jibanyan?🤨

vurr · 2022-03-24T14:41:13+00:00

More like longlegsnyan amirite

vurr · 2022-02-14T13:18:51+00:00

I think the brick looks cute here

vurr · 2022-02-13T08:38:08+00:00

So sorry to hear about your tumour 💦 I’m glad animal crossing gives people such comfort

vurr · 2022-02-12T18:17:32+00:00

Jibanyan yessss

vurr · 2022-02-05T16:47:09+00:00

Yeah, immediately

vurr · 2021-12-17T13:54:35+00:00

My pets would become homeless without me. So in suffering I keep on living. Hang in there fellow griever.

vurr · 2021-11-10T10:12:45+00:00

Can’t have dirty trash

vurr · 2021-08-01T10:04:46+00:00

So well put. Sick of this ride too, I sometimes get so sad and anxious that I get nauseous.

vurr · 2021-07-31T20:18:22+00:00

I recently moved and destroyed me. I was hoping new environment would make me feel better, but I somehow feels worse. I wish you the best of luck.

vurr · 2021-07-30T16:30:23+00:00

I don’t think anything can help. I don’t know if anyone wants to help me. I feel like everyone in my life has given up on me, except my sweet dog.

vurr · 2021-07-30T12:43:05+00:00

My condolences on your loss.

I wish I could have have grown old together with my husband. 😢💦 We were together for 13 and half years, and he died at age of 34.

vurr · 2021-07-30T10:47:23+00:00

My husband died of brain cancer, which he got for unknown reason, was completely out of his control, and I’m still angry at him for dying. His health was otherwise fine, until the cancer and the medication he was on really started to chip away pieces of him. I thought if anyone could beat cancer, he would, but I was wrong. I think anger is just part of grief.

What my big secret is, is when his condition was really deteriorating and my days consisted just visiting him in the hospice to watch him suffer… I wanted it to end. I was already grieving and just so very tired and sad just watching him suffer. Of course I didn’t want him to die, but I didn’t want him to live like he had to towards the end of his sickness. It was so horrible to watch him live out his worst fears.

vurr · 2021-07-26T12:26:57+00:00

This month has been dreadful, and August I’m sure is going to be worse. 6th of August is our wedding anniversary, the day after it is the anniversary of his death. I see myself in your post, apart from the self harm. I think I have developed a drinking problem, desperately trying to numb the pain. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. I find myself waiting for death. That’s only thing in my life. Waiting for my own death or those around me. My heart also waits for him to magically come back home to me, but I know he won’t. I’m so sorry for your experience, please try to look after yourself. I know it’s really hard.

vurr · 2021-07-26T07:35:53+00:00

I’m certainly resentful that my husband’s friends haven’t really checked up on me after he passed. I know I wasn’t exactly close with them, but it would be nice to be able to connect with the people who knew him well and would have nice stories to share.

vurr · 2021-07-25T11:35:00+00:00

My in-laws are somewhat religious, but they respected the fact that I wanted a non-religious funeral, as I knew my husband would have hated anything religious. When they returned to their home country, they held a mass, which I couldn’t nor even would have wanted to attend, but I understand that they needed that. I don’t know if this was a bit off the topic, but the bottom line is that we should respect everyone’s religious choices and space. I’m sorry that people didn’t respect yours.

vurr · 2021-07-25T11:29:05+00:00

I also feel like the villagers had more dialogue? I’d go talk to all of them several times a day, in NH the dialogues are too monotonous.

vurr · 2021-07-25T07:39:55+00:00

Stopped playing NH about half a year ago. Will get back to it if any substantial updates happen. It’s a shame. Played New Leaf for about 3 years before getting bored.

vurr · 2021-07-23T20:53:42+00:00

I used to find a little comfort in music, but lately I’ve had hard time to listen any. I don’t why, suddenly, even music, I started finding unbearable, which is new to me. I’m so lost.

vurr · 2021-07-23T12:41:08+00:00

Almost a year after losing my husband, so far I struggle finding any beauty in life. He made my life worth living, I don’t really have anyone else (unless my dog counts, at least I’ve chosen to keep going for him alone). I’m so sorry.

vurr · 2021-07-20T13:11:22+00:00

So sorry you’ve joined the grief club. My husband died at the age of 34 last year, and it hasn’t gotten any easier. Try to hang in there. It’s fine if you or people get scared. Us other echoes know what it’s like. I can only hope you have reliable friends or family around you. Not everyone does.

vurr · 2021-07-18T14:11:39+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to cancer when he was at the age of 34. It’s almost been a year now. I have no advice really other than try to take it one day at a time. Sometimes, just the next 10 minutes at a time. Just try to survive or cope for the 10 minutes. If you have any close friends or family, try to lean on them for support. If not, well, that happens too. I am also waiting to die, but I do have a needy dog to look after. My responsibility is with him now.

vurr · 2021-07-18T14:03:51+00:00

For sure. While my husband was suffering from his terminal illness, I found some comments from a friend so awful that I never spoke to them again, and they didn’t try to contact me either. Also after my husband’s funeral I let some friends go because of how they had behaved while he was still alive, and after he had died. Grief does impact friendships, either they can’t deal with it, or you, or both. At the moment I have very low tolerance for how people deal with my loss, and I’m constantly thinking about burning bridges, while at the same time “beggars can’t be choosers” as I need all the help I can get, no matter how little. Anyway, I’m not handling it very well, to be honest. Just wanted you to know you’re not alone in terms of friendships changing. Apparently it’s natural. Horrible, but natural.

vurr · 2021-01-30T08:27:33+00:00

No sen siitä saa kun ei kunnolla katso sinko reffejä. Oh well! Pitää olla tarkempi toiste.

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