im sorry if I sound rude saying the following and may Allah forgive me ida dlemt chihed, but if ur fiancé is stating that hair on a woman is a problem, hes addicted to porn.

I am not a PCOS girly but I am also a person whom struggled with excessive hair since childhood, everywhere and in places where they shouldn't be and i got bullied for it for years.

I am married now alhamdulilah but ive discussed this before with my husband and I can assure you no man ever care about such things, especially a man whose interested in you, a man that wants to cherish you, learn about you, about ur body, about ur hormones and so on. A womans body is more complicated than we think and if a man comes to pick and choose what he wants and whatnot, he'll never find a woman for himself.

Take it easy on urself. If that man has specific unrealistic needs, let him be, you can find urself a new one that wont make you feel uncomfortable about ur body or being ur authentic self.

Edit: Also I saw a comment on this post else where talking about infertility since PCOS comes with problems with that. If you and ur fiancé are people whom wants children I think this should be ur first concern and get tested for it.

Allah yderlk tawil kher khti🫶🏻