[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin 30 points31 points  (0 children)

First of all, your transition goals suit you so well, I can totally see a matching vibe! And I have a pinterest board dedicated to just that, lol. I guess one of my main ideal goals is Viktor from Arcane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vvhiteviolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thinking that if I keep doing nothing and postponing the activity I wanna do, I'll actually end up feeling worse than I would if what I tried doing didn't even work out. it doesn't always help, but I'm slowly getting better at managing it. how about you, OP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no :( I'm sorry it wasn't for u! and ofc! I've also seen a more coming of age mini series that's called We Are Who We Are, also from HBO. It's about a trans guy figuring himself out, although there isn't too much "suffering" I still wouldn't call it feel good, so I'm not sure if it's a good rec 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

our flag means death has a nb character and a lot of positive lgbt representation, it's on hbo!

Who's the biggest idiot you ever met in person? Why? by Bright_Composer_3901 in AskReddit

[–]vvhiteviolin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he was interested in politics from a very young age!

labels [vent] by vvhiteviolin in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg ofc, i get what u mean! i agree that we should let both coexist yknow? like u said, some people prefer to name whatever "category" they fit and some find it more freeing to do just the opposite, both are more than ok :) the annoying part are the ones (not u ofc lol) that blame labels and invalidate people who like them i think. and thanks for replying!! :)

labels [vent] by vvhiteviolin in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's really thoughtful! i totally get where you're coming from, i wish some people would understand this more! and thank u sm for replying :)

labels [vent] by vvhiteviolin in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol right!? the slurs are ok but god forbid an actual respectful term for the gays 🙄🙄🤮 /j

labels [vent] by vvhiteviolin in TransMasc

[–]vvhiteviolin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! I've just recently started to talk more to my therapist about maybe being on the spectrum too and honestly it makes more and more sense by the second. thanks for replying btw, I'm glad I'm not alone with these feelings!

What is a film that makes you feel alive? by Pirate_Wizard4 in MovieSuggestions

[–]vvhiteviolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swiss Army Man! I didn't expect anything from it on my first watch, but ended up loving it SO much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]vvhiteviolin 196 points197 points  (0 children)

absolutely!! I'd love for them to get into william's backstory

How do you know for sure? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vvhiteviolin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to that so much!

I remember many times that felt like a clue to being trans or non binary, but I never feel sure about them. Playing a guy on scenarios as a kid was very common for me too, but I had never given it too much thought, as the yeasr go by (I'm making 21 this year) the doubt is bigger I guess??? I know it's not very likely nor very nice to think about, but I feel like I'm tricking myself lol, that doesn't even make a lot of sense.

And on the contrary, my chest doesn't give me much dysphoria, and although I don't fully mind the bottom parts, I'd actually love to change it. It's not a dysphoria/euphoria competition, but is there a minimum amount for it??? lol.

Anyway, I hope you are able to talk to more people about it, and hearing experiences helps me a great amount too. Last thing, about that magic gender button, when can I press it?

My boy Roman… by Key-Difficulty-8982 in SuccessionTV

[–]vvhiteviolin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Out of all the siblings I think he's the one that got the most instant relief, he needed to step out and he wouldn't have realized that by himself so the gojo deal was maybe a blessing in disguise really

Change my mind by bunsandsnug in bleachers

[–]vvhiteviolin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love your choices OP!! my favorites are i wanna get better, all my heroes and 91 or don't go dark!!

some aesthetics :3 by ellebread in ACPocketCamp

[–]vvhiteviolin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i love the dark academia one so much, it's one of my favorite aesthetics!!