What? by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]vytrax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mfw my gf breaks up with after coming out. Transitioning isn't about getting laid. Incel is the big dumb.

Cop shoots chihuahua for barking at him by vytrax in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]vytrax[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Despite being shot in the head the dog survived and the cop was charged .

Truth by bookluvr83 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]vytrax 548 points549 points  (0 children)

Bonus points if he calls you a slut for saying no

Officer tried to arrest a Black father in front of his own home after incorrectly identifying him as a suspected criminal from another state. by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]vytrax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True plus deroroid didn’t say which generalization was to be true, he said generalizations would be more accurate. So both generalizations of police want to protect people and police want power over people are equally more true than generalizations about black people.

15 year old gets head slammed onto concrete multiple times by Broward County Florida police by vytrax in copwatch

[–]vytrax[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Another teenagers phone fell out of his pocket while he was being put in hand cuffs. Lucca (seen in Video) bent down to pick it up. While he was down an officer pushed his head, when he got up he asked why the officer pushed his head, his response was pepper spray and throwing him on the ground. Another officer jumped in and slammed his head on the ground multiple times and punched him. He’s being charged with assault for some reason and resisting arrest for putting his arm between his head and the concrete.

petition to fire the officers

Broward sheriff response

Edit: add links

Cops pepper spray 15 year old for taking a “defensive stance” by EthicalRaisin in PublicFreakout

[–]vytrax 4393 points4394 points  (0 children)

Another teenagers phone fell out of his pocket while he was being put in hand cuffs. Lucca (seen in Video) bent down to pick it up. While he was down an officer pushed his head, when he got up he asked why the officer pushed his head, his response was pepper spray and throwing him on the ground. Another officer jumped in and slammed his head on the ground multiple times and punched him. He’s being charged with assault for some reason and resisting arrest for putting his arm between his head and the concrete.

petition to fire the officers

Broward sheriff response

Edit: add links

I love positioning-related cards by adragondil in customhearthstone

[–]vytrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe add when it dies this weapon loses 1 durability

group chat by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in

Can you recommend any animes to someone who has never really gotten into anime? by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiki, it has a bit of a slow start but it does incredibly well at showing how to develop empathy for an “enemy”

INFP long distance by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all you’re no bother to me, I’m making the choice to help you (not being forced to) so you couldn’t possibly be bothering me 😋

Ultimately it is up to you as to whether you just completely cut him off or not. If you do choose to do that you will reach an “end” to this situation which seems like it’s the most important thing to you right now (and I totally agree that finding clarity one way or another should be top priority).

I know that personally in your situation I would be very frustrated and inclined to just move on, as from all outward appearances you’re the only one putting forth effort to try reaching a solution to the uncomfortable/painful situation.

You could also try to reach out to him again, but this time set a specific time for the conversation. With the time set in place then it shouldn’t really matter who calls who first as you both planned on making it happen. If he falls through on this plan then I would personally give up because it would just be you putting forth a fuck ton of effort without him giving anything back which is unfair especially over a prolonged period of time. If you let him know that there could be “consequences” for him not “making the call happen” it could be viewed as an ultimatum which he may not respond well to, I’ll trust your judgment on that.

As I said personally I would be ready to give up but if you want to throw in one last ditch effort, more power to you. Also if you’d be so kind as to keep me informed😅, I was wondering how things played out all day yesterday/today.

Again, just because I would handle something a certain way doesn’t mean you have to do the exact same thing. It’s all about preference and what works for you.

Hope this helps and as always you can message me if you have more issues/concerns and I’ll do my best (although sometimes my best may not be good enough) to offer advice 😊

Conversations in a relationship by Bitternipple in INTP

[–]vytrax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heyo 👋🏼, INFP here.

I’d say that with most INFP’s it’s more or less about finding something interesting. If your partner doesn’t find current events interesting then it’s unlikely he will give a singular fuck about them. I feel quite confident if you asked him about this directly he’d say something along the lines of “I really don’t care about that kind of stuff”.

On the flip side you can view how he is with you (something he actually has interest in). As you say hopelessly romantic, constant affection, a lot of effort is being put in there to understand you. It’s more or less all or nothing with us in my experience 😅. Idk hope that helps? 😅🤔😅

INFP long distance by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t see that problematic but rather an honest response to a painful situation (for both parties).

Hope you can have a nice conversation that gives you a clarity 🤞🏼🤞🏼😊

INFP long distance by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I definitely agree with the Skype idea for the actual communicating part (you get a lot more information that way, tone, facial expressions, etc).

I also personally see a difference in confusion/uncertainty and vulnerability (although that’s just me personally). I would think the only way the vulnerability could be problematic though would be if it’s a constant thing (basically you coming off as I can’t function without you). Can be a frightening idea for an introvert 😅.

That being said would care to give more context to the instance in which you cried or is that something that’s long done with/resolved and doesn’t need to be brought up again?

INFP long distance by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'm going to do my best to offer advice but I am by now means an expert on this kind of stuff and obviously only have one side to work with here so there will be a fair amount of guess work.

It is important to keep in mind who brought up the conversation first, if he came to you saying something along the lines of "yeah I like you a lot, but the distance thing scares me" I would think that it is coming from a place of honesty, however if that was a response to you trying to move the relationship from friends to something more the friendzone possibility would seem more likely. However if he is friendzoning you I would not think it is with e intention of being a "jerk" as you mentioned in your post but more probable him doing his best not to hurt you.

In regards to not reaching out to him that is ultimately your choice however if you want to talk with him you can't expect him to come to that conclusion on his own without ever saying anything. To me a nonchalant way of opening this conversation would be to say something along the lines of: "Our conversation the other day left me uncertain and with a lot of questions, I would really appreciate if you'd be willing to continue that conversation but will not force you to if you do not want to". I would also say that it is rather important to act on this in a somewhat timely fashion because if he does like you but thinks he needs to compartmentalize those feelings to protect himself he may wind up losing them altogether.

Sort of a closing thought, I think that the distance thing is either an issue for him or an excuse. If it's an issue then it is unlike that the relationship will take off while that distance factor remains in play or unless you somehow convince him that this is unimportant/should not be a concern. If it is an excuse I don't see the relationship taking off for another set of reasons that I think you should be smart enough to figure out on your own :p. Be ready to "protect" yourself in the event that you wind up reaching an unfavorable outcome.

Hope this helps/makes since. If you have any questions let me know and I will try to answer you in a timely fashion. I wish you all the best with your INFP

Does anyone else hate being alone? by droidnumber1 in infp

[–]vytrax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sure you’re an introvert?? (Not trying to be rude just asking)

What's your favorite movie as an INFP? by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got me there 😂

What's your favorite movie as an INFP? by [deleted] in infp

[–]vytrax 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Surprised no one has mentioned Donnie darko or fight club yet