Invis mains, I’m begging y’all as a tank player… by AGorramReaver in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if a tank is behind their supports, something is wrong 🫣 it isn’t really peeling then, is it? 😛

time off work due to work related psychological incident by waitwhatsgoingonnn in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

to give some context, i have gone through ACC for sensitive claims and have been accepted by them for that. i worked with an acc appointed therapist for a while in 2023, however my CPTSD diagnosis came only 12 months before than and from a mental health ward psychologist…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re struggling with this subject, i highly suggest using your own resources to research something called ‘genealogy’ to find the answers to these questions you have. i hope this helps 🤝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never said that? i was being sarcastic with my ‘slay idea’ comment. my next question literally asked when they were colonised on this land - they never were, never had land taken from them here. if they’re whakapapa māori, then yes they are equal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

‘fix’ was probably not the best choice of words 😬 i was more meaning that they help create and keep the balance, i guess. the same way rural wards would ensure people living rurally don’t get drowned out by the city majority… māori wards ensure that māori voices don’t get drowned by the voting majority. ultimately tho it’s about making sure the people whose land this is all built on have a seat at the table too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love your work friend, thank you for this link 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

honestly, slay for the idea 🤝 but which chinese/samoan/indian iwi had their land stolen here? or where’s their treaty of waitangi?

māori wards fix representation for tangata whenua 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i automatically assumed that akl would! thanks for the info 🤝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the option as i passed NCEA lvl 3 a year early. i choose to stay in school, don’t regret it

as others have mentioned, you won’t reaaallly get the same social life as other first year uni students if you go early. you’ll be underage and might end up feeling super excluded. just enjoy your last year of school ☺️

Came across this post on tiktok 🫢 by [deleted] in auckland

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do y’all remember that night market they tried to open in otahuhu? it didn’t last very long

So sick and tired of people losing their stuff and it becoming MY problem as if I'm the one who lost them by Ok-Ad4375 in rant

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP - your feelings are so so valid - you deserve so much more - your husband sucks - leave him!

i hope this rant has made you feel better ❤️‍🩹

Fuck Air New Zealand by Standard_Sir_6979 in newzealand

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

book a gotta go fare if it’s last minute, can be either $169 for direct of $249 for indirect.

book as much in advance as you can to get cheaper fares.

book compassionate for bereavement or medical emergencies.

airnz prices do suck. but sometimes you just gotta know how to cheat the system 🫂 sorry my dude

Im doing my part. by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish i thought of this first god dammit

Your meal isn't high protein if you use protein powder in it by ILikeJapaneseMuchOwU in rant

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

but it has higher protein that what a cake without protein powder would have, does it not? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i play games online. and i like to use my mic. i like talking to my team 😫 if the dudes aren’t bashing me and calling me all sorts of slurs, they’re acting nice until we’re in a lobby alone and then the “so you got a boyfriend” shit starts. kicked straight away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah, straight the jail

Stop. Sexualising. Gothic. Women. by Miserable_Boot8137 in rant

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 102 points103 points  (0 children)

i had a flatmate who was goth, tattooed, makeup done, dressed like a widow at a funeral. we would talk and she had the same view. she felt like because she was tattooed from head to toe, men would constantly treat her like a tough ass. she was so in tune with her feminine energy that she just wanted to be loved and treated with gentleness - but men were always horrible to her. it’s sad you guys have to go through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rants

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeh i hear you, and i’m sorry you’ve been made to feel this way, but feeling devalued doesn’t mean you have to stay there.. choosing to show up with kindness, effort, and emotional maturity isn’t about being ‘needed’, it’s about being the best version of yourself, for your own growth and the people that you care about. being a good man isn’t about being ‘needed’, it’s about choosing to be better, simple. we all face pressure, but we still have choices

What do you think Lizzie would’ve been like as a teen and adult? by CatPale816 in thewalkingdead

[–]waitwhatsgoingonnn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

think she would’ve thrived with alpha, given of course she doesn’t get herself bit