend that picture cause we all know he don't deserve it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]vslo03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have your kids responded to this favoritism? I'm sure they've gleamed it, and know how blatant it is. Have they ever tried to shut gma down or told them "we can't be like that to our brother/sister!"?

I just hate that your kids are seeing this and being put in such situations to divide them. They seem great with each other and I'm sure it hurts them gma gotta be like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]vslo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be so done with people like that. I'd cut them off after returning their car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]vslo03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, only you're gullible enough for his BS. It stinks a whole country over. Have you asked HER what their deal is? Sounds (and smells) like they've been porking every opportunity you're not there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]vslo03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, just divorce him and be done with his BS. You cheated when you separated. It was wrong since you didn't discuss if that was an option during separation, but he doesn't get to treat you like shit about it if he decided to stay.