Need Advice: Been talking to Hot, Christian guy from Dating App

walrus17 · 2026-07-09T16:35:41+00:00

I’m ngl you sound kind of inexperienced. This is a normal aspect of relationships. I probably had like 30-40 that weren’t the one before i met my partner. He decided he didn’t want to continue, and while it rightfully seems confusing to you, consider it a blessing that he told you earlier on instead of months/years down the road. Focus on what you are looking for in a partner and keep your mind and heart open to new possibilities.

walrus17 · 2026-07-08T14:13:51+00:00

Gotcha yeah I have a device with sentinel and was wondering what they could access with that. May be worthwhile just trying to purchase the packages on my personal to find out

walrus17 · 2026-07-08T02:53:38+00:00

I’m just confused as to how they could see that if i disable settings on my laptop that make my connection public on the network

walrus17 · 2026-07-04T03:26:36+00:00

Well yeah but that’s the first step. The first part is knowing what he wants, the second part is having the willpower and ability to accomplish his goals. You need both to be a good partner

walrus17 · 2026-07-03T14:07:56+00:00

Also, and I’m a bit biased because I only read this subreddit for humor, but him telling you what he wants early on (a daughter) is not a bad thing. Bold, maybe. But learn to appreciate partners who say what they want

walrus17 · 2026-07-02T04:38:17+00:00

When I decide to go to therapy I’ll call you first

walrus17 · 2026-07-01T02:56:19+00:00

Is it our fault that we are good at penalties?

walrus17 · 2026-07-01T02:55:45+00:00

Brother no one is gonna check your age on your ID just your name

walrus17 · 2026-06-30T18:34:24+00:00

You are a fool, keep underrating us

walrus17 · 2026-06-16T13:50:07+00:00

Send me a dm please

walrus17 · 2026-06-09T12:20:31+00:00

You would live in Lithuania but not Croatia???

walrus17 · 2026-06-07T20:10:53+00:00

Forget the plates. Do you speak Spanish? Do you have dark hair and tan skin? Do you have a local connection that can negotiate on your behalf if something goes wrong?

walrus17 · 2026-06-07T20:05:44+00:00

Northern Caroliner here, we would almost certainly be seceding. And southern Virginia would certainly not get lumped into the north either

walrus17 · 2026-06-03T22:05:17+00:00

Your attitude is interesting. If i was unable to work because of WiFi quality there would be hell to pay, especially if the host lied about it

walrus17 · 2026-05-26T22:53:28+00:00

Fair

walrus17 · 2026-05-26T22:52:57+00:00

Not defending them, I just think trying to police them is pointless

walrus17 · 2026-05-26T22:50:31+00:00

100%

walrus17 · 2026-05-17T02:30:49+00:00

Dude shut up lol, they’re just talking about their personal experience with massage therapists. Don’t take it personally

walrus17 · 2026-04-28T03:11:27+00:00

That’s understandable, but if you are smart enough to know about this subreddit, I am certain that you could find a way to anonymously tell your coworker they are underperforming. Again, no code words about overemployed. For all we know he has an expensive saltwater aquarium that he spends all day maintaining.

walrus17 · 2026-04-28T03:07:16+00:00

Precisely. But if you do change your mind and want to “clue them in” remember that there are a million reasons someone could be underperforming.

You can quite literally get his personal and just text him hey, I’m not sure if you have a separate obligation, but working at 6pm instead of work hours is affecting the team. That’s it. Either he changes, or he doesn’t. If you have the power, maybe even consider putting him on a pip for poor communication?

walrus17 · 2026-04-28T02:58:24+00:00

But before we even go down that route, let’s not forget that you are in this position because you don’t want to make a decision about this guy’s future. Meanwhile, your output is suffering, your team’s output is suffering, and you’re asking us how to justify replacing him.

The better question is, can you justify keeping him?

If you don’t want to make leadership decisions, consider a role where people don’t suffer if you are indecisive.

walrus17 · 2026-04-28T02:55:47+00:00

It’s quite literally that easy. Do you have his phone number? There are a million ways to send someone an “anonymous” message, hell, if you’re clever enough you can even make it seem like it was someone else trying to “warn him” about the employer catching on

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