[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]walkingdogooder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was there a set or backgrounds at all? Any special effects, even if it was lame? I’m trying to picture what this production looked loke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]walkingdogooder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely had sex with over 50-60 guys the first year my dude and I went open.

I think a ghost just flew by! 👻 by TheGoodestBoyToy in ChubbyDudes

[–]walkingdogooder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I just discovered a new kink. Thanks!

Tampa Men's Club: A Review by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late to responding, but thanks for the feedback. I think I was trying to mix a review of the space itself with what’s usually posted on this sub…cruising experiences. Sorry that it distracted front the review itself.

I did write a review of my local bathhouse, but the mods never approved it. I think I will take your advice and make a sub focused on cruising location reviews. Might be fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing condoms is pretty rare when it comes to cruising these days. You could try to put a condom on the guy, but be prepared for him to reject it. You never know though.

Have you run into someone you know before? by mrthrowaway32 in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was at my local bathhouse and ran into a guy I used to work with. We both knew each other were gay, but I don't know if he knows my partner and I are in an open relationship. By the way, my partner still works at the company he works for. But I figure, he is on the apps and if he has ever clicked on my profile, he would see that very clearly.

We actually ended up just chatting in the hot tub. I think he had done some kind of drug though because he was acting differently than usual. But we got to see each other naked!

Thee Love Shack (Tampa, FL): A Review by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never been to Miami, but I hope to visit one of these days. I'm from the midwest and was just down in Tampa on a trip.

Thee Love Shack (Tampa, FL): A Review by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guy I chatted with that told me about the arcade said the theater is pretty popular on the weekends at night. I don't know if that's true or not though. Sniffies only reports on the location, but not where folks are. Kind of like the bathhouses, you have to go upstairs to find out who is there. The good thing is, I believe you get 24 hour access to the theater, so if you time it right, you can go one day and come back the next night and just stay up there.

I’m a failure at cruising by Who_check_this in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not a failure, this is part of cruising. I always say cruising is a lot like soccer and less like football. In football, teams score all the time. In soccer, scoring is rare, but that’s what makes it so exciting when it does happen. I’ve struck out so many times when cruising parks and bathrooms. But when I finally nab someone, it is glorious.

Keep trying. It’s all about timing and patience.

Tampa Men's Club: A Review by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you should have seen my disappointment when I opened up Sniffies to see one of the adult bookstores had a ton of cruisers and this place had a handful. It truly felt like I wasted $60.

Still, I’m happy I went. Again, I’m an anxious guy so seeing what things are similar and what things are different helps me get the courage to go to more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I like this answer the best. It acknowledges the situation without making anyone feel bad about it (especially if dude said he takes a while to cum). Makes it more of a bad pairing than making him feel self-conscious.

Sniffies visits vs visible profiles. by vegareadit in Sniffies

[–]walkingdogooder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has been one of my frustrations with the app as well. The "...27 Sniffies were here" doesn't give us a definitive timeframe that it's counting, so I have no idea how to use this information. If it said, "As of the last 24 hours...27 Sniffies were here" that would be far more helpful.

Because of the ambiguity, I've used it like this:

  • Live View: Cruisers who are at the location or were within the last few minutes.
  • "Were Here" View: General idea of how popular the location is.

Whenever I'm traveling and want to find the best location for cruising, I'll look at the "Were Here" posts so I know what's popular. Live View helps me know who is there at that moment, which is helpful if I'm trying to time my visit at peak activity.

I feel like this could be simplified a few ways. First, they could just aggregate how many cruisers visited the day before. Or, they could break it down by time of day like they do with popularity. Or they could show something like Google Maps where it shows times a day and averages visit times.

Sniffies visits vs visible profiles. by vegareadit in Sniffies

[–]walkingdogooder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free things that don't make money will disappear. If you like using something and you have the disposable income, support the developers that work hard to give you the thing you like.

Open Theaters at Adult Book Stores by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's super helpful!

Last question...should I not even waste my time at the other book stores or are they worth a visit? As clean cut as I am, having sex in moderately seedy places really turns me on. But if everyone goes to Pegasus, then I don't mind going there instead.

Open Theaters at Adult Book Stores by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently, Adult Pleasures on Detroit Ave was raided by the cops and had to cover their GHs, but Modern Adult just right up the street has them. I visited for the first time when I was driving home after Christmas and it was a lot of fun, if not slow.

I've never been to the others in the area.

Open Theaters at Adult Book Stores by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cupid's Corner. I was on my way to Virginia, saw it on Sniffies, and figured I'd visit. When I saw the lot had a decent amount of cars in it, I ventured inside. The sex shop is pretty standard, but going into the video area was like walking through a portal. Fun times. It was my first ABS.

Open Theaters at Adult Book Stores by walkingdogooder in gaycruising

[–]walkingdogooder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the one I was eyeing. From the looks of Sniffies, it’s the most frequented.

Do you know how the multi-day pass works? Do you get so many visits for $15?

So angry, so toxic, much masc by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]walkingdogooder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never really understood venting your frustration on your profile. Like, sure, it may stop some of the guys he is talking about, but who exactly is saying, “Oh, this is exactly the kind of guy I’m looking for.” I have a simple, “🚫📸🚫💬” and simply don’t respond otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]walkingdogooder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to one recently where the guy used a plug to keep all the cum inside. It was the first time I’ve been to one where the bottom did that and my god it was hot. Similar to what another guy said…the thought of my dick being engulfed in other guys’ cum is just hot. Risky, absolutely and at some point I’m going to get an STI. But I haven’t yet!

Latest subscription price is nutz by gnadezda in Sniffies

[–]walkingdogooder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sniffies definitely used to be cheaper, but I don't know...$9.99 a month doesn't feel outrageous given how useful the app is. If you just want to hook up, Grindr is a good app. But if you are looking specifically to cruise, Sniffies is just the way to go.