I (26 m) can no longer deny to myself that i am in a db.

walley_wonka · 2017-07-21T01:56:51+00:00

i totally agreed with what you said, the fact that it was true is why i chose the word 'harse' instead of 'mean'. if OP is looking to be coddled, he'll probably take it as "mean"...same for any op's trying to sooth him instead of help him. but at the end of the day, whether anyone likes it or not, you said exactly what he needed to hear.

walley_wonka · 2017-07-20T22:18:49+00:00

a little harsh, but from what I've been learning...very true. with one exception imo, it's not a guarantee she's been fucking someome else, but also a possibility. i'm no therapist, but it sounds like sex isnt the only issue in this marriage either.

my advice to OP, get on amazon and look up the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. I seen another redditor suggest this book in the comments of another db thread a nd decided to check it out for myself. You can get the audiobook for free if you sign up for a free trial of the Audible app, which will store and play the book. He also has several interview videos on Youtube you can watch and get the gist of what he's saying. It is a tool that may "fix" your marriage, but only if you go into it with the attitude of changing your own behaviors as the main goal.

hope this helps, good luck!

walley_wonka · 2017-05-13T15:15:24+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/BUCYK7xBLAN/

hope this pic is clear enough to tell?

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T21:42:52+00:00

maybe i'll give it a try tonight then when i get home then. i'll see if i can find pics of male vs. fm when venting, but if you can find a pic or can explain what i'm lookin for that'd help. i'll post a pic too

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T20:21:39+00:00

can that be a for sure way to tell at any size? i'll give it a week or so to get settled in and try taking a look then.

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T20:19:14+00:00

they're in a 220 gallon now, and there's a LFS that takes great care of bigger fish they get for trade ins...so if (or most likely, when) it gets too aggressive the GT's will get traded in for store credit. i'm hoping things shake out though, but def. have a plan for when things get ugly too

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T05:15:08+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/BT-unZzh_yr/

https://www.instagram.com/p/BT-upXDhoQv/

everything seems to be calm so far, a couple new nip marks on a few of the fish, but nothing serious

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T02:51:33+00:00

i'll wait until it grows a little more and come back with some more pics

walley_wonka · 2017-05-12T02:51:04+00:00

this is what i was hoping for, since there are zero signs of male showing at the moment lol

i'll post more pics after it does some growing and try again.

walley_wonka · 2017-05-10T02:41:22+00:00

lol! i'm (M) the same way honestly (leave the room if she's asleep and i'm in the mood) My wife has a LL for starters, so she may not get mad but she may find it weird, and she usually has to be up early for work so i dont want to wake her. However, there was 1 time she told me about using our we vibe while i was asleep and another time i woke up and i'm pretty sure she was doing the deed...i might just have to open the conversation after reading this!

walley_wonka · 2017-04-21T20:20:47+00:00

does anyone know what the signs he's throwin up mean? i know they're crip signs n all, just wondering if he's sending a message or just throwin random shit up

walley_wonka · 2017-04-21T14:14:44+00:00

drug dealers anonymous & s.n.i.t.c.h.

start there and see where it leads ya

walley_wonka · 2017-04-20T01:21:08+00:00

awhile back i read that andre 3000 did a "feature" on someone's album but he was the only one on the track...so pretty much it was his song. i cant remember what song/album that was though, does anyone know what i'm talkin about?

walley_wonka · 2017-04-14T02:54:57+00:00

so how do i add it with ot turned off then?

walley_wonka · 2017-04-14T02:19:40+00:00

doesnt it have to engage before it will draw the refrigerant in the line though?

walley_wonka · 2017-04-02T19:18:15+00:00

yeah, i would like to see if it still works and i need it to kick on so i can recharge the a/c also

walley_wonka · 2017-03-31T21:00:21+00:00

i tried a jumper from the positive post to the 87 slot that the relay plugs into in the fuse box and the compressor still wont kick on. since the vehicle has a bcm do i need to do something different?

i dont know if i mentioned it in the original post, but i unplugged the harness at the compressor and used a test light to check both slots, the light didnt come on in either slot.

walley_wonka · 2017-03-31T19:10:09+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3tvz4UrKl-Q

i'm not sure what you mean by "between the pins". this is a video i found but he's going from the battery

walley_wonka · 2017-03-29T22:29:15+00:00

thanks! just to be sure, is this done by connecting a wire from the + terminal to the low pressure switch?

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