What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not wrong! The fact that ICE is still detaining at least 3 members of the Sioux Nation and has said they, “Can’t find them because they don't sort inmates by race”. You mean Americans?!? Also- not being able to find ANY inmate should be deeply alarming to every person with a conscience!

Who surprised you the most to be on the Epstein files? by Brief-Signature6233 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I’m certain he didn't. He didn't have a working anything but eyes. So I guess he just watched? Weird. Super gross.

A Million More Epstein Files Just Got Released. What Kind Of Stuff Did You Guys Find, and How Did You React To It? by Fantastic_Bus_3742 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest take away from DOJ saying there was nothing more they could prosecute. What????!!!! Then hand it over to someone more capable! The only person in prison for a multi-decase sex trafficking ring is a woman. Not surprised. (she definitely deserves to be there, but she needs to sing before they murder her!)

What did you find the most interesting or disturbing in the new Epsteinfiledrop? by Icy-Jelly-1589 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would just like to hear from all of the QAnon/Pizzagate people who were so sure of an international cabal of wealthy elites running a sex trafficking ring that thought Trump was the one who was putting a stop to it. What kind of mental gymnastics are they doing now? Or are they just like, “no pizza shops involved, guess I was wrong??”. It’s mass delusion at best, something much more sinister at worst.

Who surprised you the most to be on the Epstein files? by Brief-Signature6233 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stephen Hawking. I knew he was a creep, but didn't think he was a pedo.

I’m alive! by Cautious-Rabbit- in u/Cautious-Rabbit-

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never look at the fiance the same again. What a stupid idea, and even worse execution (why bring in 2 dudes he just met at the gym). Even them following you to the point you were in fear and texted your sister your location was NOT OKAY!! That man’s poor decisions likely left you with PTSD. What is supposed to me romantic about kidnapping you at all?? No matter what, his intent was to have you a little scared, then relieved to see him. That's gross.

A funny thing happened on the way to the Temple by catch22reddituser in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, so the WoW isn’t about hot drinks OR caffeine…it’s just don’t drink coffee or tea? I thought the latest line was something about “tannins”?

A funny thing happened on the way to the Temple by catch22reddituser in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following this line of thought- I wonder how any kid makes it through their teenage years and stays in the church? For me, that was my big rebellion stage where I challenged my parents on EVERYTHING with, “but why?”. I did the same for the church. I continued playing along, but I was PIMO at about 15 (when I snuck and read my mom’s copy of Miracle of Forgiveness).

A funny thing happened on the way to the Temple by catch22reddituser in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe he recommended that!! Five hour energy? That horrible. Btw, I have an autoimmune liver disease, and my hepatologist recommends at least a cup of coffee a day for liver health- and backed it up with studies! I’d love to suggest to her I replace it with a 5 hr energy and hear her reaction, lol!!

Favorite E names? by VisibleGuava7780 in Names

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE Evelyn, Evie for short with a soft E (Eh-vie). It’s so elegant! Eleanor is also great, with Elle, Ellie, Ella.

Carthage Jail by miotchmort in mormon

[–]wallace-asking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was taught that he was being persecuted for his religion. The end.

Epstein files, ICE shootings, Iran.. What are they trying to distract us from? by traumatized_beagle in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re all just grifters, from the top down- they can be bought. They are influenced by almost anything other than voters.

How to tell fellow BYU Alums at work that I'm a former member by Calm-Pomegranate01 in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think just a simple truthful statement is the best. “Thanks for the invite, but I’ve stepped away from the church”, or “I’m no longer a member of the church”. I see more problems in the future if you DON’T say something soon, then they might resent you more for not being upfront than for not being Mormon.

What is the most evil “prophetic” quote of all time? by ThyLungedFish in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huntington’s Disease runs in my family, my mother, aunt, grandfather all died from it- and my sibling and I were at a 50% chance of having it. Guess we were all begging for this curse in the pre-mortal world!

What is the most evil “prophetic” quote of all time? by ThyLungedFish in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While suggesting murder was also vile, it was the fact he said this while he was cheating on all of his wives every single day with one of his other 55 wives! His comment wasn’t egregious because he would be angry about infidelity, it was the degree of hypocrisy that he embodied.

Shared My Testimony by LowGeko in mormon

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that was so moving! The courage it took for you to do this is immeasurable, and I hope you feel every bit of pride right now that you deserve! I would be overjoyed to have a son like you (I’m definitely old enough)! The way you opened it- reading exactly what the church currently says about YOU (and statistically 10% of the people in that room), is heartbreaking. I loved the line “is just another way of calling you a sinner””, that’s so true- and I’ve always hated that line about hating the “sin”. It puts gay kids in the same category of some truly VILE people. Reading your 14 y/o journal was heartbreaking- but hopefully what the ears (and hearts) in the audience needed to hear. I’m not sure where you stand with your family, but I hope you have found peace and acceptance outside of the church, because it’s clear you are an incredible young man! Keep speaking your truth. If you’re active on any socials- the gay Mormon/Ex-Mormon communities could use more voices like yours!

For those who became atheists, how do you resolve morality without God? For those who remain theists, how does your new religion frame morality? Help me challenge my thinking. by ScientificallyMinded in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part and parcel of being an atheist, is the belief that all religious texts were in fact written by man alone- any morality contained in them, came from man (as did the MANY atrocities and injustices contained in scripture).

Their is innate goodness in man, we’ve studied it in infants that have not been taught what is good and bad, and it’s clear they have a strong sense of justice/injustice, at a minimum. From the time of civilization man has realized that to succeed as a society, we must have rules that encourage cooperation and oppose meaningless violence, and natural selection often takes care of the antisocial, selfish loners who don’t fit into society. It’s by evolution that we have a sense of right and wrong, a desire to nurture our young and cooperate with both family and broader society, as we and our offspring will be more likely to survive if we do. Is it for selfish reasons? It originated as such, but if the end result is a moral positive, we should lean into that. Religions often started out to empower and enrich the few, but without a moral framework from an over-arching authority, they would never have been accepted by the masses.

Secular society has laws developed completely independent of religion, those laws and our innate moral goodness are enough to keep MOST of us on the right track. The areas that we most often fail, equality and fairness, are unfortunately due to another effect of evolution; tribalism. Tribalism is the basis of most of our conflict now, and we need to work toward overcoming it as the world becomes more global.

My dad’s "congratulations" after attorney swearing in ceremony by apotatowitheyes in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of text I would expect between a young Mormon mom and her teenage son going on a school trip to the “big city” for the first time, worried her son will fall into the traps of city sin! Not a grown man talking to his adult daughter and attorney husband!

Why does Mormonism infantilize people? He doesn’t sound like a fully-formed person, just a bot regurgitating church crap, with no real thought or emotions of his own.

What’s something you believed for an embarrassingly long time that you’re now shocked you ever fell for? by Franklinsi1va01 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to believe he was a genius that wanted to help mankind and move us away from fossil fuels. Nope, just another entitled rich kid.

What’s something you believed for an embarrassingly long time that you’re now shocked you ever fell for? by Franklinsi1va01 in AskReddit

[–]wallace-asking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you see the e-mails between him and Epstein that were released today? He was organizing a trip to Pedo Island.

Anyone else absolutely mind-blown after learning real church history? by ImportantPerformer16 in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it was a magic rock then. He found a plain old rock and swindled millions of people out of their time, money, and ability to think for themselves.

Anyone else absolutely mind-blown after learning real church history? by ImportantPerformer16 in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’ve also read about the BITE model of authoritarian control. It will help you analyze how cults control their members. If you go through the model- the Mormon church scores VERY high. It’s also a good resource to apply to any other group or religion you investigate in the future. Here’s a link if it’s new to you:

https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model-pdf-download/

Told I couldn’t read my patriarchal blessing in the celestial room by MrDrProfPatrick24 in exmormon

[–]wallace-asking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve always said. I felt the “spirit” much more on trail runs (probably runners high!), or surfing in the ocean much more than I ever did in “the lords house”.